• Religious Discussions - User's Manual
    Curiously, only the ontological argument (which intends to prove the necessity of X) would escape this verdict :D.Mariner
    Would you say that the necessity of X logically requires the existence of X, in the sense that the two are one and the same? Can X be necessary and non-existent?
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    Interesting, I did not know of this quote. Thanks for sharing that. However, Augustine also says:

    "For necessary sexual intercourse for begetting is free from blame"

    So it seems to be that he considered it preferable to not have children, and yet having children was seen as blameless. I quite agree with that position, but I find it disputable whether if everyone really stopped procreating it would help fill the City of God more speedily.
  • Religious Discussions - User's Manual
    Stop talking when the holy dude answers your question about hell by cupping his hands together and saying that religion is about loving another person.Mongrel
    I honestly think you (and other progressives) don't understand what love means. You seem to think that love is some sort of all-encompassing benevolence combined with pink-flying unicorns that give you lots of kisses :s
  • Religious Discussions - User's Manual
    God exists because of X, Y, Z. No he doesn't. God exists because of A, B, C. NOOO!! >:O
  • John McEnroe: Serena Williams would rank 'like 700 in the world' in men's circuit play
    I mean, depictions of pregnant women are probably the oldest expressions of art in human history, but I'd rather consider a 5,000 year old mother goddesses carved from stone instead of tennis player. *shrug*Heister Eggcart
    Yes, but those depictions certainly did not mean to illustrate beauty. The pregnant woman's body is not supposed to be beautiful, but rather nourishing, protective and other qualities. That Serena picture actually wants to tell us that she's proud of her body - as if anyone gave a damn. She is indeed quite smug, and the idiots are paying money for this.
  • John McEnroe: Serena Williams would rank 'like 700 in the world' in men's circuit play
    Not as ugly as this:Cavacava
    Actually, I think just about as ugly as that. Both of them have no place in the public arena as far as I'm concerned, and neither are art. I think such "art" should be shunned.
  • John McEnroe: Serena Williams would rank 'like 700 in the world' in men's circuit play
    Looks ugly to me, does that make me sexist and/or racist?Heister Eggcart
    I actually second this. It does look ugly. The purpose of art is to depict beauty and ideals, not ugliness. The fact these "artists" create "art" for political purposes is simply a defilement of art. You can say something ugly looks beautiful till you're blue in the face, it ain't going to make it true. I'm never going to think that image is beautiful. You can force me to say it is for political reasons, but I'll never think so, regardless of what you do.

    Now such "art" also objectifies the pregnant body, as if it was SUPPOSED to be beautiful in the first place :s Really, it's fucked up. Women don't get pregnant to look beautiful, so this is absurd beyond measure. Should pregnant women be ashamed of going around naked? Well probably yes actually, I don't see why they shouldn't. The pregnant body isn't to show off to everyone, that seems grotesque and absurd.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    Sorry, Agu, but cannibalism can be a natural desireHeister Eggcart
    Have a read of what Aristotle, Epicurus, and other philosophers have meant by "natural desire". For example.

    You'll have to convince me of this assurance because at present you're failing to do so.Heister Eggcart
    Why do you think sex with the tramp is the same as sex with your wife?

    Humankind is but a collection of particular human beings, not some amorphous blob. Furthermore, what is your criteria for those who must procreate? Who are they, and why do they have to procreate?Heister Eggcart
    I don't have a criteria as such, as it is something that each individual should decide for themselves. However, typically those who can afford children, who want children, and who can provide and protect them should have children.

    Such as? If it's merely to prolong humankind as a race on Earth, why is that important and sufficient justification?Heister Eggcart
    Well yes prolonging humankind on Earth seems to be what God intended, until the end times at least. Since this started from a discussion of the commandment to "be fruitful and multiply", this is what I shall answer.

    And why is that?Heister Eggcart
    Because I think suffering can sometimes be rewarding in itself. It is through suffering that you really love someone or something, not otherwise. If you love someone or something, you kind of want to suffer for them you know? Otherwise you don't really love them. What would love be without suffering? An impossibility.

