“ you are saving someone from existing”. No, you are not saving anyone from anything. It’s a lie. You have saved exactly zero people. Your imaginary “someone” is a no one. It’s nothing. — NOS4A2
No, I’m questioning the absurdity that you have in mind some person that you’re protecting. No need to twist what I say, especially while accusing someone of sophistry. There are plenty of reasons to not have children that need not involve some fake ethical principle. — NOS4A2
ou are sparing someone from life by not having something that can potentially be had. No, you are saving someone from existing, not saving a particular already existing person. But you know that and now you want to change the argument.. — schopenhauer1
It goes without saying that people tend to pass their ideologies to their children. So what? The topic is coronavirus. — NOS4A2
You’re speaking about protecting figments of your imagination and pretending you’re being good for doing so. That’s demented. — NOS4A2
I’m almost certain that antinatalist rationalization is merely excuse-making for those too scared to have children. Don’t have children, sure, but don’t pretend you’re saving the soul of a child who will never exist anyways. — NOS4A2
Yah I just looked at the excerpt from google and posted it. I should have looked at the article. Not saying I agree though. looking for other information, something more current, but there isn't much on the subject so far. But I definitely don't agree that procreation is not instinctual. — SonOfAGun
3.2.1 Parents are not happier than non-parents
All respondents rated their general feelings of happiness on a seven-point scale. Comparison of
the scores of couples with children and of couples without children revealed no striking
differences. Non-parents seem slightly happier, but the difference fails to meet the 95 % level of
significance (see Table 1).
One could object that this outcome is possibly influenced by a tendency of childless
respondents to rate more happiness than they really feel. We checked this objection by testing the
hypothesis that happy non-parents show a higher score on the General Index of Complaints (see
below) than happy parents do. This check is based on the assumption that frustration of a
fundamental human need gives rise to both feelings of unhappiness and psychosomatic disorders,
the avowal of which is more susceptible to rationalizations by the respondent in the first case than
in the latter. This control hypothesis was rejected; the happiness scores of non-parents turned out
to be no less liable than those of the parents.
3.2.2 Parents do not have fewer psychosomatic complaints than non-parents
The same holds for psychosomatic complaints. The questionnaire contained 85 questions
concerning various complaints such as headache. nervousness, frequent diarrhea, feelings of
being unnatural, depression, etc. On the basis of these questions a General Index of Complaints
was constructed which turned out to be highly related to the clinical diagnose of neurasthenia.
This index was compared for parents and non-parents, but a statistical relationship could not be
demonstrated.
3.2.3 Parents feel less healthy than non-parents do
The questionnaire also contained a rating scale for subjective health feeling. Contrary to the
predictions of the procreation-instinct theory parents turn out to feel less healthy than non-parents
(see Table 1). More than the fulfillment of an undeniable need, parenthood seems to be a tiring
job.
3.2.4 Non-parents do not face a poorer life when growing older
The relation between childlessness and happiness is not affected by age. The same holds for the
relationship between childlessness and psychosomatic complaints. Age does affect the relation
with subjective health feeling: Non-parents in the age of 55 to 65 are feeling significantly better
than parents.
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3.2.5 Non-parents report no more doubts about the meaning of their life than parents
Analysis of the answers to a question about the meaningfulness of one's life did not reveal a
difference between parents and non-parents. No relationship could be found within the different
age groups, nor could a stronger tendency towards such a relation be demonstrated in the older
age groups.
The same holds for anxiety about old age and death. Non-parents do not seem to expect a
more problematic and lonesome end of their life. On the contrary, older parents report more
feelings of anxiety concerning this subject, though the difference hardly reaches the 95 % level of
significance. There is no evidence for the notion that non-parents feel more isolated in the later
years of life. Neither do non-parents report a lower degree of marital happiness nor show a higher
degree of problems in social interaction.
