Is that to say there is nothing extra-mental to speak of? — Mww
it would appear that disrespect and low regard is an equal-opportunity problem. — Bitter Crank
Noah, you intensified a "deficit" of respect to "despising" the elderly. Wallows and T Clark didn't use terms close to "despising". — Bitter Crank
If you want to go way back then you could even call it a Spartan mindset. — Wallows
Isn't CBT based on the idea that our cognitive appraisals trigger particular affects? — Joshs
I am only contesting your stipulated definition that seems to be guided by some masculine guiding principle or force. — Wallows
Heidegger, Eugene Gendlin and George Kelly are among the philosophers and psychologists who have abandoned the attempt to separate feeling-affect-emotion from cognition and reason. And following neurologists like Antonio Damasio, enactive embodided cognitive psychologists like Shaun Gallagher, Matthew Ratcliffe and Evan Thompson also see affect and cognition as inseparable at all levels of functioning.
Affectivity provides the sense, direction and significance of though, how and why things matter to us.
We think of intense emotion as 'irrational' when what those experiences represent are periods of a crisis of thinking, when our way of making sense are no longer effective and the world begins to appear incoherent, That is not a capture of intellect by emotion but a crisis in the intellect itself. We are anticipative creatures, and negative affects like far, grief, anger, and guilt signal transitions in our sense-making, when formerly effective schemes of anticipative comportment toward others and ourselves break down. That is why such affects are both painful and potentially creative. They represent where the limits of our understanding lie. — Joshs
Assuming what you've written is true, here are some possible reasons:
Old people tend to be weak and vulnerable. It makes people uncomfortable to be around people like that because it reminds them of their own weakness and vulnerability.
Related to that - we all will be old someday. We are given a glimpse of our futures.
Many people are resentful of their parents and other authority figures.
Old people may be seen as an economic liability. This is true both within a particular family and in society as a whole.
Many of the values that grew out of an extended family don't apply anymore.
Changes in demographics mean there are more old people taking up more resources. — T Clark
What an odd idea. You think baby boomers were only white. — Brett
rather than the wild and rambunctious limbic system. — Wallows
Say, someone says the brakes on that car are good or the bones of that house are good. Does that simply mean that that person approves of them?
— Noah Te Stroete
Yes, it's a term of approval or preference. "Yaying," accepting, sanctioning, etc. the thing in question. — Terrapin Station
I don't see it as picking on anything if I'm simply reporting the truth to you. ;-) — Terrapin Station
I don't think we are strictly divided into emotional and rational. Both need to coexist and cooperate in an organic way. In other words, it's not about turning on the reasoning side and or the emotional side. In that sense, "emotional reasoning" may make sense, for all I know. Anyway, my two cents. — Kaz
which is just to make sure we dont say embarrassing things or stutter. — Akanthinos
It's not true or false that cauliflower is good, — Terrapin Station
My view is that morality is evolved thought, and in that sense is a something and not a nothing, certainly more than an individual's mere opinion. — tim wood
