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  • No Safe Spaces
    there is no such thing as the right to free speech at work.
    — Bitter Crank

    That's different. You're getting paid. You represent the company - and they have a right to project an image, and protect that image from the expression of opinions that might damage business.
    counterpunch

    You are more accommodating to the interests of employers than I am.

    Workers are paid to perform a service or produce a product. When it's convenient, under 'employment at will' law, an employer can fire a worker without explanation. In holy symmetry, a worker can quit without an explanation too. That makes it fair and square (sarcasm). My view is that IF employers want me to align my loyalty and interests with theirs, THEN they will have to align their loyalty and interests with mine. And hop to it!

    Some organizations are engaged in genuine good works. It's advisable to speak well of organizations that are doing good work, provided they aren't also engaged in unfair labor practices. (Mother Teresa was a wretched boss.) For the huge remainder of organizations who are in business for no purpose ,ore august than making a profit for shareholders, unconditional positive regard is altogether misguided.
  • No Safe Spaces
    Maybe.
    — Bitter Crank

    Well, mostly.
    Kenosha Kid

    — Kenosha Kid

    I'm cautiously pessimistic about this. True, most people no longer openly express crudely racist, sexist and anti-gay statements, which is progress. What is not very different now, than in the past, is that people still spend their money in ways which help keep past unjust and unfair discriminations in place.

    For instance, most people buying houses tend to look for homogeneous neighborhoods that reflect themselves and their aspirations. For whites, the means pretty much white neighborhoods. Whites who buy houses in black neighborhoods are, more likely than not, looking for a good deal, with the expectation that eventually the blacks will be priced out of the neighborhood (gentrification).

    Wage discrimination by sex is less severe, and less common than it was in the past. It hasn't disappeared, but it is better. (This applies to the US: what conditions apply in Britain, Europe, and other places, I don't know.)

    In most of the G20 countries, anti-gay policies have apparently been mostly repealed, but that doesn't mean that nobody has strong negative feelings about homosexuality -- their own or others'.

    Advertising Media in particular project images of the non-existent post racial America. Advertising images reveal a lot about where we are, and where we are not. TV shows like Grey's Anatomy have a high rate of POC in authority positions, and feature a lot of lesbian relationships. Gay men appear too in GA, but not in the hot sexual scenes that lesbians and straights appear in (which are tediously frequent). I can't think of a gay man who has been as central as lesbian characters or POC, or a gay couple that has done more than hold hands and kissed quickly. (I'm picking on Grey's Anatomy because it's the only TV show that I have watched much of, recently.)
  • No Safe Spaces
    It's just now society has moved on to not being pro-racist, pro-sexist, pro-homophobic.Kenosha Kid

    Maybe. But you are quite correct: when it comes to speech, there is no such thing as the right to free speech at work. One can speak as freely as one wishes, but then might be ushered out the front door.
  • No Safe Spaces
    regarding the film clip: I'm not sure how representatives are the brats in the film clip claiming that if they are offended, they have the right to silence the offender. I've read numerous accounts of this sort of behavior on Quillette and elsewhere. The worst of it seems to be located on certain college campuses, but even adults far removed from college children and their discontents can run into unwelcome informal policing of speech. I'm 75 -- I've seen other episodes of speech policing, but it does seem worse now than in the past.

    As for science and philosophy, I don't read enough philosophy or theology to have a strong opinion on their death. It's probably exaggerated. I do more reading in the sciences than philosophy.

    Finally people have evolved and proclaimed that even your opinions are dead.Nikolas

    Have people just recently "evolved" or "devolved"? As for opinions being dead... not so much.
  • Why was the “Homosexuality is a defect” thread deleted?
    One issue could be that gay people can’t have biological children with same sex romantic partners.praxis

    Some gay people consider not being able to have children (two guys, no pregnancy), and generally not having children, to be one of the major advantages of homosexual relationships. No children, maybe no house with a picket fence to paint and grass to mow, and all that. Live in the city; spend one's extra no-child cash on culture or beer or whatever. These days some people probably think that childless homosexual relationships are an unhappy failure. Screw that.

