So yes, it may be the case that modern life is structurally shit. Folk are reared on romantic notions of their existence. Society has become a giant economic machine, out of control of a community level living. We are too self-aware in a particular way - our heads filled with the idea of being the heroes of our own unique sagas. And society has become a consumerist, planet-destroying, rat race. — apokrisis
I agree.
So unless you actually believe in some transcendent/romantic ontology - humans as the chosen beings - then you have to view all this through the lens of naturalism. And nature has its natural structure - one based on a dynamical balancing act. — apokrisis
One argument I have presented before and here now is that humans are out of balance with nature by their very nature. We're too intelligent, too creative, too self-aware. We understand our mortality by age five, and it scares us. I do not think this is a passing phase in human evolution - humans have made extinct some excessively large amount of species in pursuit of banal goals: money, food, sex, shelter. It has been this way since the dawn of civilization and will continue to be this way. Many have analyzed this as a symptom of capitalism, or patriarchy, or religion. The truth is, I think, more banal and more simple than any of that (although those other theories contribute). Living "in tune" with nature just isn't good enough for us. Metaphorically speaking, nature kicked us out and we're on our own.
Why the anti-natalist focus on not having children? Any of us who are parents will agree that it is a choice that should be carefully considered. But it also has the potential to be hugely rewarding and affirming. — apokrisis
Yes, parenting can be rewarding for people. The emotional bond between a parent and a child can be great. There are lots of perks with parenting, especially when the rest of society encourages you to procreate.
Yet the antinatalist argument is that, despite this relationship, procreation is still an act of supreme manipulation. Someone is brought into existence without permission. Parents want a child - so they have one. They do not think about the interests of the child
right now, they're already strategically planning years in advance. Sooner or later we'll have designer babies, and people will be able to literally design what
their baby looks like. Does this not seem like self-indulgence to you? Yes, children need adults to take care of them - but what makes people think
they are qualified to fill this role? Doesn't that seem a little egocentric and presumptuous?
Many people are good parents, but those who procreated evidently never asked themselves whether being a (biological) parent
tout court is good. The fact of the matter is that, so far as I am aware, there is not a single reason to procreate that isn't selfish. I'm not saying having a child can't be a beautiful thing for someone.
But from the perspective of an ethical-minded person, procreation is unnecessary and 1.) a violation of autonomy, 2.) a disregard for someone's well-being, and 3.) technically murder. A truly good parent who loves their children
before they have them (and not after-the-fact),
does not have them, in my view.
Life is a mixed bag because that is how nature works. That is my argument. But go on ignoring it by claiming I'm simply the mirror opposite of you - an optimist, a pollyanna, or whatever other glib counter helps to keep your own game going a little longer. — apokrisis
Okay. As I told Baden,
with respect to anything else, a "mixed bag" would not be acceptable. You would want something
better. You'd tell the manager of the restaurant to please send out a better meal thank-you-very-muchly, this one's over-cooked. It's edible, sure, but it tastes like crap. The manager comes back with a bottle of meat sauce instead. Is that acceptable? Would you return to this restaurant?
But when it comes to "life", suddenly a mixed bag is a-okay. Why? Do you buy into the "romantic" notions of life as some great story, an incredible journey of development, a beautiful tale? No, of course you don't, this is nonsense. Life is brutal, short and bad for many creatures and it's been this way since day one. Humans fare little better in the big scheme of things. We're given a short lifespan that can barely accommodate a single great project. A common theme in science fiction is how the lifespans of other alien species dwarf our own, making shorter-lived species like us envious of longer-lived species and deeply saddened by their own short lives. It's unfair, and not in a minor way. We don't know any other alien species so we can't make this comparison in real life, but that doesn't mean we can't imagine our lives being longer. We
settle for the mediocre, the "mixed bag" as you said. We don't agree with it so much as we internalize it, adjust and make the best of an unideal situation. At every moment of time, our bodies are working to keep us alive. Sooner or later the machinery breaks down, can't be repaired, and we die.
The crucial part of my argument that I do not think you responded to was the necessity of negative value and the contingency of positive value. Positive value exists insofar as it is a reaction to the negative value that is already there and will always be there. Life is terminal struggle, that's what it is. You're given a burden (mortality) and must find a way to carve out a small part of the world just for yourself so you can postpone death for as long as possible. Life may be comfortable now, but a single toothache, migraine, or kidney stone throws it into a wreck. My argument, like I said before, is that humans are too self-aware and too
decadent. What you imagine: a Rousseau-esque return back to nature's harmony, is a pipe dream. My argument is that humans (but life in general as well) is seriously fucked up from any modern ethical perspective and should not continue because of this.
The banality of reality sucks. There's no redeeming aesthetic. We're cogs in the machine of entropy, and if we dip out nothing will be lost.