Would you say that the necessity of X logically requires the existence of X, in the sense that the two are one and the same? Can X be necessary and non-existent?Curiously, only the ontological argument (which intends to prove the necessity of X) would escape this verdict :D. — Mariner
I honestly think you (and other progressives) don't understand what love means. You seem to think that love is some sort of all-encompassing benevolence combined with pink-flying unicorns that give you lots of kisses :sStop talking when the holy dude answers your question about hell by cupping his hands together and saying that religion is about loving another person. — Mongrel
Yes, but those depictions certainly did not mean to illustrate beauty. The pregnant woman's body is not supposed to be beautiful, but rather nourishing, protective and other qualities. That Serena picture actually wants to tell us that she's proud of her body - as if anyone gave a damn. She is indeed quite smug, and the idiots are paying money for this.I mean, depictions of pregnant women are probably the oldest expressions of art in human history, but I'd rather consider a 5,000 year old mother goddesses carved from stone instead of tennis player. *shrug* — Heister Eggcart
Actually, I think just about as ugly as that. Both of them have no place in the public arena as far as I'm concerned, and neither are art. I think such "art" should be shunned.Not as ugly as this: — Cavacava
I actually second this. It does look ugly. The purpose of art is to depict beauty and ideals, not ugliness. The fact these "artists" create "art" for political purposes is simply a defilement of art. You can say something ugly looks beautiful till you're blue in the face, it ain't going to make it true. I'm never going to think that image is beautiful. You can force me to say it is for political reasons, but I'll never think so, regardless of what you do.Looks ugly to me, does that make me sexist and/or racist? — Heister Eggcart
Have a read of what Aristotle, Epicurus, and other philosophers have meant by "natural desire". For example.Sorry, Agu, but cannibalism can be a natural desire — Heister Eggcart
Why do you think sex with the tramp is the same as sex with your wife?You'll have to convince me of this assurance because at present you're failing to do so. — Heister Eggcart
I don't have a criteria as such, as it is something that each individual should decide for themselves. However, typically those who can afford children, who want children, and who can provide and protect them should have children.Humankind is but a collection of particular human beings, not some amorphous blob. Furthermore, what is your criteria for those who must procreate? Who are they, and why do they have to procreate? — Heister Eggcart
Well yes prolonging humankind on Earth seems to be what God intended, until the end times at least. Since this started from a discussion of the commandment to "be fruitful and multiply", this is what I shall answer.Such as? If it's merely to prolong humankind as a race on Earth, why is that important and sufficient justification? — Heister Eggcart
Because I think suffering can sometimes be rewarding in itself. It is through suffering that you really love someone or something, not otherwise. If you love someone or something, you kind of want to suffer for them you know? Otherwise you don't really love them. What would love be without suffering? An impossibility.And why is that? — Heister Eggcart
Okay yes! So here is my point I believe: you becoming better at playing the drums isn't above and beyond the suffering - the suffering IS your becoming better at drums. It's the same for example with me working out. I don't take the suffering as any different from my becoming stronger. The two are connected like two sides of the same coin are. You seem to function in a different paradigm, where suffering and reward are disconnected, and you undertake the one to obtain the other. But I say that suffering and reward are one and the same.There are three parts to this. The suffering, the act of doing what brings about the suffering, and the "reward" once the act is suffered through. For instance, I play the play drums, so if I go to practice the drums there is, 1. the specific practicing of the drums, 2. the suffering that goes along with that (muscle fatigue, sweat, finger blisters, etc.), and 3. the end product of me being better at playing the drums (only attainable through practice.) Merely because I've become a better drummer post-practicing doesn't remove the prior state of suffering. — Heister Eggcart