    There are three parts to this. The suffering, the act of doing what brings about the suffering, and the "reward" once the act is suffered through. For instance, I play the play drums, so if I go to practice the drums there is, 1. the specific practicing of the drums, 2. the suffering that goes along with that (muscle fatigue, sweat, finger blisters, etc.), and 3. the end product of me being better at playing the drums (only attainable through practice.) Merely because I've become a better drummer post-practicing doesn't remove the prior state of suffering.Heister Eggcart
    Okay yes! So here is my point I believe: you becoming better at playing the drums isn't above and beyond the suffering - the suffering IS your becoming better at drums. It's the same for example with me working out. I don't take the suffering as any different from my becoming stronger. The two are connected like two sides of the same coin are. You seem to function in a different paradigm, where suffering and reward are disconnected, and you undertake the one to obtain the other. But I say that suffering and reward are one and the same.

    If this is the case, then how exactly is procreation a natural desire if it isn't inherent in everyone?Heister Eggcart
    Well to be a natural desire doesn't mean that it is present in absolutely everyone. Exceptions and variety exist in nature. To be a natural desire implies that this is something that arises as part of the essence of the specific organism, and it would be reflected in a majority of the population of that organism.
  • John McEnroe: Serena Williams would rank 'like 700 in the world' in men's circuit play
    Williams photo was done by Annie Leibovitz, a very well known and well regarded photo artist.Cavacava
    That doesn't make it art. For that matter, I think most modern "art" isn't really art to begin with. Just because someone is well regarded doesn't also mean that they're good. All that it means is that they have a good reputation. Typically, a lot of those people aren't even that good. But it's all the "social proof" that they built up which enables them to charge high prices and do work that others barely making ends meet could do just as well.
  • John McEnroe: Serena Williams would rank 'like 700 in the world' in men's circuit play
    You've been to Rome?Cavacava
    Yeah, if they produced sculptures of the ideal human body, I wouldn't mind. They're not doing that, they're taking pictures of actual people, for no reason as far as I can see. I certainly don't want to see Serena or any other person naked pretty much, because why would I? I do like contemplating and looking at the ideal body, both male and female, but that's different than this. It requires art to be able to do that.
  • John McEnroe: Serena Williams would rank 'like 700 in the world' in men's circuit play
    I never understood this fantasy of women and men taking pictures naked. What does their nakedness have to do with the public arena? Like nothing? :s
  • How do you interpret this quote by Nietzsche?
    Frantic Freddie never had much luck with women. His sister in particular. Perhaps he was referring to self-flagellation.Ciceronianus the White
    It is an interesting thing, but I doubt most people were great womanizers back in the day.

    Furthermore, is the best doctor the one who benefits you, or the one who benefits himself? It seems to me that the best man is also one who most benefits women, not himself. We have a very pathetic standard in our society, and we seem to think that the best man is the one who most benefits himself (by shagging a lot of women) rather than the one who most benefits women and their needs. It's really very pathetic, I don't understand how we have come to admire and respect such a standard.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Must... resist... the urge...Sapientia
    >:)
  • John McEnroe: Serena Williams would rank 'like 700 in the world' in men's circuit play
    I do play tennis myself and I've played against both female players who beat me, and female players who I've beaten. What I noticed is that a female player has to be significantly more skilled or more fit than me to beat me, and I think the difference is in the power with which they hit their shots. Female players don't hit anywhere near as hard as males. That means that as a male, I have less trouble stepping in the court on their shots and hammering away.

    For example fastest male serve is around 260km/hr while fastest female serve is around 210km/hr in professional tennis. So that's roughly a 25% difference in speed that can be observed right there, which does end up playing a significant role in matches.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Could somebody explain why asking if all women are submissive is not demeaning but asking if a particular woman is...is?Mongrel
    :s LOL What's weird is that you singled out one female member who you like sending PMs to and who isn't you and asked the question about her. Of course that's demeaning. Would you want someone to ask such a thing about you in particular? No, probably not. It would be like starting a thread "Is Agustino Gay?" - of course that would be demeaning, because you'd be signalling me out. And it would be demeaning even though being gay is not in itself demeaning in any way. But sure, if you want to ask about a particular woman, why don't you ask about yourself? I'm sure nobody will mind a thread started by Mongrel to discuss Mongrel.

    I can tell you about AT&T. Everybody I worked with was male. The environment was consciously patterned after the US military (which, like Napoleon, adopted the Prussian military organizational scheme.)

