It is a series of different loci of experience, always gaining and losing components. — darthbarracuda
Here you have nailed it. In Western culture, you find many, many pseudo Buddhists, who follow worldly Dhammas like assiduously seeking gain, failing to realize that gain is impermanent. Fame is impermanent. Honor is impermanent. Reputation is impermanent. Loss is ineluctable, shamelessness is one of the core teachings of Cynicism (very much like Buddhism), which claims we shouldn't recognize any shame and to reject reputation. The point being you find people who think they understand change, yet participate in a culture which enshrines certain unchanging values. It would seem then, knowing culture is a source of delusion is one of the first things understand. Blind faith in the conditioned responses and stereotypes of interiorized social norms are a major impediment to the Buddhist path.
Also, meditation is vegetation. Western culture is one of myrmidons. Being able to stop and establish quietude, stillness, and silence is seen as laziness. Yet it is precisely inaction which is necessary to watch the moving parts of the self and spy the inward defilement insinuated in us by the rat race or hedonic treadmill we were raised in, and conditioned by. It isn't possible to get out of the box by novelty seeking, novelty seeking becomes a repetitive, conditioned response like any other one. Only sitting still and vegetating allows us to see what never stops moving, and lucidly untie our Gordian knots; one of the main skills meditation conveys is how to live in a state of mind similar to the onset of sleep, not unlike hypnagogia(pompia), which is a state where subconscious syndromes more readily sally up for observation... making strenuous effort to get on top - and ambitiously pursuing rewards and goals, sticks and carrots - in an economic fundamentalist system totally negates this essential quality.
Thus I've come to realize practicing Buddhism in western culture is almost too difficult. Our culture is anti Buddhist in every conceivable way. It may be possible to apply bits and pieces of it in the morning and before bed; when the willy-nilly commercialized life takes over at work and in relationship, Buddhism isn't there..the worldly dhammas take control (learned classical conditioning).
Briefly, the eight worldly conditions which repeat through socially conditioned response (which few can undo): gain and loss, honor and dishonor, happiness and misery, praise and blame. If we see that everything changes...we should also see that these conditions change as well and set them down like a red hot ball of iron.
Generally, we are taught to increase our self as much as possible everyday. The wisdom of Taoism and Buddhism teach the opposite. Everyday we should peel back and drop another layer of the onion of the delusions of our self-concept, the box we're in made up of conditioned responses. It would be interesting to compare Western psychology's idea of self-concept to anatta; then it could be lucidly understood how different are Western egocentric sickness vis a vis Buddhism's no self. And how nearly impossible it is to apply anicca, dukkha, anatta to our lives. The skhandas are not really what we have to overcome having been steeped in Western conceptions of self, it is self concept, like self-image, self-esteem, ideal- self, future selves...and other defilements that have been bred into our schemas. The skhandas, I'm afraid will remain with us till the end in shallow celebrity culture. To overcome these, you'd have to move to a monastic setting. Then we should focus on what can be overcome, or be shed, such as self-concept.
There is something that doesn't change, it's what is used in meditation. Budhho, the one who knows. If you think about it, it would be impossible to see or track the intimations of our kaleidoscopic, conditioned responses if there were nothing in us different than they are (and not another changing element). It would be a phantasmagoria impossible to exit. Luckily, meditation gets us in contact with Buddho, the one who knows everything about us and is our aid in self-examination; without it we could probably never prune away delusion, anger, greed. That one of the skhandas is consciousness itself was always a tough one for me. Buddho would seem to be pure consciousness and the tool we use to take the discontinuous, quantum leap into via negativa and unity...apparently it is a tool to be jettisoned in the end, while the organism still lives of course (since consciousness, Buddho, is a skhanda). Those who enter nirvana have been absorbed. Western culture would call them lazy or autistic..and nobody wants to be a special needs person, at the very least we have been insinuated with the idea laziness is a virulent pestilence (but what if it was that we desired very little, ascetically? apparently we are still WASPs, and fear eternal damnation without working around the clock). See the problem. We had better settle for boddhisattvahood and retain Buddho to help others get out of this violent, Western apoplexy. Then we can communicate what we know about deconditioning. Then once we are all boddhisattvas, we can wink out of existence at once together.
It's as though we come to believe something like 'knowledge is power' or 'learning is power' when learning, experience, and memory are actually a record of endless rounds of becoming, births. When it's understood any possible aspect of self-concept is made of this record of learning, experience, and memory, that the bricks of self are made of these conditioned responses, it's patent the difficulty of exiting samsara. Unlearning, unexperiencing, and forgetting are essential to deconditioning. Escaping the box can't be done by visiting another culture while bringing your own background...or even by learning another culture if you didn't have an identity... Part of us is out of existence along with the part that is in it...we aren't fully in or out of existence...we can learn to decondition by following the part that's vanishing from existence. Trusting the noetic quality in ourselves is a requisite to this, and understanding that outside of egocentrism, we still have a knowing faculty to guide us. While this sounds mystical, intelligence itself is a kind of knowing independent from what is known (knowledge and experience, etc.)...it operates far too subtly to attribute to knowledge, reason, memory or any faculty that can be collocated beside karma, or personal history.