Life and Existence: Logical or Illogical (or both) or something else? The discussion doesn't seem to have much to do with "Is life/existence logical," which is a question that seems like a category error to me at any rate. Logic is a way that we think about relations. Asking if "life/existence is in general how we think about relations" doesn't make a heck of a lot of sense.
Re what we're actually discussing, we've actually talked about this quite a bit in a number of different threads recently.
My view on it is something I we could call "reference point relativism." Sometimes I talk about it in terms of reference frames instead of reference points, although with that there is a risk of confusion with respect to reference frames as they're traditionally approached in physics.
But the basic idea is that properties of objects vary at different spatio-temporal locations, including spatio-temporal locations on/in/etc. the objects themselves. That's because relations are an integral aspect of properties, and relations vary at different spatio-temporal locations. It's a spatio-temporal/relational situatedness, which isn't something that can be "escaped" in any sense. That has nothing to do with persons necessarily. But when persons are present, they experience this spatio-temporal/relational situatedness perceptually.
So, I'd say that the color or shape of a spinning ball, to use the example that we were discussing, isn't really something other than it appears to be at a particular reference point. It can appear to be different, contradictory ways at different reference points. None of those are more "real" than the other. They're just different.
In response to this issue in another thread, where the old "apparently bent object half-submerged in water" example was used, I said this (hopefully the allusions to specific things being discussed in that thread won't be too confusing):
"The whole point of my view is that talking about the properties of the water in the basin, to use your example, has to be done from some reference point/reference frame (I'm not using reference frame just the same as it's used in physics, just in case someone would think that I am), and talking about it with respect to 'the water itself' is just one reference point/frame out of a potential infinity of them, with it not being a preferred reference frame (since there are no objective preferences).
"So yes, properties are supervenient (if you like--I think that term can introduce some confusion) on underlying structure, but the underlying structure is 'everything in the reference frame.' It's only 'just the water' from the reference frame of only the water, which isn't a preferred reference frame. (Not that It's not-preferred compared to something else, either--again, there are no objective preferences.)
"So, for example, a coin really is round from some reference frames, and it's really oblong from other reference frames.
"The idea is a bit like perspective in visual art. Assuming we're trying to do something like realism (or photorealism), the properties of the items depicted will depend on the focal point of the image. From most angles, you can't draw a coin as something round, because it's not really round at that focal point, it's oblong. Or, the coin might really be as large or larger than a mountain from some focal points. That's not an illusion. It's really the way things are at that focal point. The underlying structure is everything in the reference frame, not just the coin, but the relative angle at that focal point, the lighting at that focal point, etc. And on, in, just above etc. the coin are all just different possible focal points.
"Focal point, by the way, doesn't imply a sentient creature's perspective. It's simply what things are like (in particular respects that we can represent visually in this case) relative to a particular spatio-temporal points. We can illustrate this sans sentient creatures with any machine that can measure properties from particular spatio-temporal locations--like a camera, for example."