    This visual came to me one time. All the men were like giant grapes. Normally, they'd be plump, but occasionally big Meany would pass by and suck the juice out of everybody in his path leaving a trail of dried out raisins. I perceive that we do that a lot on this forum (some more than others.) When it happens, I think in the back of my mind that the sucker probably had all his grape juice sucked out by some other Big Meany... maybe his boss, maybe life in general?

    A female dominated environment is a nursing home. I worked in one for a while. One huge difference is that there's no purpose to a nursing home the way there is to a business like AT&T. There's no goal. The job is finished when the patient is dead, but we're not trying to accomplish that.. you know? We're just doing the same things people have been doing since there have been people... wiping butts, feeding people who can't feed themselves, over and over.

    One odd feature of that environment is a sort of emotional cloud that develops. Everybody contributes to the cloud and everybody partakes of it. Probably the fact that after a while everybody's menstrual cycle is happening at the same time is a factor. The "female ethics" is in that cloud. If you're feeling like a raisin, that cloud will support you... without much reasoning or goal to it. It's just what people have been doing since there have been people. Whatever is going on with you.. other people can feel it.

    Does that make sense? If a really toxic person shows up, either environment has its own kind of immune system. But then... some people are so toxic that they're actually lethal.
    Mongrel
    Oh, how curious that you portray "male ethics"as having your juice sucked out and becoming a dry raisin, while you portray "female ethics" as a nursing home, with a cloud that everyone freely partakes from.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    You seem very focused on bull shit in this response, so I call bullshit again. You'll have to explain to me how a desire in nature doesn't have to be natural.Heister Eggcart
    A natural desire is one which belongs to the essence of that organism. Cannibalism isn't a natural desire for example. Nourishing your body, however, is a natural desire.

    Same response here as what I just gave above. Sex is sex. What you're trying to change, rather, is the love, not the sex. But I don't think you've figured that out yet, or at least you've not alluded to the affirmative.Heister Eggcart
    No, I can assure you that having sex is a different experience with a prostitute than with your wife. The two may bear a resemblance, but they are not the same.

    So procreation is an absolute essential for love? Brooooo, please stop contradicting yourself.Heister Eggcart
    Yes it is, but not for a particular human being, but rather for the human race as a whole.

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    What's this strange sign?

    In other words, there's situations when it's not immoral to have a child. Suffering, contrary to your axiom, isn't necessarily evil.

    Yes it is. Suffering is "bad" even if it brings about the good.Heister Eggcart
    Okay, it seems that this is the point over which we disagree. I don't think suffering is evil, many times the suffering and the reward are not separate. Many saints, for example, have enjoyed to suffer for the sake of God.

    But one must identify, and argue, from which half of man's being the desire to procreate comes. I also contest that the will to procreate is inherent and that everyone longs to have a child.Heister Eggcart
    I never claimed everyone longs to have a child, I said most people.

    Humor me and watch it. At the very least you'll enjoy it more than dropping a pizza on the tile.Heister Eggcart
    Patience :P
  • Why do people believe in 'God'?
    I don't think many would bother to contest the Son of God claim, since that claim needn't be blasphemous or controversial. When I was a young RC, we used to sing a modern hymn called 'Sons of God', about how we are just that.andrewk
    Okay, but I do not dispute that. Eastern Orthodoxy (of which I'm a member) teaches that Jesus Christ became man so that we may become gods. This includes some of the earliest church theologians, for example:

    A sure warrant for looking forward with hope to deification of human nature is provided by the Incarnation of God, which makes man God to the same degree as God Himself became man ... . Let us become the image of the one whole God, bearing nothing earthly in ourselves, so that we may consort with God and become gods, receiving from God our existence as gods. For it is clear that He Who became man without sin (cf. Heb. 4:15) will divinize human nature without changing it into the Divine Nature, and will raise it up for His Own sake to the same degree as He lowered Himself for man's sake. This is what St[.] Paul teaches mystically when he says, '[]that in the ages to come he might display the overflowing richness of His grace' (Eph. 2:7) — St. Maximus the Confessor
    However, this does not entail that we are sons of God in the same way Jesus is the Son of God.
  • Why do people believe in 'God'?
    I really do not think that Jesus ever claimed to be Son of God. To my knowledge, he referred to himself as Son of Man. There are two distinct claims involved here, that Jesus claimed to be Son of God, and that Jesus is Son of God. These two are part of a very complex issue surrounding his life, sacrifice, resurrection, and Christianity itself. It may well be a major flaw in Christianity, but Christianity was created by human beings, and this is just a reflection of the imperfection of human existence.Metaphysician Undercover
    This is false, Jesus DID claim to not only be the Son of God, but to be one with the Father. This is actually one of the charges of the Pharisees against Him before the Crucifixion.

