A philosopher is no good because he is the apposite of a therapist in that therapist tries to stop you from overthinking while a philosopher encourages it. — Purple Pond
Bingo!
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Seriously, I've been addicted to philosophy forums longer than you've been alive, so I hear you. I'm so addicted to forums that I spent literally years coding my own forum software from scratch.
However, there is a cure for addiction to this forum, or any philosophy forum. Find some other activity which engages you even more.
As example, I've just made the leap in to 3D animation over the last couple of weeks and my interest in this forum (and all philosophy forums) has plummeted as a result. For me at least it is because I'm bored with philosophy much of the time and am just doing it on auto-pilot frequently, repeating the same themes I've been writing on for years, to the same lack of interest as always. This isn't a particularly constructive pattern obviously.
If some young person has just discovered philosophy forums then that situation could be completely different.
Honestly, I think pretty much anything on the Internuts that takes up all our time is probably not too healthy. It's the medium itself that is much the problem. If I didn't spend a LOT of time in the woods, I'd likely be pounding the walls of some padded cell by now.
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Some other stuff....
I'm just terrified of people judging me. — Purple Pond
To be more precise, it's probably more a case of you judging yourself, and judging other people too. If true, this is good news, as it really has nothing to do with other people, and it puts you in charge of your own destiny. Maybe try thinking kind thoughts about everyone you meet, and sooner or later you may extend that to yourself as well.
The thing is, we philosophy nerd types are typically not too adept at social stuff. There's no crime in that, it's just something to be managed. And, don't forget, those who are skilled at social stuff typically can't write the kind of quality posts you opened this thread with. We're all born with strengths and weaknesses, and the trick is to be grateful for the gifts while developing a sense of humor about that which we weren't given. As example...
Hi there, I'm Purple Pond, I kind suck at this social stuff, help me out here will ya? — Purple Pond
Said with a wink, a nod and a shrug. Your opening post shows you already have this gift in print so you may be able to transfer it to the real world too. And remember, if somebody judges you for being that honest, feel sad for them, because that's their problem, and not yours.
So like I said, I'm not addicted to typing at all. I could stop anytime I want, anytime at all, except wait, here's one more thing before I forget....
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