Yeah of course, because their income is already small! When you apply a percentage to a small income, you're not going to get a huge dollar amount return will you?!The poorest will gain a measly 100 bucks each on average (or pay 380 more, which they can't afford). — Baden
Yes, ONLY 6.8% of the poorest 20% will get that $380 tax increase that you're talking about. That is very unfortunate, but one would hope that growths in the job market and salaries can offset that if the economy starts doing better.6.8% of the poorest 20% will NOT get a tax cut, but rather will pay more tax under the Trump tax plan.
No, as far as I see it, 64.5% of the poorest 20% also get a tax break - that is most of them. And only 6.8% of the poorest see their taxes go up, while 26.9% of the richest 20% will see their taxes increase. That seems quite fair to me.The richest will gain 20,000 bucks more each on average (which they don't need, or pay 3990 more, which will make hardly a difference to them). Also, it's the richest three bands that have the highest percentage of beneficiaries as well as the highest net benefits. That equates to tax cuts for the rich, or if you want to be more precise, tax cuts overwhelmingly aimed at benefitting the rich. — Baden
The US needed budget cuts even if we were to ignore the tax cuts that Trump seeks to introduce. Also tax cuts aren't just for the wealthy.You realize that all that red is intended to finance tax cuts for the rich and that the debt is projected to increase right?? — Baden
So the so called tax cut for the rich that you're crying about is actually just a 4.6% cut in tax. Also the 35% tax applies at earlier points than before.Ordinary income -- things like wages, business income and interest -- are currently taxed at seven possible rates depending on your income level: 10%/15%/25%/28%/33%/35% and 39.6%. The top rate of 39.6% kicks in at around $480,000 of income if you're married; $417,000 of income if you're single.
Under the Trump plan, the seven bracket system would be replaced with three rates: 10%, 25%, and a top rate of 35%. The May rollout did not include any detail as to at what level of income those rates would apply, so the TPC had to fill in the blanks by assuming that the income breaks Trump proposed during his campaign would be adopted; thus, the Center assumed that the 10% bracket would apply up to $37,500 of income ($75,000 if married), while the 25% bracket would apply on income up to $112,5000 ($225,000 if married), with the 35% rate applying to all income above those amounts.
I get a feeling you're just being paranoid.Lowest 20%: Income $0 - $25,000.
How many get a tax cut? 64.5% of taxpayers earning less than $25,000 will get a tax cut.
How much, on average, will those getting a tax cut save? On average, those enjoying a tax cut will save $100.
How many will have a tax increase? 6.8% of the poorest 20% will NOT get a tax cut, but rather will pay more tax under the Trump tax plan.
How much, on average, will those with a tax increase pay in additional tax? On average, those experiencing an increase will pay an additional $380.
Next 20%: Income $25,000 - $46,800
How many get a tax cut? 70.3% of taxpayers earning between $25,000 and $46,800 will get a tax cut.
How much, on average, will those getting a tax cut save? On average, those enjoying a tax cut will save $520.
How many will have a tax increase? 23.9% of the next 20% will NOT get a tax cut, but rather will pay more tax under the Trump tax plan.
How much, on average, will those with a tax increase pay in additional tax? On average, those experiencing an increase will pay an additional $640.
Next 20%: Income $46,800 - $86,100
How many get a tax cut? 75.1% of taxpayers earning between $46,800 and $86,100 will get a tax cut.
How much, on average, will those getting a tax cut save? On average, those enjoying a tax cut will save $1,320.
How many will have a tax increase? 23.8% of the next 20% will NOT get a tax cut, but rather will pay more tax under the Trump tax plan.
How much, on average, will those with a tax increase pay in additional tax? On average, those experiencing an increase will pay an additional $990.
Next 20%: Income $86,100 - $149,400
How many get a tax cut? 77.8% of taxpayers earning between $86,100 and $149,400 will get a tax cut.