3.2.6 Procreation-instinct theory is applicable neither to men nor to women
On the basis of folk theory we might suppose that the results mentioned above hide a major
difference between men and women, with women being especially prone to negative effects of
childlessness. This hypothesis was tested, but it received little support. Childless married women
revealed no less happiness than mothers and reported neither more psychosomatic complaints.
nor more doubt about meaning of life. Likewise they reported neither less subjective health
feeling, nor more anxiety about old age and dying. They did not report less marital satisfaction. In
all age groups a tendency for non-parents to report a higher state of well-being could be observed,
but none of them reached the 95 % level of significance. For men they did in two instances,
Married male non-parents feel more healthy and report a higher level of marital satisfaction.
Finally we might suppose in the basis of the procreation-instinct theory that pregnant
married women are happier than non-pregnant married women. pregnancy being at least partial
gratification of the maternal urge. Twenty-two married respondents were pregnant at the time of
the interview. They were less happy than non-pregnant married female respondents. This result
fits in with the findings of Klein et al. (1950) and Tobin (1957). Again, a derivation from the
procreation-instinct theory fails to find empirical support. — IS THERE AN INNATE NEED FOR CHILDREN? Ruut Veenhoven European Journal of Social Psychology, 1975, vol 1 pp 495-501
Why this theory is wrong
This theory seems plausible at first glance, but looking at it more closely we can see that it is
based on simplifications and that its predictions turn out to be faulty. We will examine the
propositions mentioned above successively.
3.1 Animals have no 'desire for offspring'
It is true that almost all animals produce offspring, but it is probably not true that this behavior is
determined by an innate desire for offspring. It is highly improbable that animals are motivated
by such conscious wishes for long-term effects. It is far more probable that the reproduction
behavior is governed by more simple mechanisms. The most basic of these could be the sexual
drive which is recognizable in all animals. In addition many animals are apt to display maternal
behavior patterns when under influence of specific stimuli and/or hormones which are produced
as a result of pregnancy and lactation. This behavior is not a permanent motivational
characteristic of the animals concerned: It disappears when the production of hormones stops and
can be reactivated by artificial administration of hormones. Some animals are outfitted with an
inhibition against attacking the young of their own species; some species of apes even help young
ones of other parents in case of danger.
These three mechanisms seem to function relatively independently of each other. They are
governed by different factors. None of them seems to come forth from a conscious desire for
offspring, but nevertheless they result in continuous procreation.
3.2 Neither have human beings an innate need for children
Contrary to animals, human beings are capable of pursuing conscious long-term goals. Many
human beings are conscious of a desire for children and work to have them, but this behavior is
not necessarily dictated by an innate need. Human behavior is seldom directly governed by
instincts. Again and again the ever-present influence of environmental circumstances and
learning has been demonstrated. It is improbable that they would not influence the procreation
behavior. In addition human instincts are seldom linked to such specific patterns of behavior. As
far as instinctual tendencies in human beings may be assumed they pertain to vague preferences
which are manifested in very different forms of behavior. Reasoning along this line we could
hypothesize that human beings have instinctual needs for security, love, esteem and
meaningfulness (Maslow, 1964). These needs might be realized in parenthood as well as in a
cloister life, in a political career as well as in an intimate interaction with friends, etc.
The specific form in which the individual chooses to realize his instinctual needs is
probably highly affected by his experience and by the alternatives the socio-cultural environment
offers him. It makes more sense to look at parenthood as one of these alternatives than to
postulate an innate and compelling desire for children.
The idea of an instinctual desire for children is not only a theoretical simplification but
also fails to meet empirical support. If there were such a built-in need the desire for children
should be universal, but this prediction is not confirmed by facts. Millions of people decide
spontaneously for voluntary childlessness. In Canada 5 % of all married couples opt for
childlessness (Veevers, 1973). In the Netherlands 15 % of the couples married in the last few
years intend to forego parenthood (NIDI, 1974). This is not a temporary modern whim, but a
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phenomenon that has also been observed in earlier times, In medieval Western European society,
for example, a major part of the population remained childless.