    Mark 1:1 starts by mentioning this is the Gospel of Jesus Christ, the Son of God.

    Luke 1:35 which details the birth of Jesus, where again, the angels say that he will be the Son of God.

    John 10:30 - Jesus says "I and the Father are One"

    John 10:36 where Jesus handles the accusation of blasphemy because he claimed to be the Son of God.

    Etc.

    Really the evidence is very clear, I can't understand how anyone who has read the Gospels can claim that Jesus did NOT claim to be the Son of God.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    Because one's desires need not be fulfilled.Heister Eggcart
    :s this is very bullshitty. It follows almost by definition that it is good for an organism to fulfil its natural desires. Not all desires are of the same kind. Some are not natural desires. Yes, there is no need to fulfil those.

    Merely because one has a desire does not mean that they must carry out that desire, otherwise hellfire and damnation upon them.Heister Eggcart
    Yes, that's why I made a useful distinction, which you've completely ignored, and spoke of natural desires. That eliminates psychopaths and cannibals, so please, no such examples.

    I'm sure a psychopath will say that them hacking up someone to bits is an expression of their feeling free. But does this mean that whatever expression they think their act is refutes the base nature of the act itself? Surely not.Heister Eggcart
    Okay, how is this related to two people in love who have sex within the boundaries of a married relationship again? :s

    This is merely attaching things to sex in order for you to think about it in a better light. Like coating a turd in gold leaf.Heister Eggcart
    So if you have sex with a prostitute that is no different than having sex with your wife within the boundaries of marriage in terms of morality according to you? :s

    This doesn't make it good. And if it isn't good, one has no good reason, therefore, to do it.Heister Eggcart
    Well, most Platonists/Aristotelians - of which the early Christians were - would associate natural with good, for the most part.

    All you've done here is replace the rawness of having sex with the rawness of kissing someone, looking into their eyes. Love is not a sentiment, and your categorization of sex is just that, a petty sentiment.Heister Eggcart
    I don't see an argument here.

    Procreation is an absolute essential of what? Love?Heister Eggcart
    Of other kind of fruitfulness, including, yes, love.

    Agreed. So marriage and having "righteous sex" and having children are but shams.Heister Eggcart
    :-O :-} lol

    If having a child is neither right nor wrong in your thinking, then there is, as I've said several times now, no good reason to procreate.Heister Eggcart
    Nope, I haven't said it's neither. I said it can be either of them, depending on context.

    Procreating a child into existence does, which is why playing dumb, or flicking the amoral card on the table just isn't going to cut it.Heister Eggcart
    Suffering is not always bad, sorry to tell you :P

    So what?Heister Eggcart
    That is indication it is a natural desire that comes from within man's own being.

    Have you watched the recent Noah movie with Russell Crowe?Heister Eggcart
    No, I don't watch Hollywood anymore :P Such bullshit honestly, I get so bored trying to watch a movie nowadays. It's the same crap story time and time again, and it seems bullshitty to experience emotions while starring at the screen instead of by living through them. I can't stand the fakery.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    At the very least, you cannot say that the command is categorical, but only meant for certain people called to marriage and family life.Thorongil
    Yes, exactly, I completely agree with this. It's a general command for mankind, not for all particular men (and women) - as I've explained celibacy is also moral.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    I agree that the literal meaning of the command implies procreation, but as I believe Heister pointed out, it is given prior to the Fall.Thorongil
    I pointed that out, Heister thinks (or rather thought) the opposite.

