Constructive and Destructive Interference
1) One of the main arguments in favor of constructive and destructive interference is presented in a very understandable language by the
Khan Academy.
The idea is as simple as it is powerful. Light rays, or rather waves, move towards a point, and for that they travel a different distance according to their start position.
The difference between two distances determine whether the waves reinforce or negate each other. If the difference is one wave length then we have constructive interference, and by one half-wave length, destructive interference, with all gradations in between.
2) There is something peculiar about light waves. Unlike water waves whose wavelength play no role in the crossing of a split, as long as the split is high enough, for light waves the height of the split is apparently essential.
The wave length is defined as the distance between two peaks two troughs.
Imagine now that the wave has to go through a split as high as the amplitude of the wave, that is the height of the wave. The only obstacle to the wave will be formed by the width of the split since its height is more than sufficient.
But the width of the wave has, as far as I can see, no relationship with its wavelength.
For two waves to go at the same time through a split they would have to have a width each at most half that of the split.
I have not found any indication that the width of the wave played any role in constructive or destructive interference.
3) Something else. Water waves go up and down, but that has nothing to do with any kind of interference per se. It is a simple matter of gravity. Whatever goes up must come down.
About two waves colliding with each other. I can certainly imagine that the water will go higher than any of the waves through the collision, just like flying debris when two cars collide, but that's it.
The whole, mathematical concept of wave is based on the dichotomy peak and trough whereby the first is a positive factor while the second one is negative.
But a trough, at least as far as water waves are concerned, is, once again, the result of the water coming back down. There is not somehow a movement opposite to the the one creating the peaks. In fact, all the energy goes into creating those peaks, the troughs being more of a secondary phenomenon.
The mathematical picture of waves may have its uses as far as calculations are concerned, but it certainly does not give a realistic image of reality.
4) According to the theory, different points, or different waves, go to the same location. Transposed to image formation it would seem that from every point on an object rays are propagated to all points of the image.
Each point of the image is therefore the final and random result of the combination of an infinite number of rays. Statistically speaking, each image should contain as many cases of constructive as destructive interference, especially if it is a monochromatic image. A red object could therefore never look entirely red.