Well to be a natural desire doesn't mean that it is present in absolutely everyone. Exceptions and variety exist in nature. To be a natural desire implies that this is something that arises as part of the essence of the specific organism, and it would be reflected in a majority of the population of that organism.If this is the case, then how exactly is procreation a natural desire if it isn't inherent in everyone? — Heister Eggcart
That doesn't make it art. For that matter, I think most modern "art" isn't really art to begin with. Just because someone is well regarded doesn't also mean that they're good. All that it means is that they have a good reputation. Typically, a lot of those people aren't even that good. But it's all the "social proof" that they built up which enables them to charge high prices and do work that others barely making ends meet could do just as well.Williams photo was done by Annie Leibovitz, a very well known and well regarded photo artist. — Cavacava
Yeah, if they produced sculptures of the ideal human body, I wouldn't mind. They're not doing that, they're taking pictures of actual people, for no reason as far as I can see. I certainly don't want to see Serena or any other person naked pretty much, because why would I? I do like contemplating and looking at the ideal body, both male and female, but that's different than this. It requires art to be able to do that.You've been to Rome? — Cavacava
It is an interesting thing, but I doubt most people were great womanizers back in the day.Frantic Freddie never had much luck with women. His sister in particular. Perhaps he was referring to self-flagellation. — Ciceronianus the White
:s LOL What's weird is that you singled out one female member who you like sending PMs to and who isn't you and asked the question about her. Of course that's demeaning. Would you want someone to ask such a thing about you in particular? No, probably not. It would be like starting a thread "Is Agustino Gay?" - of course that would be demeaning, because you'd be signalling me out. And it would be demeaning even though being gay is not in itself demeaning in any way. But sure, if you want to ask about a particular woman, why don't you ask about yourself? I'm sure nobody will mind a thread started by Mongrel to discuss Mongrel.Could somebody explain why asking if all women are submissive is not demeaning but asking if a particular woman is...is? — Mongrel
Oh, how curious that you portray "male ethics"as having your juice sucked out and becoming a dry raisin, while you portray "female ethics" as a nursing home, with a cloud that everyone freely partakes from.I can tell you about AT&T. Everybody I worked with was male. The environment was consciously patterned after the US military (which, like Napoleon, adopted the Prussian military organizational scheme.)
This visual came to me one time. All the men were like giant grapes. Normally, they'd be plump, but occasionally big Meany would pass by and suck the juice out of everybody in his path leaving a trail of dried out raisins. I perceive that we do that a lot on this forum (some more than others.) When it happens, I think in the back of my mind that the sucker probably had all his grape juice sucked out by some other Big Meany... maybe his boss, maybe life in general?
A female dominated environment is a nursing home. I worked in one for a while. One huge difference is that there's no purpose to a nursing home the way there is to a business like AT&T. There's no goal. The job is finished when the patient is dead, but we're not trying to accomplish that.. you know? We're just doing the same things people have been doing since there have been people... wiping butts, feeding people who can't feed themselves, over and over.
One odd feature of that environment is a sort of emotional cloud that develops. Everybody contributes to the cloud and everybody partakes of it. Probably the fact that after a while everybody's menstrual cycle is happening at the same time is a factor. The "female ethics" is in that cloud. If you're feeling like a raisin, that cloud will support you... without much reasoning or goal to it. It's just what people have been doing since there have been people. Whatever is going on with you.. other people can feel it.