    I don't think anyone would object to procreation if it took place in paradise by immaculate human beings!Thorongil
    Well this is precisely what Heister was objecting to, he was saying that sex did not exist, except after the Fall. But if sex didn't exist, how were Adam and Eve meant to procreate before the Fall?
  • What Philosophical School of Thought do you fall in?
    Of these, I waver the most with respect to the first, as lately I've been attracted to classical theism and Platonism.Thorongil
    What about Aristotelianism, what's your position on it and why?
  • What Philosophical School of Thought do you fall in?
    I think the test is muddled, at certain points I had no "right" choice to pick, so I picked one which refuted all the others (which were wrong). I got Platonism, for what it's worth.

    I picked "Other" in your poll. I don't belong to any school of thought, I think they're all mistaken. I don't understand how you guys adhere to any of them.

    I would say most truth is found in Neoplatonism, Aristotelianism, Stoicism, Skepticism, Existentialism, Epicureanism. But I would not adhere to any of them.

    I would not put much worth in Cynicism, Cyrenaicism, Hedonism, Empiricism, Humanism, Eclecticism, etc.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    Your judgement not to procreate? The baseline is doing nothing, not having the child.Heister Eggcart
    Why would not procreating be the baseline, when we have a natural desire to procreate and be intimate?

    You love the person, not the sex.Heister Eggcart
    Yes, I do love the person. The sex can be an expression of our love though, that's what you don't seem to understand. It's an expression of it. Just like a bird sings its song, as an expression of its being.

    Sex is sex, regardless of what you're having sex with.Heister Eggcart
    This is absolutely false. Immoral sex is different than righteous and moral sex.

    And you don't need to have sex in order to love someone more fully.Heister Eggcart
    Sure, I completely agree. I never said you have sex with your wife in order to love her more fully, indeed that would be very stupid and immoral (and untrue). Love comes first, sex is merely an expression of the underlying love when it happens.

    procreation is never good.Heister Eggcart
    I disagree. There is a natural desire to procreate.

    Yes, I'm sure that you love someone so much more if you spiritually slide your cock back and forth inside her! :DHeister Eggcart
    Oh yeah, how funny you are. Only that you forget that the physical motion of the penis inside the vagina isn't all that's happening at all. There's the touches, the looking into each other's eyes, the feeling of each other's bodies, the shared emotions, the feelings, the kissing, the intimate connection etc. You strip the act of 99% of what it includes, and then proceed to deride it. Well done.

    All I'll say is that "be fruitful and multiply" doesn't necessarily infer human reproduction. Seeing as God is classically understood as love, to be fruitful is to multiply love.Heister Eggcart
    While that meaning may ALSO be the case it's not the essential meaning of the statement. Why not? Because Adam and Eve were the first human beings on Earth. Who were they to love? Themselves? No, they had to first reproduce.

    Highly misleading. This passage has been read allegorically since the early church as I recall. It can refer to the fruitfulness and multiplication of virtue and as a call to evangelize (multiply the numbers of Christians by conversion).Thorongil
    This is ridiculous. So Adam and Eve are the only people on Earth (cause God had just created them) and one of the first commandments is to be fruitful and multiply virtue by evangelizing non-existent human beings in Paradise (cause the Fall hadn't occurred yet) :s Utterly absurd.

    It is true that "fruitfulness" implies much more than physically procreating, but physical procreation is one of the absolute essentials, which makes all the other fruitfulness possible in the first place. So it seems to me you want to have the tree, without its roots. I do agree that the Bible has multiple levels of meaning, but these levels of meaning are complementary and not self-refuting.

    Obviously being celibate can be wrong. I assumed you would think of pedophilic priests who are supposed to be celibates but fail at it. I would argue that they fail at it because they're not satisfying their sexual desires. Not doing that ends up with worse consequences (child abuse).Heister Eggcart
    This is a frequent misunderstanding of the way sexual desire functions - and Catholic priests aren't taught how to handle their sexual energy, they way monks are taught, so of course they struggle with it. That's one of the reasons why Orthodox priests are encouraged to marry.

    Being a celibate cannot be wrong, but there are wrong ways of practicing celibacy. One such way is by repressing your sexual desire. The other is by expression of sexual desire in inappropriate ways, and some are more inappropriate than others. The right way of being a celibate is by sublimating your sexual desire, which does not mean repressing it (running away from it, trying not to feel it anymore) but accepting and experiencing the feeling(s) it generates and brings into consciousness without acting on them. Monks learn this because they have to practice it, and their mystical practice helps guide them through managing it. So celibates are actually very sexual people (most of the time) contrary to what most people would expect - they are very in touch with their sexual energies, and are a lot more aware of them than regular people.

