Sometimes what is needed is the ability to change a flat tire on the highway. From this ordinary life perspective, Heidegger's grandiosity, for instance, is a rubber bullet. 'Speculative' thought is the world turned upside down. — macrosoft
Just to be clear, I'm not really trying to set up a distinction between philosophy and ordinary life ('changing a tire'). I'm interested rather in a distinction between two approaches to philosophy itself. When I speak of the need to attend to the asymmetry of the our relationship to the world, by this I mean a properly philosophical attention, and not some naive 'immersed in a life world', pre-theoretical kind of deal. I mean to attend to this precisely at the level of the theoretical. One way to think about this, with respect to Heidegger, is to challenge his account of the role of death in the analytic of Dasein, which you nicely outlined here:
The death theme is important. There's no time to figure it all out the right way. The future roars with too many possibilities. They can't all be claimed or explored. And then some fundamental assumptions just have to be grasped, as risk understood to be risk. That's one way to understand resoluteness. A person groundlessly chooses and makes the best of it, with no Universal Time-safe Entity to insure that leap. — macrosoft
The question is this: can death play the existentially orienting role which Heidegger wants it to? It has often been suggested - and I agree with this suggestion - that it cannot. The problem is that the possibility of death is far more diffuse and evanescent than Heidegger makes it out to be: death is not merely some future possibility that awaits at some always differed point 'down the track' (death
qua 'possibility of impossibility'); rather, the possibility of the death is, as it were, contemporaneous with Dasein at every point:
"Death is imminent at every moment. it is not a moment that lies ahead of the succession of moments before me, it is an event immanent in every event. The last moment may be the next moment. The contingency of the being that is promised in the moment is its possible impossibility. Death is everywhere in the environment; every step I take may plunge me into the abyss, every objective that offers itself to my reach may be the ambush from which there will be no advance and no return. The location and the approach of death cannot be surveyed across the line and distance of the future ... Death which has no front lines cannot be confronted.
lt cannot fix a direction" (Alphonso Lingis,
Sensation, my bolding).
I quote Lingis but this point has long been made by others, including and especially by Blanchot, who has often riffed on the
impersonality of death, and its
disoreinting and de-temporalizing power: death as what
interrupts, and not (only) what orients. The upshot of this, to link it back to my hesitation about holism, is to 'fragment' death so it is not longer just some single, distant point toward which Dasein is oriented, but something pluralized and dispersed in a way which enables multiple and even clashing orientations and possibly disorientations. To de-idealize and de-singularize death such that we occupy not a single, coherent and unified current of 'timing' (a verb, as you put it), but multiple, overlapping, confusing, timing
s (and
untimings, even). Death in Heidegger plays far too much of a role in 'smoothing over' the tumult that more properly characterizes the trajectory or trajectories which characterize Dasein.
Another way to put this is that it's necessary to shatter the rigidity of the so-called 'fundamental structure of Dasein' whose explication is one of the main drivers of B&T. 'Structure' is one of those terms that saturates B&T, and which has not been given enough attention because people are generally too interested in the more inventive neologisms that Heidi peppers the work with. But 'structure' in B&T is just as important a term as 'being-toward-death' or 'care' or any other well-known Heideggerianisms. For me at least, the importance of this term lies in how its frequency demonstrates just how formalist and ossified the whole analytic of Dasein is in B&T.
This is one of the reasons why I much prefer - following Arendt - to emphasize not death but natality - beginnings and births, not ends - as a far more interesting philosophical theme. The broodiness of Heidegger is not accidental but in fact very much in keeping with his philosophy. So, to bring this all back to the OP, I'm not drawing a distinction between the 'intoxicating', 'exhausting' efforts of capital-P Philosophy
qua dark, introspective discipline and 'everyday life', but rather, looking at ways to inject the (sometimes) aerialities and lightness of the latter into the former. It's a question of philosophy all the way through. Speculative thought doesn't have to be the world turned upside down. It can instead be - to quote Elizabeth Grosz - an effort to "enlarge the universe by enabling its potential to be otherwise, to be framed through concepts and affects. [To be] among the most forceful ways in which culture generates a small space of chaos within chaos where chaos can be elaborated, felt, thought".
Philosophy augments, extends, and edifies. It is not pale imitation and inadequate 'proximating'.