Nah. Bad faith and ill will are evolutionarily advantageous.This automatic reaction to think the worst of people when there are perfectly good explanations possible seems like a symptom to me.
I think that has a lot to do with how we live and how much of our autonomy we have to surrender to live that way. We live in a world of strangers and that is not what we're built for. We feel helpless to make things right and that's not what we're built for either. — Kenosha Kid
To attribute powers to something which may or may not exist to begin with, seems like an odd starting point to any discussion. — Present awareness
For one, the nun probably isn't weighing her options like that. I wouldn't assume nuns or prospective nuns generally do that. There was a time when I wanted to become a Catholic nun, and I can say from personal experience that the standards of dress were never an issue for me; it went without saying that if I were to become a nun, I would wear the habit or whatever standard attire would be prescribed by the order. I have also not felt in any way oppressed by the standard of dress for nuns; there was no fear involved in the prospect of wearing the habit. On the contrary, I looked forward to it, I felt proud about it. I dare say I am not the only one who thinks so.They're not just milder, they're qualitatively different. If you accept a position at a firm with a dress code then, like a nun, you have weighed up whether conformity is something you're willing to adhere to get something you want. — Kenosha Kid
I don't know. How many Muslim women have you interviewed about this?However when weighing up whether or not to wear a headdress in public, you are weighing up whether or not the risk of insane and hateful punishment is worth taking.
It's a false dichotomy to begin with.Wanting a particular job is not on the same spectrum as not wanting acid in your face. That's the troubling aspect about this.
Recourse to the law in "civilized" countries?There are milder, broader issues around things like dress and oppression. Transvestites are often attacked by homophobes. However a) it's comparatively rare, not systematic, and
b) the victim has recourse to the law.
Your most fundamental mistake is that you think that Western secular men are better feminists than any woman could ever be.The same coersion that forces women to wear particular clothing in public (which is far more totalitarian than just in the workplace) will typically either place them outside of the protection of the law, or else under a law that supports that mode of oppression. We're talking the kinds of countries that stone women to death for being raped. Even in the most comparable cases, it's qualitatively different.
There is a tendency to focus on the ‘victim’ as the passive object of our concern, rather than as a free-thinking agent who has been limited under conditions of culturally perceived potentiality. Men want to rescue the victim from certain ‘forces’, without examining the conditions that attribute potentiality to these ‘forces’ rather than the agent. It is these conditions of perceived potentiality - in particular what a woman’s clothing means regarding the potential and value of interactions with her - that women are rarely given a say in as free-thinking agents, in any culture. THIS is an area of concern. — Possibility
"Seeming" being the operative word.And you're a seeming apologist for some of the worst practices in the world. — tim wood
No, that's not good enough.My bad if I misunderstand. Please correct me.
There you go. You think that with an attitude like you've been displaying here toward me and some others, you invite open discussion? Too bad this forum doesn't have the type of report function that some others have, because I've been wanting to report you from the beginning of this.But being confirmed by lack of correction, I shall respond as I see fit, and the standard you're setting abysmally low.
I'm not going to defend stances that you merely imagine I hold.I am at a loss to account for just how you-all can be as ignorant and stupid as you're being with the arguments you're presenting here, and disgusting. — tim wood
exercising their right to choose what to wear — tim wood
It's not an equivalence. I'm saying those repercussions are on a spectrum.But we're not talking about whether it's good for a woman's CV: we're talking about whether it would result in her having acid thrown in her face, or restrictions of freedoms, or domestic abuse, or loss of life. The man in a bikini example is directly comparable to a nun choosing not to wear her habit, not to a Muslim wearing a chador for fear of death or disfigurement. I find the false equivalence of these quite alarming. — Kenosha Kid
If you want to apportion blame (and emphasize personal responsibility), then the blame lies with the employees who chose to go to work instead of losing their jobs. In the beginning of the pandemic, this is what was happening: if people chose to respect the quarantene, not just a few employers would count that as their vacation time or sick leave, and when those ran out, it was "Go to work or lose your job."This sort of thinking is precisely how the pandemic has become so protracted. A refusal to do it once and do it right because business comes first has killed off many more businesses and people than just accepting the necessary measures to handle the pandemic properly. — Kenosha Kid
So how does a person come to terms with this?Also, asking whether those worst affected by measures of they are in favour of them is rather dishonest. Such measures are statistical, taken for the sake of the whole population in order to minimise, not simply eradicate, harm. Those unfortunate enough to be the worst affected have no right to insist that every person saved by those measures should instead be dead for their sake.