How much, on average, will those getting a tax cut save? On average, those enjoying a tax cut will save $2,640
How many will have a tax increase? 22.0% of the next 20% will NOT get a tax cut, but rather will pay more tax under the Trump tax plan.
How much, on average, will those with a tax increase pay in additional tax? On average, those experiencing an increase will pay an additional $2,260.
Richest 20%: Income > $149,400 -
How many get a tax cut? 73.0% of taxpayers earning more than $149,400 will get a tax cut.
How much, on average, will those getting a tax cut save? On average, those enjoying a tax cut will save $19,510.
How many will have a tax increase? 26.9% of the richest 20% will NOT get a tax cut, but rather will pay more tax under the Trump tax plan.
How much, on average, will those with a tax increase pay in additional tax? On average, those experiencing an increase will pay an additional $3.990.
The issue is a lot more complicated than your simplistic picture. Yes he does cut out budgets for several state programs that were meant for the disadvantaged, but he also finances some other programs. For example, he cuts out after-school programs that are meant to educate disadvantaged children so that they do better in school, and replaces it with a $1.4 billion in-school program. And so on so forth. America needs a budget cut. It seems to me that only someone financially illiterate can suggest otherwise. Here's a summary:Yes, it was fake news that made me think Trump's budget included over a trillion dollars in cuts to anti-poverty measures — Baden

Yes, I would certainly say so. Communities of people are allowed to express their opinions freely.So Mill's "the moral coercion of public opinion" is a misuse of the term? — Banno
No, they wouldn't, but they would be unacceptable because of the consequences that they can give rise to.So... threats of physical violence, terrorist propaganda, and such things would count as coercion? — Banno
Yes, absolutely, so long as what is being said doesn't include threats of physical violence, terrorist propaganda, and such things.But the wider point is that apparently you think one can say anything? — Banno
Well her testimony is correct, Christ must come before husband/wife or children. The reason for this is that without Christ as a foundation, husband/wife, children, etc. are all without value and will be lost anyway. If you read Kierkegaard's Works of Love for example, you'll see why God must be the foundation of the love between two people for example, or otherwise that love will not last. Namely two lovers cannot swear their love by themselves - for they are changing and finite - they must swear by the eternal God who alone is unchanging and infinite and can guarantee eternity to their love (and what love doesn't thirst for eternity, isn't love). Thus they swear by duty, not by themselves.Her testimony convicts her and her church's teachers. — Bitter Crank
I haven't read the post super carefully, but I'm not sure what exactly she did or didn't do to her son when she found out that he is gay, so it's a bit difficult to comment. I get the sense that she reduced communication with him, but I also get the sense that the son has also been very aggressive towards her. So I'm not sure what to say.They are certainly "sharp, shocking, and grim". — Bitter Crank
I don't think they proposed killing their son for being gay, castrating him, or the like :s so I'm not sure what you're talking about.Their thinking is no different than the kind of savage theology practiced by Muslim fundamentalists -- cutting off the hands of thieves, killing women for shaming the family, or throwing homosexuals off the roofs of buildings. — Bitter Crank
I would call her someone who thinks homosexual sex is immoral (maybe she also thinks homosexuality itself is immoral, I don't know that).Well, what would you call her? A "not-enthusiastic about homos"? A "hetero-preferer"? "Homo annoyed"? — Bitter Crank
That depends. What if, for example, the gay son hates her for not approving of his actions and is deliberately being hateful towards her? That also escalates conflict, you know. The situation isn't as simple as you make it out to be.Look, if you are willing to slam the door on your own gay son, you probably are going to feel something similarly hateful when you see two guys kissing. — Bitter Crank
Have you been tuning in to fake news? X-) I mean, for example, not enough time has passed yet for him to have increased or decreased poverty in the first place. That's certainly too early to judge.Cons:
Ballooning debt
Increasing poverty
Degrading environmental protections (locally and globally)
Encouraging xenophobia
Legitimizing vulgar discourse
Legitimizing corrupt business practices
