Here’s a summary of positions that I contrasted with George Kelly’s approach in my paper, Challenge to Embodied Intersubjectivity( google it if you like).
Trevor Butt (1998a) concurs with Merleau-Ponty that "sociality can be seen as more primitive for
humankind than individuality, when our status as body-subjects is appreciated and dualist ideas
are abandoned.”
By sociality, Butt means joint ownership of meaning, which he opposes to the cognitivist
presumption of a computer-like subject controlling their own thoughts.
Chiari(2015) adds: “In other words, it is possible to conceive the relationship between two or
more persons not in terms of "interacting" individuals, but of elements of an inseparable system
in which the relationship precedes the individual psychologies.”
Along similar lines, but from a realist rather than postmodern perspective, Harry Procter has
proposed the heuristic of a ‘family construct system’, wherein relationship dynamics among the
individual members of a family function comparably to the elements
of an individual’s personal construct system.
Shaun Gallagher(2017), a writer embracing hermeneutic as well as Merleau-Ponty themes, offers
a co-conditioning model of sociality that accords with Butt’s depiction of construing as
intersubjective:
On ‘socially distributed cognition’, he writes:
“To the extent that the instituted narrative, even if formed over time by many individuals,
transcends those individuals and may persist beyond them, it may loop around to constrain or
dominate the group members or the group as a whole.”
“Collective (institutional, corporate) narratives often take on a life (an autonomy)
of their own and may come to oppose or undermine the intentions of the individual
members. Narrative practices in both extended institutional and collective structures and
practices can be positive in allowing us to see certain possibilities, but at the same time, they
can carry our cognitive processes and social interactions in specific directions and blind us
to other possibilities."
The above treatments of the social space as centered configuration makes individual behavior in
social situations the product of narrative norms, reciprocities, shared practices and social
constraints. The presupposition here is the belief that essentially the same social signs are
available to all who interrelate within a particular community, that there are such things as
non-person-specific meanings, originating in an impersonal expressive agency. I’m not
suggesting that joint activity implies a complete fusion of horizons amenable to a third-person
perspective, except perhaps in the case of Procter’s group construct system. Rather , the
first-personal stance becomes subordinated to a second-personal ‘we’, as “an inseparable system
in which the relationship precedes the individual psychologies.”
Let’s not misunderstand what I mean by making this distinction between a WITHIN-person
and a BETWEEN-person dynamic. The within-person dynamic is already a between in that it is a
thoroughgoing exposure to an outside, an alterity, an otherness. For Kelly and Heidegger, the
radically inseparable interaffecting between my history and new experience exposes me to the
world in an immediate, constant and thoroughgoing manner. I am not arguing that the meaning of
social cues is simply person-specific rather than located intersubjectively as an impersonal
expressive agency. Before there is a pre-reflective personal ‘I’ or interpersonal ‘we’, there is
already within what would be considered THE person a fully social site of simultaneously
subjective and objective process overtaking attempts to understand human action based on either
within-person constancies or between-person conditionings.
So, rather than a retreat from a thoroughgoing notion of sociality, Personal construct theory
would be a re-situating of the site of the social as a more originary and primordial grounding than
that of the over-determined abstractions represented by discursive intersubjectivities. Those
larger patterns of human belonging abstracted from local joint activity, which Merleau-Ponty’s
intercorporeal approach discerns in terms of cultural language practices, hide within themselves
a more primary patterning. While our experience as individuals is characterized by stable
relations of relative belonging or alienation with respect to other individuals and groups, the site
of this interactivity, whether we find ourselves in greater or lesser agreement with a world within
which we are enmeshed, has a character of peculiar within-person continuity. It also has a
character of relentless creative activity that undermines and overflows attempts to understand
human action based on between-person configurations or fields. We may identify to a greater or
lesser extent with various larger paradigmatic communities, delicately united by intertwining
values. But the contribution of each member of a community to the whole would not originate at
the level of spoken or bodily language interchange among voices; such constructs repress as
much as they reveal. Even in a community of five individuals in a room, I, as participant, can
perceive a locus of integrity undergirding the participation of each of the others to the responsive
conversation. To find common ground in a polarized political environment is not to find an
intersect among combatants, a centrifugal ground of commonality, but to find as many intersects
as there are participants. Each person perceives the basis of the commonality in the terms of their
own construct system.
In my dealings with other persons, I would be able to discern a thread of continuity organizing
their participation in dialogue with me, dictating the manner and extent to which I can be said to
influence their thinking and they mine. My thinking can not properly be seen as `determined' by
his response, and his ideas are not simply `shaped' by my contribution to our correspondence.
The extent to which I could be said to be embedded within a particular set of cultural practices
would be a function of how closely other persons I encounter resonate with my own ongoing
experiential process. I can only shape my action to fit socially legitimate goals or permitted
institutionalized forms to the extent that those goals or forms are already implicated in my
ongoing experiential movement. Even then, what is implicated for me is not `the' social forms, but
aspects hidden within these so-called forms which are unique to the organizational structure of my
construct system; what I perceive as socially `permitted' rhetorical argumentation is already
stylistically distinctive in relation to what other participants perceive as permitted. Each individual
who feels belonging to an extent in a larger ethico-political collectivity perceives that collectivity's
functions in a unique, but peculiarly coherent way relative to their own history, even when they
believe that in moving forward in life their behavior is guided by the constraints imposed by
essentially the `same' discursive conventions as the others in their community.
Eugene Gendlin, whose work is closely related to Heidegger’s, says “ The higher animals live quite complex lives without culture. Culture does not create; it elaborates. Then we live creatively much further with and after culture. To think that we are the creation of culture is not a view one can maintain if one senses ongoing bodily experiencing directly. Culture is crude and inhuman in comparison with what we find directly. The intricacy you are now living vastly exceeds what cultural forms have contributed to you. With focusing we discover that we are much more organized from the inside out. “