    Catholic priests are taught to repress their sexuality. They don't even masturbate (a sin, I know, but less of a sin than raping children). One of the reasons for this is that they misunderstand Aquinas. Aquinas called masturbation the worst sin in-so-far as only sexuality is considered. But in-so-far as justice, compassion, etc. are considered, then rape, child abuse, etc. are much worse. So priests should be told to masturbate if they cannot control their urges otherwise, as this is definitely a better choice than some other sins they would end up committing.

    Now sexual desire in itself is not wrong, but it has to be understood. You have to understand what it is that you truly want when you want to have sex. And what you truly want (the natural end of sexual desire) is unending intimacy and love with your other half, something that can only be achieved within the boundaries of marriage. So then, once you understand that, you understand that just shagging that hot girl you see will not make you happy, and will not get you what you truly want. So then you don't do it - it becomes very natural. You don't have to struggle with it at all at that point. If you see a girl that everyone considers hot, it's not a problem, it doesn't disturb you in the least. Because you've understood the natural end of that desire.

    However this natural desire for intimacy cannot be fulfilled until you obviously find the person who is your other half and marry them. So celibacy is the right response until then (or until you can be successful at that, management in the least sinful manner, probably masturbation), since there really is nothing else that can satisfy your desire anyway.

    Merely because having sex and procreating children is natural doesn't make it right or necessary to do so.Heister Eggcart
    Sure, but it doesn't make it wrong either.

    Procreation gets added to the list of corrupted, natural processes.Heister Eggcart
    That doesn't mean there isn't a right way to engage in it.

    Even so, if a couple wants to have a child so that they might father and mother it and love it, then there are millions of little shits out there that can keep them up at night and are needing to be adopted.Heister Eggcart
    Sure, but again most people do have a desire to have their own children - to be co-creators.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    Then why must I assume the child will agree with my judgement?

    Then you have no good reason to have a child. So, why are you in favor of having children if there's no good reason or necessity that demands their procreation?Heister Eggcart
    I'm not in favor of having children (for everyone), I'm just not against it.

    You are using someone when you're having sex with them.Heister Eggcart
    There is a difference between fucking a girl and being in love with a girl (even when that includes sex). Fucking a girl is like a leper scratching an itch - it's ultimately not fulfilling but it's something one does either out of spite for themselves or out of suffering. Being in love with a girl and marrying her can lead to sex, but the action is different. In that case it's not scratching an itch, but doing something that is positively fulfilling of a natural human desire - the desire for intimacy. I'm sorry if you cannot comprehend that there's more to sex than just fucking.

    What difference does this make? You have responsibility over the child just as you do over the cake you baked with your wife.Heister Eggcart
    Sure.

    No, only that it isn't necessary with regard to procreation.Heister Eggcart
    The sexual act isn't necessary with regard to procreation? :s What?

    A dick in the hole is a dick in the hole.Heister Eggcart
    Well, leaving the vulgarity aside, the physical connection that happens during sex is mirroring the spiritual connection that happens between the two lovers. A dick in the hole may be a dick in the hole, but the act itself doesn't include just a dick in a hole.

    Also, I think it's worth noting that sex as a function came about after the fall of Man, so to equate sex to God's first creative emanations before sin's entrance into the world would be an entirely obtuse characterization. Sex is not sacred and pure as love is in itself, or justice, or any other virtue.Heister Eggcart
    First of all this is completely unbiblical and completely false. Read Genesis 1:27-28, which occurs way before the Fall, just after God had created man. What does it say?

    God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them; and God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth."

    So how did God expect them to multiply if not sexually? Did Adam grow a penis and Eve a vagina only after they ate from the Tree of Knowledge? Don't be silly. If you actually leave the bullshit aside and look at human nature, you will see that man (and woman) both have a natural desire for intimacy with their other half, which is also expressed through committed intimacy (including sex) in a married relationship.

    There is nothing wrong with sex in itself. But sex, like all other good things from God, has been corrupted with the Fall. And instead of being used for intimacy and procreation, it was used for power, status, etc. Promiscuity (and ALL other sexual sins which, by the way, have their root in promiscuity) is a fallen expression of sexuality.