Attacking freedom of the press
Excessively increasing military spending
Decreasing security (e.g. increasing threat of nuclear war)
Disregarding honesty / integrity of office
Delegitimizing judiciary / constitutional checks and balances — Baden
My point is correcting the false things you've been saying about me for no reason:Good for you man. You realize you are supremely self righteous and arrogant sounding right now. Your point is what? — schopenhauer1
(except you, because you are an asexual god who puts his energies in all these productive and godly things, unlike that nasty sex stuff that the rabble-bachus-lovers are bitching on about :-} ). — schopenhauer1
I never started talking about myself until that point.(for the depraved that is, not the asexual godly-types such as yourself ;)) — schopenhauer1
I don't think I have superior powers.It was not about the superior powers of Agustino. — schopenhauer1
If you limited yourself to our culture, probably. But that's because we're (as a culture) obsessed with sex to begin with, and have an abnormally inflated desire for it.I am not saying it's so bad to be debilitating simply that it is one of the most aggressively negative desires due to the dissatisfaction it may cause. — schopenhauer1
Not really - marriage has been a much more important "drama" in the story of humanity than sex. Don't forget that in the past many of the marriages were also arranged by the family, so many people simply had to marry whoever they were told to marry, and had little choice in it. Furthermore, amongst the ruling class, marriage was always problematic, because rulers were often not able to marry who they wanted, but had to marry who it was strategic for them to marry - effectively their birth didn't allow them to experience and share true love.The pursuit, sustaining, the drama is a large part of humanity and shows up in almost all literature starting with the earliest tales, epics, and poems. — schopenhauer1
:-! >:OBecause, Agustino, it's your Christian duty to contribute to the supply of happiness, and every man has to do his share. The truth is, you are contributing less sex to the common good than most men. We want you to gird up your loins, get out there, and fuck your brains out like everybody else. It is simply unacceptable that some people should die in want of satisfactory orgasms while others are sitting on the sidelines nattering on about Epicureans.
Given your self-acknowledged physical fitness and business acumen, you are assigned a donated orgasm quota of 10 orgasms per week. Please, no complains. Men your age should be able to produce 14 to 21 orgasms a week in their partners. If you need more incentive, one of our agents can visit you and provide all the incentives you could possibly desire. You should not be with the same partner all the time. Spread the wealth, don't pile it up in one place. (Do we need to say your orgasms do not count against your quota?) — Bitter Crank
Yeah so what? I don't seem to be troubled by the fact others eat more icecream than I do, why should I be troubled by the fact that others have more sex than me? :sSo there is this pleasure which some get more of and others less. — schopenhauer1
Yeah, I think sex is a very pleasurable activity in the right circumstances, which are quite rare. And no, if you're suggesting I'm asexual, then I'm not.Assuming (excepting the rare asexual) there are people who like the pleasure of sex equally, it is not as equally distributed. — schopenhauer1
So considering sex in most conditions to be a bad thing is repressed. Why? And why is that self-righteous? :sUgh, this sounds horribly repressed and self-righteous to boot. — schopenhauer1
Yeah, I also heard doing heroine feels really good too, wanna try? X-) If no, then why not? Just because something feels really good isn't sufficient reason to try it. You seem to have adopted (willingly or unwillingly) the prevailing mentality of our current Western society without questioning it.Some things are more pleasurable and desirable than others. I don't know, but I've heard sex feels really good. — schopenhauer1
As I said, I think in most circumstances having sex does cause distress and dissatisfaction. That's exactly why abstinence is so prominent in most religions.If you do not think that sex causes distress or dissatisfaction, then why is it so prominent in most religions? — schopenhauer1
Because we live in a culture that is overly obsessed about sex. Why? Probably because sex can be used as a tool of selling more consumer goods.Social commentary? Social media? Discussions? Books? Articles? News? Comedy? It's everywhere and desired by many- if not almost everyone. — schopenhauer1
Sure.Some things are more pleasurable than others. — schopenhauer1
