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would hate to be in a position to look into the minds of many people and see what they are looking for. But I would venture to say, they are not looking for people beaten up, or raped, or robbed, or killed. They are looking for equality, solidarity, and all kinds of ~ity. But they know the road is long to achieve that, and many things must be laid down for the paving of that road: education, not just formal, but about the human nature. Eradicating illicit drug trade. Eradicating extreme exploitation (slavery). etc.
What I suggest for you to learn how a privileged lady in the upper echelons of society can be motivated to preach tolerance, is to read the book "Les Miserables" in your language, I am sure it's been translated into that from French. In it, a man gets out of prison; wonders down the road, and gets overnight stay in a wealthy man's home. He gets up at night, steals a silver candle-holder, and takes off. The cops get him, take him to the rich old man's house. The rich old man immediately sizes up the situation, and says, "My good man, you forgot to take the other silver candle-holder to go with the one I gifted you with!" And to the bufflement of the cops, they need to release him, and he wonders away now with two silver candle-holders.
Another suggestion for you, seeing your attitude has been established, and i can't change it any way I try, is for you to join the Hitlerjugend that has probably sprung up in your country and you find solace and understanding with your personal views shared by many there.
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First of all, thank you for a reply I really do appreciate!
Second: the sad thing in my home country, I think you can guess which, the small nazi-like party that used to have very few followers now is almost the biggest party in my country. Stories about kids of refugees attacking totally unknown "white" kids, beating them, urinating on them even raping them along with a tremendous lot of shootings among criminal gangs of kids of immigrants have created a racism far greater than I experienced growing up during the later decades of the last millenia.
Our government is mainly social democrats and people there have had a very permissive attitude to immigration. They do get a tremendous lot of shit for the situation, but those guys have really tried to cope with being a country of empathy but at the same time get a decent assimilation.
The guys really not having any borders are eg a lot of my facebook friends, that i have due to my class journey, marriage and interest in humanities. People from wealthy academical homes that still say "we cannot wait for assimilation we have to let all suffering people come here"l. Like - do you have a brain??? - i do not of course answer that because of eg family friendship. But listen, If it gets total chaos here - It is really near that, even the big socialist newspapers admit it on their home pages, other western countries will hear about this. Will they be prone to receive refugees???
Maybe reading that book will make me understand how these people think. I cannot discuss it directly with them.
Third: May I guess that you grew up in a prosperous, academical background? Your initial post suggests that the empathy was the main reason to go left. What one as a guy from poorer backgrounds that really do not understand his new neighbourhood then asks is - Is is conceptually like the guys with empathy becomes left and the guys without become right? This is of course stupid, but can you - if you are from academic background - elaborate on the process of selecting view here?