Does that make sense? If a really toxic person shows up, either environment has its own kind of immune system. But then... some people are so toxic that they're actually lethal. — Mongrel
A natural desire is one which belongs to the essence of that organism. Cannibalism isn't a natural desire for example. Nourishing your body, however, is a natural desire.You seem very focused on bull shit in this response, so I call bullshit again. You'll have to explain to me how a desire in nature doesn't have to be natural. — Heister Eggcart
No, I can assure you that having sex is a different experience with a prostitute than with your wife. The two may bear a resemblance, but they are not the same.Same response here as what I just gave above. Sex is sex. What you're trying to change, rather, is the love, not the sex. But I don't think you've figured that out yet, or at least you've not alluded to the affirmative. — Heister Eggcart
Yes it is, but not for a particular human being, but rather for the human race as a whole.So procreation is an absolute essential for love? Brooooo, please stop contradicting yourself. — Heister Eggcart
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In other words, there's situations when it's not immoral to have a child. Suffering, contrary to your axiom, isn't necessarily evil.? — Heister Eggcart
Okay, it seems that this is the point over which we disagree. I don't think suffering is evil, many times the suffering and the reward are not separate. Many saints, for example, have enjoyed to suffer for the sake of God.Yes it is. Suffering is "bad" even if it brings about the good. — Heister Eggcart
I never claimed everyone longs to have a child, I said most people.But one must identify, and argue, from which half of man's being the desire to procreate comes. I also contest that the will to procreate is inherent and that everyone longs to have a child. — Heister Eggcart
Patience :PHumor me and watch it. At the very least you'll enjoy it more than dropping a pizza on the tile. — Heister Eggcart
Okay, but I do not dispute that. Eastern Orthodoxy (of which I'm a member) teaches that Jesus Christ became man so that we may become gods. This includes some of the earliest church theologians, for example:I don't think many would bother to contest the Son of God claim, since that claim needn't be blasphemous or controversial. When I was a young RC, we used to sing a modern hymn called 'Sons of God', about how we are just that. — andrewk
However, this does not entail that we are sons of God in the same way Jesus is the Son of God.A sure warrant for looking forward with hope to deification of human nature is provided by the Incarnation of God, which makes man God to the same degree as God Himself became man ... . Let us become the image of the one whole God, bearing nothing earthly in ourselves, so that we may consort with God and become gods, receiving from God our existence as gods. For it is clear that He Who became man without sin (cf. Heb. 4:15) will divinize human nature without changing it into the Divine Nature, and will raise it up for His Own sake to the same degree as He lowered Himself for man's sake. This is what St[.] Paul teaches mystically when he says, '[]that in the ages to come he might display the overflowing richness of His grace' (Eph. 2:7) — St. Maximus the Confessor
This is false, Jesus DID claim to not only be the Son of God, but to be one with the Father. This is actually one of the charges of the Pharisees against Him before the Crucifixion.I really do not think that Jesus ever claimed to be Son of God. To my knowledge, he referred to himself as Son of Man. There are two distinct claims involved here, that Jesus claimed to be Son of God, and that Jesus is Son of God. These two are part of a very complex issue surrounding his life, sacrifice, resurrection, and Christianity itself. It may well be a major flaw in Christianity, but Christianity was created by human beings, and this is just a reflection of the imperfection of human existence. — Metaphysician Undercover
:s this is very bullshitty. It follows almost by definition that it is good for an organism to fulfil its natural desires. Not all desires are of the same kind. Some are not natural desires. Yes, there is no need to fulfil those.Because one's desires need not be fulfilled. — Heister Eggcart
Yes, that's why I made a useful distinction, which you've completely ignored, and spoke of natural desires. That eliminates psychopaths and cannibals, so please, no such examples.Merely because one has a desire does not mean that they must carry out that desire, otherwise hellfire and damnation upon them. — Heister Eggcart
Okay, how is this related to two people in love who have sex within the boundaries of a married relationship again? :sI'm sure a psychopath will say that them hacking up someone to bits is an expression of their feeling free. But does this mean that whatever expression they think their act is refutes the base nature of the act itself? Surely not. — Heister Eggcart
So if you have sex with a prostitute that is no different than having sex with your wife within the boundaries of marriage in terms of morality according to you? :sThis is merely attaching things to sex in order for you to think about it in a better light. Like coating a turd in gold leaf. — Heister Eggcart
Well, most Platonists/Aristotelians - of which the early Christians were - would associate natural with good, for the most part.This doesn't make it good. And if it isn't good, one has no good reason, therefore, to do it. — Heister Eggcart