Yeah, in today's age sure. That's reflective of the general culture though, and it's exactly what we'd expect.I'm not opposed to asceticism- I'm a Schopenhauer fan for Christ's sake. However, I don't see many ascetics in the general population. — schopenhauer1
Because controlling desires - any desires, not just sexual - can be difficult.Also, what is the reason why asceticism is a struggle for many? — schopenhauer1
I do want sex provided it is in those circumstances that I mentioned (married relationship, with the right person who loves me and I love her). It is a bit frustrating that that's hard to get, but not the end of the world man. Some self esteem is in order. There's also a few other things that I want and that are somewhat painful because I don't have them, but that's life. I don't make a big deal out of it, there's also plenty that I do have that I should be happy about in the meantime.Oh, right because desires, especially ones like sexual intercourse, seem to be a pretty tough one to overcome for many (except you, because you are an asexual god who puts his energies in all these productive and godly things, unlike that nasty sex stuff that the rabble-bachus-lovers are bitching on about :-} ). — schopenhauer1
:s okay so? It's possible to watch even porn which is a lot more vivid than just sounds, and not feel aroused by it.I don't know if you ever heard people having some good sex before (if they are not faking) but, I hear it can be titillating (for the depraved that is, not the asexual godly-types such as yourself ;)) — schopenhauer1
So what?! Why does it matter others are getting their preferences met and the listener isn't? Why is it such a big deal? Is the world all about you?! Envy is a poison that just ruins your soul and makes you unable to enjoy what you already have based on your lack of things.Anyways, the point was really a metaphor for the fact that THEY are getting some, and the listener is not. — schopenhauer1
Well no, I actually kinda know most people live in this way of seeing things, and have a permanently low self esteem. But that's not the only way to live life.I know that is hard for you to believe, being that you are far superior than the depraved rabble. — schopenhauer1
Yep. Still not a big deal. I too "suffer" from not having that (at least yet) - but - no big deal.If average throw-away sex is only just so good, the limited amount of good relationship-sex (if your theory is correct) is even that much more limited, as good relationships themselves between two romantic lovers is even harder to find. Thus, it is that much more unequally distributed. — schopenhauer1
:-}Yep. — schopenhauer1
Why not? :PAgustino, surely you can't be serious with this rubbish statement. — Maw
Why is this a problem?Sex is unequally distributed. — schopenhauer1
Nope, I wouldn't go that far. This would be to presuppose sex is some sort of "god" that we all must have to live a fulfilled life, and that's just not the case. I wouldn't complain about the unequal distribution of steak for example. Sure, steak is great, some people never eat it their entire lives though. Many are stopped by their religion. Or by their culture which doesn't permit eating beef. So what?It is one of the most vicious sources of desire-seeking dissatisfaction in the world. — schopenhauer1
It does make a difference though, because sex in general isn't a good. The Epicureans realised this, and one of the things advocated by Epicurus to achieve the good life, even though he was an atheistic hedonist, was sexual abstinence.Whether it is sex in general, or sex with the most ideal mating partner, the unequal distribution of either one makes it on the balance, rather negative in a general population sense. — schopenhauer1
>:O >:OShe wants the guy to keep going as long as he can, harder, longer, etc. etc. . This is not trying to be a soft porn here — schopenhauer1
Well, if that person really wants to give AND to receive sexual pleasure, he does have two hands you know... >:O Jokes aside, I don't see why they would salivate for the pleasure of those other people in the first place :s - it's not like I go around salivating on the street when I see a person eating an ice cream. Indeed, if I was to salivate when seeing another person eat an icecream you'd say there's something wrong with me, and would probably recommend a trip to the psychologist. Likewise, there is something very wrong with our culture given our attitudes towards sex.That person listening to this, is not getting sex, is not providing (or being provided) the pleasure. — schopenhauer1
