You Are What You Love Reflection And here is chapter 2.
Ch2
“Sometimes a man doesn’t want to do what a man thinks he wants to do” (29). Smith begins by examining two movies, Stalker and American Beauty to show how often times we do not actually know what we want. Often times the idea of our ultimate want, is not actually that.
Discipleship or education then relies on our understanding of how human behavior is created (33). Most of human behavior is done unconsciously; we learn how to do things and then make those actions become subconscious actions (automaticities) to focus the mind on other things. As we master actions, those actions become automaticities (36). The way we make an action into an automaticities is through practice, when we choose to do an action over and over again. However, we can unintentionally develop automaticities as well. We create routines and rituals all the time without realizing it (37). This creates a problem because we can subconsciously develop loves for contradicting or rivaling things. We are constantly being trained to have different ideas of the “good life” and most of the time we do not even realize it.
This means that everything can potentially form us, there is no neutral action in life. The biblical authors have historically used the genre of apocalypse to identify the reality of formative liturgies all throughout culture (39). The genre uses fantastical images of dragons and monsters to reveal the actual state of things, rejecting the false image the polis was showing. Therefore, we need to learn to exegete (discern) the cultural liturgies that we engage with every day.
Smith analyzes the American shopping mall, explaining that its architecture, layout and advertising all resemble an ancient temple. He shows how one of the most religious sites in the West is in fact the shopping mall (40-43). The shopping mall uses mannequins and propaganda to create its own image of the good life. Smith explains that the mall trains consumerists, not be explaining to them why buying is good, but by painting a picture of the good life. The picture they paint is one that says, without words, you can only be happy when you own “this” (45).
This is only an example of how the “mundane” practices of life shape and even create our desires.
We do not lose sight of our ideals because we have been given wrong information, but because our hearts have been grabbed by a contrasting image of the good life (47). Smith goes back to the analogy of the shopping mall, in order to analyze the “gospel” of consumerism. He explains that the shopping mall tells a number of stories that create the desire to shop in people. The first is “You are broken therefore you shop” (47). This story paints the picture that you cannot be content without x. The next narrative is that the things you own are not good enough, so you need to shop some more in order to get what you “truly” need. The irony here is that the stories contradict one another. We are told you need to buy x to be happy, then we get x and are told that x won’t make you happy, but y will (50-52). The story of the shopping mall is a perpetual circle of consumption that never ends in joy, but only continues in want.
“By our immersion in this liturgy of consumption, we are being trained to both overvalue and undervalue things: we’re being trained to invest them with a meaning and significance as objects of love and desire in which we place disproportionate hopes … while at the same time treating them … as easily discarded” (52).
The tenants of the consumer gospel are caught not taught (54). Smith ends the chapter with a challenge for us to take a liturgical audit of our lives. Asking the question, “What do I love?” and “What is currently teaching me to love?” (54).