There are states which fail to meet my expectations: quite a few states, really. Burma, Afghanistan, Russia, China, North Korea, Mexico, El Salvador, Ethiopia, and Somalia, for example. Not a complete list at all. At any given time in history, most states have managed to meet your expectations of violence and exploitation including the United States and the various nations in the European community. — Bitter Crank
This is exactly the problem I have with the idea of the social contract.
A contract suggests that when either side breaches the terms, some form of termination can take place.
In practice, the citizen has no such option. If the state breaches the contract, they can flee, or through some large, arduous political or bureaucratic process try to change things, if that is even possible at all.
In pratice,
there is no social contract by which the state is bound.
Furthermore, states can move into extreme directions at the drop of a hat. During the Vietnam War the United States government forced its citizens to participate in conducting a de facto genocide against the inhabitants of a third-world country. (And it has repeated similar things since then)
Was this a breach of the social contract? If so, where could US citizens have gone with their grievances?
Short answer: nowhere. They could comply or be met with the state's violence. Even if they weren't shipped off to Vietnam, they were forcibly made complicit in the ordeal through methods like taxation.
The social contract is nothing but a fancy term to describe the same ties that bound serfs to their feudal landowners in the Middle Ages (you give me grain, I give you safety,
or else), and it is every bit as one-sided.
It's a pacifier, but that only becomes apparent once one finds themselves on the receiving end of the state's injustice.
The root of the problem is not in the existence of states per se. It is in the perverse behavior of those who wield power. — Bitter Crank
States function through laws. Laws function through the threat and application of violence.
The state itself is a perverse instrument, so is it any wonder that perverse individuals are drawn to wielding its power?
The fact that you call the people in power and their behavior perverse suggests you see the same problem I do, but if you wish to change a system you cannot do so while abiding by the very same paradigm of violence.