Well hearing that happened to me a few times, but it's really no more annoying than hearing loud music and the like. What it means for the individual, is that he or she should go to the people in question and tell them to be quieter.Now, what does this mean for the individual? — schopenhauer1
It's not the unequal distribution that causes misery. See, when you say that, you presuppose that if sex of the usual kind that goes on in the world was equally distributed, people would be happier. But that's not true. Most of the sex that goes on in the world actually leads to more pain than actual abstinence. Those few instances of sex that are truly fulfilling involve special circumstances that are often hard to come by, such as being married to the right person. Most people don't marry the right person because they're forced into marrying someone (usually the wrong person) by social pressure or they're just not patient enough to wait for the right person. Or if they do marry the right person they screw it up because they don't have the right values/beliefs that can make it work.This causes more misery. Again, unequal distribution. — schopenhauer1
:s - and some people eat steak more frequently than me, do they lead better lives?Either way, there is this primal thing that some people have more frequently, more qualitatively, etc. etc. while others do not. — schopenhauer1
No I'm not.But now you are condoning the coercion of those seeking an abortion... — Banno
:s That's not coercion! How is me saying something to you coercing you? Coercion means physically restraining them from getting to the abortion clinic.I gave an example of such coercion. You re-described it as "look(ing) down on you for your behaviour". — Banno
Yes, it's wrongly seen as a form of coercion.They are. They just cannot do it in front of the clinic, since that is seen as coercion. — Banno
No, I don't think I'd be fine with that. 150-m away from abortion providers is a public space, so people there should be able to say whatever they want. You don't have a right for others not to look down on you for your behaviour, whether that is having an abortion or having a gay marriage. People should be free to judge you if they so want. You cannot dictate what they are to think about you.So this law, making it illegal to harass people within 150-metres of abortion providers, would meet with your approval?
http://www.theage.com.au/victoria/women-avoid-prolife-protesters-for-the-first-time-in-decades-20160502-gok1gl.html — Banno
I don't think anyone is seeking to physically coerce them. Changing the law isn't physically coercing them.So would that legal agreement be that you would refrain from attempting to coerce those who seek abortions, and those who are willing to perform abortions? — Banno
Morally speaking it seems like no, because it appears you don't respect human life, because you have no respect for some necessary stages of that life.Is it possible to reach some sort of agreement? — Banno
:s There's no philosophical yoga. It's an absolutely natural position. You need philosophical yoga to assert that a blastocyst - if left alone - doesn't develop into a fully grown human being. Now everyone understands what left alone means. It means you don't purposefully interfere with its development. And now you claim that it is parasitic on the woman's body - so what? If left alone, will it develop in a fully grown human being? Yes! A blastocyst is a necessary stage in the lifecycle of a human being.I have no great interest in the abortion debate; nor in the philosophical yoga you need in order to support a position you inherited from your religion. — Banno
Anything that is in the process of developing into a fully grown human being if there is no external interference (blastocyst, baby, child, teenager, etc.), and any person who is actually an adult or old woman/man.The difference is not moral, but about what counts as a human. — Banno
Linguistics. Yes, we linguistically distinguish between different stages of what a chicken is, but fact of the matter is that the egg is a necessary part of the life stages of a chicken. Why do we distinguish linguistically? Oh well, because, for one, you can do different things with an egg than you can with a fully grown chicken. But this isn't to say they're not both two different stages of the same life.That view is wide open to debate. I had a fried egg for breakfast, not a fried chicken. — Banno
No it's not. It's to say that I must behave morally to you, which is false. I should behave morally to you, but that's not a MUST (or an entitlement).But as I understand, to say that I am entitled to not be punched by you is just to say that it is wrong for you to punch me. — Michael
Then what is this below? :snot explaining what that difference is — Michael