These facts, however, offer no decisive evidence against the procreation-instinct theory. It
could be agreed that all these childless people pay a heavy price for their choice, that the
violation of such a compelling need makes people unhappy -- in any case less happy than people
who follow this need. Here we arrive at propositions 4, 5 and 6 mentioned earlier. To test these
propositions a secondary analysis was made of the data from an investigation concerning the
health and the life circumstances among a representative sample of the adult population of the
Netherlands, As we will see below these data give no support to the predictions of the
procreation-instinct theory. — IS THERE AN INNATE NEED FOR CHILDREN? Ruut Veenhoven European Journal of Social Psychology, 1975, vol 1 pp 495-501
Again, you raise interesting questions. — Tzeentch
The negative aspects of life seem to create reasons to not have children, while the good aspects of life are ignored. I am not convinced of the soundness of that. — Tzeentch
People will do what they are genetically programmed to do If left to their own devices. — SonOfAGun
talk to me again when you and everyone you know are starving to death. — SonOfAGun
I said "your descendants" you said "the next generation". My children are one thing, my sister's and cousin's children are another. — unenlightened
You do not need only the rich to have children, just the poor not to, there is plenty of middle ground there. — SonOfAGun
No we cannot. You can maintain your personal innocence, that's all. Whatever bad happens won't happen to your descendants, if you don't have any. — unenlightened
I asked my kids if they are suffering because they know there is suffering in the world. They said, "No. There is also happiness in the world that wouldn't be realized if there wasn't some suffering". Smart kids. — Harry Hindu
Without the younger generation, who is going to pay for your medication and hospital visits when you are old and retired? You end up running into the same problem China is after the implementation of their "one-child" policy.
Solution: Coronavirus. — Harry Hindu
It's far more serious than that. There are potentially uncountable generations of future off-spring, one of whom might be the fuckwit politician that sterilises the planet. But there is no escape from the responsibility, because not procreating can deprive the world of that planet sterilising fuckwit, and result in a thousand more generations of suffering humanity. Life is a risky business. — unenlightened
Those are very interesting questions, and exactly the type of questions that should be asked when educating people on procreation. However, one must appreciate that people may come to different answers than you. — Tzeentch
I'd rather it was their own decision though than that of some fuckwitted philosopher or politician. — unenlightened
“Liberal innovations” such as Keynesian economics and the modern welfare state. — NOS4A2
I wanted to own a home and have money in the bank before having children. I thought a woman should be a full-time homemaker. Those are very traditional values that were strongly promoted by public education. I associate these values with democracy. But having the ideology of democracy was not the reason for having children. The reason for intentionally having children was to fully experience being a woman. — Athena
I understand the political ideologies but question the value of the anthropological and sociological use of the word. I am not sure it is helpful to make a word mean anything you want it to mean? Of course, tribes have their method of survival and at some stage, they will come up with stories, but an idealogy? I am not sure that is a good use of the word? I don't think believing we came out of the center of the earth is equal to the more formal political ideologies. — Athena
What? It doesn't matter if it is apple or oranges? Try making an orange pie. :lol: Aren't we arguing the difference between dealing with reality or being lost in abstract ideas? Perhaps that is what is wrong today. People willing to kill for their religion/ideology and blind to reality. — Athena
And I did not say sex drove procreation I said the instinct to survive is what drove the act of sex — LuckilyDefinitive
I said that preference is NOT derived from imperical science. Yet you debate that human procreation is preferential. — LuckilyDefinitive
Also preference is most definitely not a thing derived from imperical science and that is the stance you are debating for. — LuckilyDefinitive
So I'm confused as to why I'm being told to provide evidence of my stance when yours is the more lofty reasoning? — LuckilyDefinitive
The biological need for information to survive only happens through new life. — LuckilyDefinitive
People have sex to create new life. — LuckilyDefinitive
All I'm saying is if modern theory of evolution is to be believed then instinct is what sex most likely what deove procreation, even for us humans. — LuckilyDefinitive
Freud's theory most definitely applies to this discussion. Nature verses nuture is applicable directly to whether or not ,nature vs nurture, is what drives human procreation. — LuckilyDefinitive