I don't see an argument here.All you've done here is replace the rawness of having sex with the rawness of kissing someone, looking into their eyes. Love is not a sentiment, and your categorization of sex is just that, a petty sentiment. — Heister Eggcart
Of other kind of fruitfulness, including, yes, love.Procreation is an absolute essential of what? Love? — Heister Eggcart
:-O :-} lolAgreed. So marriage and having "righteous sex" and having children are but shams. — Heister Eggcart
Nope, I haven't said it's neither. I said it can be either of them, depending on context.If having a child is neither right nor wrong in your thinking, then there is, as I've said several times now, no good reason to procreate. — Heister Eggcart
Suffering is not always bad, sorry to tell you :PProcreating a child into existence does, which is why playing dumb, or flicking the amoral card on the table just isn't going to cut it. — Heister Eggcart
That is indication it is a natural desire that comes from within man's own being.So what? — Heister Eggcart
No, I don't watch Hollywood anymore :P Such bullshit honestly, I get so bored trying to watch a movie nowadays. It's the same crap story time and time again, and it seems bullshitty to experience emotions while starring at the screen instead of by living through them. I can't stand the fakery.Have you watched the recent Noah movie with Russell Crowe? — Heister Eggcart
Yes, exactly, I completely agree with this. It's a general command for mankind, not for all particular men (and women) - as I've explained celibacy is also moral.At the very least, you cannot say that the command is categorical, but only meant for certain people called to marriage and family life. — Thorongil
I pointed that out, Heister thinks (or rather thought) the opposite.I agree that the literal meaning of the command implies procreation, but as I believe Heister pointed out, it is given prior to the Fall. — Thorongil
Well this is precisely what Heister was objecting to, he was saying that sex did not exist, except after the Fall. But if sex didn't exist, how were Adam and Eve meant to procreate before the Fall?I don't think anyone would object to procreation if it took place in paradise by immaculate human beings! — Thorongil
What about Aristotelianism, what's your position on it and why?Of these, I waver the most with respect to the first, as lately I've been attracted to classical theism and Platonism. — Thorongil
Why would not procreating be the baseline, when we have a natural desire to procreate and be intimate?Your judgement not to procreate? The baseline is doing nothing, not having the child. — Heister Eggcart
Yes, I do love the person. The sex can be an expression of our love though, that's what you don't seem to understand. It's an expression of it. Just like a bird sings its song, as an expression of its being.You love the person, not the sex. — Heister Eggcart
This is absolutely false. Immoral sex is different than righteous and moral sex.Sex is sex, regardless of what you're having sex with. — Heister Eggcart
Sure, I completely agree. I never said you have sex with your wife in order to love her more fully, indeed that would be very stupid and immoral (and untrue). Love comes first, sex is merely an expression of the underlying love when it happens.And you don't need to have sex in order to love someone more fully. — Heister Eggcart
I disagree. There is a natural desire to procreate.procreation is never good. — Heister Eggcart
Oh yeah, how funny you are. Only that you forget that the physical motion of the penis inside the vagina isn't all that's happening at all. There's the touches, the looking into each other's eyes, the feeling of each other's bodies, the shared emotions, the feelings, the kissing, the intimate connection etc. You strip the act of 99% of what it includes, and then proceed to deride it. Well done.Yes, I'm sure that you love someone so much more if you spiritually slide your cock back and forth inside her! :D — Heister Eggcart
While that meaning may ALSO be the case it's not the essential meaning of the statement. Why not? Because Adam and Eve were the first human beings on Earth. Who were they to love? Themselves? No, they had to first reproduce.All I'll say is that "be fruitful and multiply" doesn't necessarily infer human reproduction. Seeing as God is classically understood as love, to be fruitful is to multiply love. — Heister Eggcart
This is ridiculous. So Adam and Eve are the only people on Earth (cause God had just created them) and one of the first commandments is to be fruitful and multiply virtue by evangelizing non-existent human beings in Paradise (cause the Fall hadn't occurred yet) :s Utterly absurd.Highly misleading. This passage has been read allegorically since the early church as I recall. It can refer to the fruitfulness and multiplication of virtue and as a call to evangelize (multiply the numbers of Christians by conversion). — Thorongil
This is a frequent misunderstanding of the way sexual desire functions - and Catholic priests aren't taught how to handle their sexual energy, they way monks are taught, so of course they struggle with it. That's one of the reasons why Orthodox priests are encouraged to marry.Obviously being celibate can be wrong. I assumed you would think of pedophilic priests who are supposed to be celibates but fail at it. I would argue that they fail at it because they're not satisfying their sexual desires. Not doing that ends up with worse consequences (child abuse). — Heister Eggcart