The difference between the two is that one case speaks of what's moral and immoral without making me entitled to something, while the other says that I'm entitled to have you behave morally to me, which is false. You should behave morally to me, but I'm not entitled to it. — Agustino
Yes that's exactly right. The difference between the two is that one case speaks of what's moral and immoral without making me entitled to something, while the other says that I'm entitled to have you behave morally to me, which is false. You should behave morally to me, but I'm not entitled to it.So you're not entitled to freedom of expression but it's wrong for me to restrict your freedom? Again, I fail to see the difference. — Michael
In what sense is there no way to reconcile the two positions?and your point here is, as I understand you, that there is no way to reconcile our two positions? — Banno
Absolutely, just like an egg that has started to develop is a chicken.So your contention is that a blastocyst is a human being. — Banno
Saying that I have a right gives the impression that I am entitled to it. But I'm not entitled to anything. In this day and age all the leftists and liberals behave as if they're entitled to everything. That's outrageous.What's the difference between saying that it is morally (or legally) impermissible for me to restrict your freedom of expression and saying that you have a right to freedom of expression? Seems like much the same thing to me. — Michael
It's not a question of rights, it's a question of what's legally and morally permissible. It's not morally or legally permissible to use force to stop someone's expression. But there's no "rights" in there. Rights are fictions.So a religious (or nonreligious) person doesn't have the right to freedom of expression? — Michael
As far as I'm concerned rights do not exist. Talking about a "right to marry" is nonsense. There's no such right for anyone. If a priest refuses me to marry the woman I love, then he hasn't wronged me, because I don't have a "right to marry" in the first place. I will go look for another priest. But what I will not do is violently protest like a snowflake liberal about how oppressed I am...Nope. — Agustino
Morally speaking no, because he would be harming a human being. But if there are people around the world who want to live in such barbaric societies, who can stop them?And if the doctor had no issues with the removal, that would be fine? — Banno
Sure.Outside of self defense, for example, a religion has no legal standing in the USA to physically harm an LGBT person, for example. — Brian
Yes, I would object to forcing a doctor to remove it. If it is against the moral values of the doctor, the doctor shouldn't be forced to do it.SO you would not object to it being removed. — Banno
Nope.So presumably if asked to participate in a vote on whether homosexuals ought have the right to marry, you would say "yes". — Banno
No religions cannot be obliged to recognise gay marriage for example. Indeed, that would be to harm religious believers and to restrict their freedom. Now gay people can surely set up their own "weddings" in gay communities, officiated by whoever they want to, but they cannot force a priest to officiate their ceremonies.An example: one's freedom of religious expression ceases when it harms another; by restricting their marital status, or preventing having a blastocyst removed? — Banno
Nope, having a blastocyst inside of you is not a harm. You don't get to decide what is a harm and what isn't a harm. These things are factual.or preventing having a blastocyst removed? — Banno
I wouldn't say she's exactly a homo-hater.If a belief system can be "sociopathic" (the term applies to persons) it's for providing a strong incentive to disassociate herself from her gay son. She's a homo-hater, encouraged by her religion. I get that she may be hurt and disappointed in her son -- at least as hurt and disappointed as her son is in her. — Bitter Crank
She evidently shows some degree of empathy for her son and feels pained by communicating less with him. It's true that she didn't handle the situation the best she could (I believe) but some element of alienation and separation is inevitable if people's views diverge so much.It has been said that in marriage, the pain and stress of divorce is greater than even the pain of losing a spouse to death. I believe the same can be said of breaking ties with your child. Unless one has experienced this kind of loss and grief, they cannot fully understand the depth of pain experienced by a parent.
Someone may ask, “Why would anyone break ties with her own child?” The answer is, “loyalty to Jesus.” Being a disciple of Jesus demands our relationship to him be greater than our relationship to our own family, even our own children (Matthew 10:37).
