The measure problem Your claims seem a little arbitrary. Especially your claim that the multiverse being seen on the one hand as a multitude and on the other as a single object makes it self-contradictory. A bunch of bananas is both a single object and a multitude of bananas.
I don't think it's a good idea to rely on human intuition when it comes to physics. The human brain has evolved to cope with our everyday experiences, not with the laws of physics. Think about relativity and quantum mechanics - very unintuitive!
Do you have any logical reasoning (not involving human intuition, but based on the laws of physics or mathematics) for why an infinite thing could not exist in reality?
I don't think the concept of a set having to be 'collected' quite applies to what can and cannot exist in reality. I may not be able to create an infinite collection, or even imagine all the members of an infinite set, but reality doesn't have to 'collect' anything - infinite things can exist simultaneously without having to be created one by one.