    Nothing wrong? Think about what you're saying here for a second, and I think you'll take that back.Heister Eggcart
    What's wrong with it, I seem to be too stupid to realise? :P

    only that I cannot divine up an instance wherein procreation is necessary.Heister Eggcart
    Well, clearly God would disagree given that one of the first commandments was to be fruitful and multiply ;)

    Some don't need to have sex, and so celibacy is a properly moral option. Others, however, do need to satiate their sexual appetite, thereby curbing future ruin by not doing what is necessary.Heister Eggcart
    These are not good reasons either for not having sex or for having it. Celibacy is either something temporary, or an action undertaken for spiritual purposes. Marriage and intimacy are fulfilling for many human beings, and they are goods, including having children. This is just how men and women were naturally created to be.

    Now, if you either cannot find a woman who fits with you, or you want to undertake celibacy in order to be closer to God, then sure, there's nothing wrong with that. I don't suggest you should marry someone for the sake of having children or having sex. Only if you find the right person. But if you do, then you would be throwing away something that is precious - at least to most people, given our human nature. There's no reason to do that - you won't be more moral by doing it.
  • Stuff you'd like to say but don't since this is a philosophy forum
    Well it's with her mouth open and full that the male becomes vulnerable.

    Teeth?
    Mongrel


    Yeah, please keep your disgusting fantasies private.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    But if you have faith that having a child is the right thing to do, then you're assuming that this child once born will agree with you.Heister Eggcart
    Why would I be assuming that? You're presupposing that the right thing to do has to be what the child will think is the right thing.

    Furthermore, I don't hold that having a child is right or moral by necessity, only that it is not immoral by necessity.

    So play God?Heister Eggcart
    Have you forgotten that man was created in the image of God?

    God creating the world isn't the same as you fucking a woman and creating a fallen human being.Heister Eggcart
    First of all, I wouldn't call it "fucking" a woman, the word has connotations which denote abuse, or using her. And it's not my creation, it's the creation of the two of us, cause presumably my wife will also want to have a child, otherwise I wouldn't be having a child in the first place. You seem to think that the sexual act is always evil, but that's not true. God has intended a natural place for the sexual act, which is fuelled by our desire for intimacy and union with the beloved. The act is symbolic of God's creation, and is certainly something holy if done right and within the boundaries of marriage.

    Of course there's nothing wrong with celibacy either, for those who aren't yet married (like myself) and those who want to be entirely devoted to God (monks/nuns).

    Also, while human beings are fallen, there is an element of goodness left in us, otherwise we would be unable to recognise what is good in the first place, and salvation would be impossible (much like for those who have committed the unforgivable sin).

    Eckhartus' mate, St. Thomas Aquinas writes:
    “Human Nature is not so completely corrupted by sin as to be totally lacking in natural goodness.”
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    While it's true for 1% of people they, do not have to worry about economic obligations in the same way others do, there are other harms- some of them are structural.schopenhauer1
    Sure, you need another argument, that's for sure.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    Procreation in and of itself isn't sufficient to cause harm.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    Deep, deep, down, down, in the bottom of my heart I feel gender and sex are more or less the same thing. BUT it is, nevertheless, the case that some roles which males and females carry out deviate from what is usually thought of as their normal role. For instance, some women drive trucks and some men take care of babies.Bitter Crank
    Okay so what's your point? I have already said that male/female tendencies only exist at a general level, and particular people are absolutely "free" to be the way they are (and should be respected for it). Just cause the statistics say you won't win the lottery doesn't mean that if you play it you can't win it. Statistics don't control the outcome for individuals, but they do generally describe the tendencies that exist for populations - large groups of individuals. Statistics cannot be used to judge individuals, you have to look at the person that is in front of you for that. So I never suggested that women shouldn't drive trucks and men shouldn't take care of babies. It's perfectly fine for women to drive trucks if they want to.