I pray that you never have to make such a sacrifice, but I also pray that you love the Lord enough to choose Him over your children. This is where we find ourselves. This is our life. Our oldest son has turned his back on the Lord, and in spite of all our attempts, he refuses to repent. Consequently, our relationship has changed. It cannot remain the same and be loyal to Jesus (2 Thessalonians 3:6,14-15; 1 Corinthians 5:1-13). Our contact with our son is now limited to attempts at restoration. We have no fellowship. We used to share holidays, regular phone calls and texts, family events, etc. but now, all that is gone. Our son has completely turned his back on everything he ever believed. He has no respect for the Lord or His church. He has chosen a life of sin rather than the hope of salvation. And because of his rebellion against God, we as parents must make a choice. Do we overlook his practice of sin and maintain our relationship, or do we withdraw ourselves from him as the Lord instructs?
I believe that the blood of Christ is more important that the physical flesh and blood that I share with my son. Unfortunately, my husband and I know the pain of “giving our child to the Devil.” Those words are sharp, shocking and grim, just as Paul intended them to be when he wrote them (1 Corinthians 5:5). Perhaps I am writing this is for myself more than for those who are reading. I have not seen my son in nearly two and a half years now and there are days that the pain is just as fresh as ever. Until now, I have kept this pain inside and shared with only a couple of my closest friends. I am not sure that a day has gone by that I have not shed tears. Sometimes it is a single tear and other days are gut wrenching cries of despair. I have pulled into my driveway with tears blinding my eyes, only to find myself literally screaming and wailing in grief. I’m devastated by our loss; his loss.
I feel desperation and hopelessness. I’m scared. What probably began as harmless flirtation with sin has now become a quicksand that pulls my son deeper and deeper toward Hell. Sometimes I feel jealous of other parents who have close, loving relationships with all their grown children. I feel embarrassed by what my son has done.
The fact is, I don’t know this person that I once thought I knew so well. Was I blind to things that I should have seen? I believed our relationship was so close. I adored this child. Was the love our son expressed to us all a lie? How does one go from being a respectful obedient child to flagrantly disregarding everything we taught him and everything that we stand for?
A full night’s sleep…what is that? While I am able to fall asleep easily, there is not a night that goes by that I sleep until morning. I awaken in the middle of the night, and the first thought in my mind is that I had just had a terrible dream, but I soon realize that it wasn’t a dream, it is reality; my reality.
I try to picture where my son is now and what he may be doing. I hurt. Sin is ugly. It is disgusting. It perverts. While I don’t want to know, I find myself drawn to his social media like watching two cars collide. I want to look away, but I can’t. I care too much.
Sometimes the hardest thing are the memories. Remembering the joy I felt in that plump baby who looked at me so adoringly. I remember when he sat on the kitchen counter helping peel potatoes or stir ingredients into the batter. I remember our home school days at the kitchen table and reading together on the couch. I remember singing harmony together in the kitchen. I remember the pride I felt when he led singing or gave a talk at young men’s night at church. Those memories are all I have left now. There are no more to make.
Occasionally, I may see a young man that looks like my son. Or, I may be cleaning out a closet and see a photograph. I may be asked by a well-meaning person, where my son is now. All these make me cry. He was such a handsome boy, an excellent student, a talented musician, so kind and thoughtful of others. He never gave us trouble while at home. He loved his siblings. I remember his “infectious laugh.”
Mother’s day and Father’s day are so hard. While we used to receive the most precious cards and notes of love and appreciation, now any correspondence from him are filled with anger, blame, hateful words. Even worse are the sarcastic and blasphemous words used toward his heavenly Father.
Self evaluation, guilt, despair, fear….I have felt all these emotions. Who is a perfect parent? Who doesn’t have something that they would change if they could go back. Even so, I know that we were good parents. We loved our son, spent time with him, encouraged him, and taught him God’s word.
I don’t know what the future holds for our son or our family. What I do know is that God is faithful (2 Thessalonians 3:3). He will do what is right (Genesis 18:25). He will reward those who diligently seek him (Hebrews 11:6). More than I could have ever understood before, I long for the promises of heaven, namely that God will wipe away every tear…there will be no more death, sorrow, crying, or pain (Revelation 21:4).