I remember once saying to a woman I knew, that I had spent time questioning my way through the Catholic beliefs I has been taught. She replied, 'But that would be too much work.' — Jack Cummins
To a lesser or greater extent, this applies to any choice people make anyway.It's just that currently that decision exists within a culture where oppressive [forces are] prominent. — Kenosha Kid
I suppose that's true for small companies, but I'm not so sure about the bigger ones.Pay them poorly, make them feel disposable and always wonder when you will have to close your doors. — Book273
So what is your suggestion: Where should people go and what should they do in order to learn and practice criticial thinking?Consider how worse it would be without that section. At least that section serves the purpose of containing the religious garbage in one place. — emancipate
By going in circles.Is it possible to have something more infinite then infinity? How could something that goes on without end, have MORE without end? — Present awareness
If you don't care much about what others expect of you, you put yourself at risk of their anger and their revenge.If you care so much about what others expect of you, you will never be free. — Olivier5
I suggest you talk to as many women as you can. Ask them by whom they have felt most oppressed in their lives.suppression of women — tim wood
baker@TheMadFoolLet me make sure I understand you two: in terms of obligations to wear certain clothing and not wear other clothing, according to you two, there is no difference between a Christian nun and a Moslem woman. That at least is what you appear to be arguing.
Have I got it? If not please correct. — tim wood
I agree. And what is worse, it's not uncommon for women to be complicit in these assumptions, supporting them.It’s the assumptions made by men that she’s making a statement to them about her sexual status that places her most at risk. This is not just about laws suppressing women, but about how men automatically interpret the way women dress as speaking to them directly. You won’t solve this problem simply by changing the laws. — Possibility
I mean that you're presenting a model of different ways of engaging with people, based on whether they agree with you or not.I don’t even see HOW you could categorize people in advance of engaging with them, so I’m certainly not advocating that anyone somehow do that. — Pfhorrest
I don't see it this way at all.But after engaging with people, it will become clear whether their opinions are the ones you think are correct or not, and how strongly held those opinions are and for what reasons they’re held.
It’s then appropriate to engage with them differently based on those various factors.
What you think should be the case is totally immaterial to what actually is the case. — Isaac
How would you multilaterally define the terms of engagement, since to do so one would have to first engage? — Isaac
If you want to solve the problem of solipsism, you will need to be more disciplined.I've combed through a lot of arguments and forums on this so I can't relay everything or remember it all. — Darkneos
Since I don't practice that common practice, the whole classification is moot for me.It might help you see better if you realize that it is proposed in juxtaposition to the common practice of treating people as only being in groups 1 or 5. I’m advocating more nuance than that. — Pfhorrest
God exists because imperatives of Reason exist and require an imperator - an imperator who will be God. And that imperator will be able to do anything - including things he forbids - because they're his imperatives. — Bartricks
From what I've seen in online forums, much of the time when people ask the latter, they mean the former.Once again, the question was not "How should I live my life?" but "Why do YOU choose to go on." — Kenosha Kid
Obviously, a person can only understand things that are already within their scope of understanding.I think he wants people to give him the answer he already knows he wants.
It's not illogical if one wishes to train oneself to come to terms with the fact that not everything in life has closure:That is incorrect. Enjoyment of the film may be emotional or intellectual, but the decision to stop watching half an hour before the end is illogical, and the decision to watch to the end logical (other factors aside... if the cinema is on fire, leave). — Kenosha Kid
I believe that there are limits to human imagination, however, I also believe it is possible to imagine a being or thing which does not have limits. All sorts of Gods have been imagined by all kinds of human cultures and who’s to say which one is right or even if any of them are right? — Present awareness
"Would" isn't going to get you to those wider areas.Obviously, we are in the process of trying to find our place within the corridors of thought but I would prefer the wider areas rather than be backed into a little narrow cupboard. — Jack Cummins

Not being locked into a certain position can also be detrimental to oneself and to others.I am just saying that sometimes people get locked into certain positions of thought and this can be detrimental to oneself as much as others. — Jack Cummins
Exactly.I think perhaps there’s a hidden assumption here in the terms ‘piety’ and ‘religiosity’ that women’s dress is a statement about their sexual status. That this is how you interpret their dress does not make it the reason for their dress. In my experience, neither Christian nuns nor Muslim women are wanting to showcase or claim ‘piety’ or to publicly declare their ‘religiosity’ - they’re wanting to belong, to matter or have purpose within a perceived value system. — Possibility
People who don't fight for what they believe is right go crazy.I raise the question of how important it is to be right in relation to the whole personal, emotional relationship which we have with the ideas which we have. — Jack Cummins
Sure, you can do so as private persons (ie. when not in your professional capacity), or else, only produce qualitative case studies, which are of limited scientific value.You've given a really good list there of the limits of psychological investigation. I'm largely in agreement. You've prefaced the list rather unfortunately though. These things do not escape those of us who study people professionally. We have no lesser access to them than others. — Isaac