There is the Freudian theory for starters. — LuckilyDefinitive
No one can state that procreation as it pertains to humans is definitively preferential or instinctual. How could that be proven without being able to experience both separately then at the same time. Does that make sense? Much like a control study. — LuckilyDefinitive
How can anyone state that definitively if we have never experienced a life only lived through purity of one or the other? — LuckilyDefinitive
If the need to procreate is only driven by want why are we not the only species on the planet that procreates. Since it would require the ability to preconcieve to formulate a want then nothing else should mate according to your logic, correct? — LuckilyDefinitive
Having a child at its core is procreation, and what is procreation if not a species DNA instinctual need to pass on a means in which to survive. Just because we have the means to live in a way where basics for survival are an after thought; does not mean that they were never and are not natural motums of our existence. — LuckilyDefinitive
That does not ring true to me. Perhaps you could describe it more precisely? Exactly what would a common ideology look like? — Athena
I don't think those are universals. They are common but not universal and there is nothing sacred about our secular marriages. — Athena
Why is it important for Christians to make everyone one of "them"? Why does one society assimilate others and another society keep itself pure of those others? Can we be sure those Jews forced to be Christians are really Christians or are they faking it and do they threaten "us"? I think you have locked onto the wrong premiums. Reproduction is not the only way to increase our numbers. — Athena
Likewise, in human (and possibly other) societies, groups, "tribes", and so on and so forth, it's not reducible solely to the desire to physically reproduce (e.x. a non-violent community of monks or nuns practicing celebacy, or a community of artists, musicians, or athletes which serves more of a creative purpose than a "surivial" purpose would be examples. — IvoryBlackBishop
Do you think that would have always described what is important? — Athena
The purpose of mythology is to transmit social agreements and transition youth into adults who are valued by the community. The children just happen without planning. I know you think children are the result of planning, but for how many centuries has that been true? — Athena
Because we believe it is best and will mean a good life for the members of our society, but as I said we have not perpetuated the ideology of our forefathers. We stopped using education to transmit our culture and began preparing our youth for a technological society with unknown values. Today what the young think is best is not what we wanted in the past. I absolutely hate the new fade of saying "perfect" to everything! That is so superficial and frivolous. I find business practices today, intolerable. I see a serious lack of individual liberty and power and this is not "perfect". This is surely off-topic, but maybe you can understand why I find it hard to go along with your train of thought? — Athena
I think you must be young because you are unaware of a dramatic cultural change. The US has become what it defended its democracy against. That means all those people who defended our way of life, died for nothing. That bothers me a lot. — Athena
You skipped my question of how is an ideology transmitted. — Athena
Are words identical to concepts? I'm inclined to think not, but I don't have any evidence. And if they aren't identical what makes them different? — Aleph Numbers
I must congratulate you on her tenacity. I will agree some people have children to perpetuate an ideology. Now once the child is born, what do they do to prepare the child to perpetuate that ideology?
In societies where people with a different ideology take control of resources and enforce a different way of living, it is devasting to the aboriginal people, leading to shattered lives, broken families and alcoholism. Are people who do this to other people guilty of a wrong? How important are our ideologies to the good life? — Athena
the ones who get shafted are the middle class who do earn pay but they get squeezed a little. — BitconnectCarlos
If there was a system that randomly killed 1 jobless person out of 10, and of the working population 6% of people are jobless. Would you be ok with that just because the percentage is low and you have a job (so you're safe)?
People like to obfuscate the moral dimension here but not being able to afford healthcare means people die from otherwise treatable diseases. — Benkei
The "wet" (or live) trade in wild animals for food is pretty bad idea. A lot of the problem is rooted in bats, which have very tolerant immune systems. They are able to carry all sorts of novel viruses and bacteria in their blood without getting sick. Bats interact with other animals, sucking blood, and dropping germ laden feces around, contaminating other animals. Then we catch and sell the bats and other animals, and periodically get sick with ebola or corona virus and worse. — Bitter Crank