Heaven will be a place of great reunion with those who have gone on before. There is an old hymn that invites everyone to “come to the feast”. I just wish we didn’t have an empty chair at our table.
I personally really don't think so. Yes there are some believers who are more literalistic and legalistic in their beliefs, but they're not sociopathic.Does it contain a thick, robust streak of sociopathy? — Bitter Crank
Yes, actually we do have quite a bit of control over our digestive and metabolic processes. It's true that we don't have absolute control, but we can influence them. Some people, through meditative practices, can influence them to a greater degree than others - like this guy.Do you have any control over your digestive or metabolic processes? — Wayfarer
So time, space and causality are functions of the brain - and the brain is located in space, time and causality :sFor time, space, and causality, on which all those real and objective events rest, are themselves nothing more than functions of the brain
The subject-object divide is derivative though and learned. It's not given in experience but arrived at through a particular interpretation and way of relating to being. So Schopenhauer is reasoning backwards.That which knows all things and is known by none is the subject. Thus it is the supporter of the world, that condition of all phenomena, of all objects which is always presupposed throughout experience; for all that exists, exists only for the subject — Wayfarer
How is the world "in the subject"? :s If the world is in the subject, then I should expect to have some degree of control over it no? Afterall, one thing that distinguishes my body from the rest of the world is the control I have over it. Control is one of the factors I take into account in distinguishing myself from other things. But I have no control over when the sun rises, and the like. Therefore they aren't "in me".The point is, the subject is never an object of perception. We never know the subject as something 'in the world' - it's rather more that the world is something 'in the subject'. ('Every one finds himself to be subject, yet only in so far as he knows, not in so far as he is an object of knowledge.' Schopenhauer, 1) — Wayfarer
If you're just saying that we don't see the conditions that make sight possible, sure. But this doesn't help us very much...We cannot see the seer - it's like the hand attempting to grasp itself. That might sound trite, but it really isn't, because what we don't see is the very act of seeing. — Wayfarer
I definitely agree with this. Maybe Heidegger does have a point against substance metaphysics of the non-Spinozist kind >:) (although to be fair Spinoza's use of substance is deceiving...)And subjects are certainly "in the world"; they always find themselves in a world with others. As Heidegger points out 'being in the world' is the essence of the being of Dasein; Heidegger actually wants to get away altogether from the whole misleading notion of there being a subject in any substantive sense — Janus
That, of course, ignores the fact that a leader is temporary in a democracy, but permanent in a monarchy. This means that the monarchical leader necessarily MUST take a longer view of things. It's not sufficient to keep just those close to him happy and satisfied, the people also must be kept happy and satisfied, or otherwise there will be a revolution and the king taken down. And guess who will be leading that revolution? Those close to him! In a monarchy everyone around the monarch is waiting hungrily for the right moment to grab power - but for that they need legitimacy, which does come from the people.The people tend to do better in democracies. — praxis
In democracies, the winner tends to be the one who best deceives the stupid majority and promises them some quick gain, because he won't pay for not delivering, the future leader after him will pay.When the winning coalition is large, as in democracies, the leader will tend to use public goods to satisfy the coalition. — wikipedia
Ahhh okay! :D So he's a fascist? :PWell, no, I don't. — Wayfarer
But it doesn't have a monopoly on the means?It has a means of enabling it. — Wayfarer
Democracy =/ principled opposition. Really - that's not the definition of democracy.Because that is what democracy is. — Wayfarer
Okay - what's this got to do with monarchies?Many people used to die of curable diseases before middle age. — Wayfarer
Put this another way - if I owned this forum, you think I'd ban you for opposing me or something? :s In fact, this forum as it is isn't a democracy at all.You have yet to show why you take it that my attitude doesn't allow for principled opposition... here you are opposing me! Eppur si muove as Galilei said! — Agustino