    I only said that gender is absolutely not a social construct, and it's something that is biologically given. This means that people cannot suddenly decide they're not a man even though they're born with a penis - for example.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    So rich people have no economic obligations? They have their own obligations not to mention being on top of the very economic system where the economic obligations take place.schopenhauer1
    If you do absolutely nothing and just plug 1 billion in the bank, how long do you think it will last? :s More than your own lifespan? Probably. Why don't rich people do that? Because it's not fulfilling.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    But based on my premise, it is valid.schopenhauer1
    No, it's absolutely not. If you have a child in a war torn region, giving birth to them isn't wrong, but failure to protect them when they need it, that will be wrong.
  • Forcing people into obligations by procreating them is wrong
    Yes, I agree with this, but I do not believe I was NOT saying this. AFTER the child is born it is forced into obligations. Obligations are harmful and inevitable. Procreation creates this condition. Ergo, procreating children is wrong as it leads to exposing a new person to inevitable and harmful ongoing, inescapable obligations.schopenhauer1
    Nope, that again doesn't follow. Procreation isn't necessarily immoral, but it can be. Should you procreate when you're in a war-torn country, where you probably will have a hard time to assure the survival of your child or provide for them? Probably not.

    But what if you're a rich billionaire whose son or daughter will never have any economic obligations whatsoever, should you then procreate? Even you, according to your silly argument, would be forced to concede this.

    Sure, procreation can be immoral in some cases, but that's not because it is immoral in-itself. The immorality comes after birth, when, for example, you fail to protect your child.

    The harm we may experience after we exist has identifiable causes for the most part. People, animals, nature may cause harm to us once we live. We may ascribe fault to them for doing so. We're not harmed by coming into existence, but are subject to harm when we do.Ciceronianus the White
    Agreed.

    So, I think one can intelligibly maintain that we shouldn't have children because they'll become subject to harm if we do.Ciceronianus the White
    Again, you need actual concrete reasons of what harms your child will become subject to. If you're not having a child because there's a war going on and it's unlikely you'll be able to take care of them that's completely different from not having a child because there's some harm - which you cannot specify - that will occur to him in his life.

    The basis of the anti-natalist position requires birth (conception) itself to be a harm. If birth itself isn't a harm, then bringing people into the world cannot be harmful, end of story. Your failure to provide for your child or protect them may be harmful, but that's an action which is different from bringing them into the world, and hence has little to do with the antinatalist position in the first place.
  • Are women generally submissive to men?
    "Gender" is a social construct while "Sex" is a biological trait.TimeLine
    Gender is absolutely not a social construct. Gender is biological. Let's have a kid teach you the basics:


    Back in the days when people still had a brain which wasn't clogged up by post-modernist propaganda.
  • Post truth
    Trump is notoriously uninformed.Wayfarer
    This may be true, that he's not a very cultured man, but that's totally different from saying that he's dumb. He's very smart, he hasn't however applied his intelligence to such matters.

    'The day I realized it can be smart to be shallow was, for me, a deep experience.'Wayfarer
    I would be skeptical of this. The real Donald Trump is probably different than what the media and his books have portrayed him to be, because remember, he's trying to build an image that sells. That speaks to the common, lazy folk, who want to hear that it's easy to achieve success. They'll pay for those books. This is an essential marketing principle that Trump has applied his whole life.

    The only way State Department can get him to read anything is to salt the papers they give him with references to him.Wayfarer
    This is anecdotal.

    He changes his mind continually and often shows no grasp of facts, principles or policies.Wayfarer
    Actually I think Trump is one of the most stubborn politicians - he rarely changes his mind on goals, but frequently on means of achieving them.
  • Post truth
    It doesn't take intelligence to be lucky enough to afford multi-million dollar financial losses.creativesoul
    Sure, but he inherited at most 200 million from his dad. His wealth is at least around 4 billion today. He's made more than he's lost, and he's beaten inflation - at least.

    It doesn't take intelligence to be lucky enough to be able to afford to hire the right people.creativesoul
    Look mate. It's no use if you have money to afford hiring the best talent if you (1) can't recognise that talent, (2) can't ensure that that talent is working for you and not against you, (3) can't retain that talent. These are NOT easy tasks at all. If someone gave you 1 million dollars and said do something with them, the chances are you'd lose them, and I don't think you consider yourself dumb. It's not as easy as you make it sound.

    Good business men keep their word.creativesoul
    Some of them do, some of them don't. Business skill isn't the same as morality - the two are different. So there's moral good businessmen, and immoral, but skilled businessmen too.
  • Post truth
    Of course he is. He verges on imbecilic.Wayfarer
    That is your opinion, you have offered no evidence of proving that.