Sure, but it doesn't make it wrong either.Merely because having sex and procreating children is natural doesn't make it right or necessary to do so. — Heister Eggcart
That doesn't mean there isn't a right way to engage in it.Procreation gets added to the list of corrupted, natural processes. — Heister Eggcart
Sure, but again most people do have a desire to have their own children - to be co-creators.Even so, if a couple wants to have a child so that they might father and mother it and love it, then there are millions of little shits out there that can keep them up at night and are needing to be adopted. — Heister Eggcart
Then why must I assume the child will agree with my judgement?No. — Heister Eggcart
I'm not in favor of having children (for everyone), I'm just not against it.Then you have no good reason to have a child. So, why are you in favor of having children if there's no good reason or necessity that demands their procreation? — Heister Eggcart
There is a difference between fucking a girl and being in love with a girl (even when that includes sex). Fucking a girl is like a leper scratching an itch - it's ultimately not fulfilling but it's something one does either out of spite for themselves or out of suffering. Being in love with a girl and marrying her can lead to sex, but the action is different. In that case it's not scratching an itch, but doing something that is positively fulfilling of a natural human desire - the desire for intimacy. I'm sorry if you cannot comprehend that there's more to sex than just fucking.You are using someone when you're having sex with them. — Heister Eggcart
Sure.What difference does this make? You have responsibility over the child just as you do over the cake you baked with your wife. — Heister Eggcart
The sexual act isn't necessary with regard to procreation? :s What?No, only that it isn't necessary with regard to procreation. — Heister Eggcart
Well, leaving the vulgarity aside, the physical connection that happens during sex is mirroring the spiritual connection that happens between the two lovers. A dick in the hole may be a dick in the hole, but the act itself doesn't include just a dick in a hole.A dick in the hole is a dick in the hole. — Heister Eggcart
First of all this is completely unbiblical and completely false. Read Genesis 1:27-28, which occurs way before the Fall, just after God had created man. What does it say?Also, I think it's worth noting that sex as a function came about after the fall of Man, so to equate sex to God's first creative emanations before sin's entrance into the world would be an entirely obtuse characterization. Sex is not sacred and pure as love is in itself, or justice, or any other virtue. — Heister Eggcart
God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them; and God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth."
What's wrong with it, I seem to be too stupid to realise? :PNothing wrong? Think about what you're saying here for a second, and I think you'll take that back. — Heister Eggcart
Well, clearly God would disagree given that one of the first commandments was to be fruitful and multiply ;)only that I cannot divine up an instance wherein procreation is necessary. — Heister Eggcart
These are not good reasons either for not having sex or for having it. Celibacy is either something temporary, or an action undertaken for spiritual purposes. Marriage and intimacy are fulfilling for many human beings, and they are goods, including having children. This is just how men and women were naturally created to be.Some don't need to have sex, and so celibacy is a properly moral option. Others, however, do need to satiate their sexual appetite, thereby curbing future ruin by not doing what is necessary. — Heister Eggcart
Well it's with her mouth open and full that the male becomes vulnerable.
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Why would I be assuming that? You're presupposing that the right thing to do has to be what the child will think is the right thing.But if you have faith that having a child is the right thing to do, then you're assuming that this child once born will agree with you. — Heister Eggcart
Have you forgotten that man was created in the image of God?So play God? — Heister Eggcart
First of all, I wouldn't call it "fucking" a woman, the word has connotations which denote abuse, or using her. And it's not my creation, it's the creation of the two of us, cause presumably my wife will also want to have a child, otherwise I wouldn't be having a child in the first place. You seem to think that the sexual act is always evil, but that's not true. God has intended a natural place for the sexual act, which is fuelled by our desire for intimacy and union with the beloved. The act is symbolic of God's creation, and is certainly something holy if done right and within the boundaries of marriage.God creating the world isn't the same as you fucking a woman and creating a fallen human being. — Heister Eggcart
Sure, you need another argument, that's for sure.While it's true for 1% of people they, do not have to worry about economic obligations in the same way others do, there are other harms- some of them are structural. — schopenhauer1
Okay so what's your point? I have already said that male/female tendencies only exist at a general level, and particular people are absolutely "free" to be the way they are (and should be respected for it). Just cause the statistics say you won't win the lottery doesn't mean that if you play it you can't win it. Statistics don't control the outcome for individuals, but they do generally describe the tendencies that exist for populations - large groups of individuals. Statistics cannot be used to judge individuals, you have to look at the person that is in front of you for that. So I never suggested that women shouldn't drive trucks and men shouldn't take care of babies. It's perfectly fine for women to drive trucks if they want to.Deep, deep, down, down, in the bottom of my heart I feel gender and sex are more or less the same thing. BUT it is, nevertheless, the case that some roles which males and females carry out deviate from what is usually thought of as their normal role. For instance, some women drive trucks and some men take care of babies. — Bitter Crank
If you do absolutely nothing and just plug 1 billion in the bank, how long do you think it will last? :s More than your own lifespan? Probably. Why don't rich people do that? Because it's not fulfilling.So rich people have no economic obligations? They have their own obligations not to mention being on top of the very economic system where the economic obligations take place. — schopenhauer1
No, it's absolutely not. If you have a child in a war torn region, giving birth to them isn't wrong, but failure to protect them when they need it, that will be wrong.But based on my premise, it is valid. — schopenhauer1
Nope, that again doesn't follow. Procreation isn't necessarily immoral, but it can be. Should you procreate when you're in a war-torn country, where you probably will have a hard time to assure the survival of your child or provide for them? Probably not.Yes, I agree with this, but I do not believe I was NOT saying this. AFTER the child is born it is forced into obligations. Obligations are harmful and inevitable. Procreation creates this condition. Ergo, procreating children is wrong as it leads to exposing a new person to inevitable and harmful ongoing, inescapable obligations. — schopenhauer1
Agreed.The harm we may experience after we exist has identifiable causes for the most part. People, animals, nature may cause harm to us once we live. We may ascribe fault to them for doing so. We're not harmed by coming into existence, but are subject to harm when we do. — Ciceronianus the White
Again, you need actual concrete reasons of what harms your child will become subject to. If you're not having a child because there's a war going on and it's unlikely you'll be able to take care of them that's completely different from not having a child because there's some harm - which you cannot specify - that will occur to him in his life.So, I think one can intelligibly maintain that we shouldn't have children because they'll become subject to harm if we do. — Ciceronianus the White
Gender is absolutely not a social construct. Gender is biological. Let's have a kid teach you the basics:"Gender" is a social construct while "Sex" is a biological trait. — TimeLine
This may be true, that he's not a very cultured man, but that's totally different from saying that he's dumb. He's very smart, he hasn't however applied his intelligence to such matters.Trump is notoriously uninformed. — Wayfarer
I would be skeptical of this. The real Donald Trump is probably different than what the media and his books have portrayed him to be, because remember, he's trying to build an image that sells. That speaks to the common, lazy folk, who want to hear that it's easy to achieve success. They'll pay for those books. This is an essential marketing principle that Trump has applied his whole life.'The day I realized it can be smart to be shallow was, for me, a deep experience.' — Wayfarer
This is anecdotal.The only way State Department can get him to read anything is to salt the papers they give him with references to him. — Wayfarer
Actually I think Trump is one of the most stubborn politicians - he rarely changes his mind on goals, but frequently on means of achieving them.He changes his mind continually and often shows no grasp of facts, principles or policies. — Wayfarer
Sure, but he inherited at most 200 million from his dad. His wealth is at least around 4 billion today. He's made more than he's lost, and he's beaten inflation - at least.It doesn't take intelligence to be lucky enough to afford multi-million dollar financial losses. — creativesoul
Look mate. It's no use if you have money to afford hiring the best talent if you (1) can't recognise that talent, (2) can't ensure that that talent is working for you and not against you, (3) can't retain that talent. These are NOT easy tasks at all. If someone gave you 1 million dollars and said do something with them, the chances are you'd lose them, and I don't think you consider yourself dumb. It's not as easy as you make it sound.It doesn't take intelligence to be lucky enough to be able to afford to hire the right people. — creativesoul
Some of them do, some of them don't. Business skill isn't the same as morality - the two are different. So there's moral good businessmen, and immoral, but skilled businessmen too.Good business men keep their word. — creativesoul
That is your opinion, you have offered no evidence of proving that.Of course he is. He verges on imbecilic. — Wayfarer