    Before gay advocates ran out of compelling civil rights issues and decided to normalize gay marriage, a lot of us weren't (and still are not) interested in marriage. It isn't that we don't want to, or can't make deep and lasting commitments; we do and we can. The idea was that the relationship would last because the couple just decided to keep it going, and nothing more than that was deemed necessary.

    Is homosexuality a defect? Lots of people think it is. I accept that, and hold them free to think what they want as long as they don't "frighten the horses" -- e.g., cause a public uproar. (some grand dame in the early 20th century said she didn't care what homosexuals did as long as they didn't frighten the horses.)

    My idea of a workable society is one which is tolerant enough to allow people to do stuff that scandalizes socially and morally brittle people, as long as they are reasonably discreet. So wife-swapping clubs are OK as long as the swapping is conducted tastefully behind closed doors. Prostitutes can ply their trade as long as they don't stop traffic, and conduct their business according to safer sex guidelines. Jehovah's Witnesses can knock on everybody's door and offer everyone the Watch Tower magazine as long as they don't do it more than once a month, and don't insist on a long conversation. Homosexuals can cruise the parks as long as they don't make a lot of noise and don't damage the bushes.
  • Philosophical stances on raising children?
    You left out babysittingBanno

    No, that's covered by "regulating the labor pool". Back in the 60s, never mind which year, Edgar Z. Friedenburg described one of the functions of education as delaying entry into the labor pool for as many people as possible, and prolonging their role of passive consumers. He noted that the function had spread into graduate schools, maybe lasting as long as post doctorate programs. It all depended on the willingness of students to keep paying tuition--which they generally were; tuition was cheaper back then than now. College gave a lot of men a plausible claim to stay out of Vietnam, too. Plus there were chicks, and all that.

    Friedenberg himself decamped to Canada to protest the behavior of the U S government (he wasn't evading the draft--he was in his late 40s when he left). He found that Canada had some significant defects in its government too. Surprise!

    "He has been included among the "radical romantics" sociologists of education in the 1960s counterculture."
  • Philosophical stances on raising children?
    What makes some poorer families value education and others not? Does anyone study thatschopenhauer1

    Success often depends on "belief in the efficacy of ... [whatever is being tested]. So, people who believe vaccination will protect their children get them vaccinated. People who believe that they can prevent themselves from getting HIV follow the standard advice. People who believe that education will give their children an advantage make sure their children believe that too.

    Disbelief in efficacy results in much different results: unvaccinated children, people getting infected with HIV, and children with little interest in learning.

    Early childhood experiences play a large part in later education success. The amount and kind of language that children are exposed to has good and bad consequences. Children in families that are positively and abundantly verbal perform up to standards in school. Children in families that are more negatively and sparsely verbal start with verbal deficits that are quite difficult to overcome. Poor primary school performance is the first result, which follows those children into middle school and up.

    Some families are more widely culturally sophisticated (apart from wealth). Children in those families have more 'resources' to draw on in school.

    Yes, people study this. But compensating for well understood deficits turns out to be a tough problem to solve. Handicapped families (whatever reason) tend to stay that way. Social expectations can contribute to a given child's failure. Changing social expectations is very hard.

    Education is a mass program (and decentralized to boot) dealing with very large numbers, and good fixes are just plain hard to come by, whatever the problem is.
  • Philosophical stances on raising children?
    I've been thinking about education since I started teacher training back in the '60s. It's both an appealing and appalling field. I was self-deluded into think I could teach high school. I found my niche in adult education and community health education (did well for an English Major).

    There are around 74,000,000 Americans below 18 years of age. Education is of necessity a 'mass program'. A good thing about our lumbering, clunky education system is that it often does a good job. Another good thing is that it is loose enough for at least some odd balls to make it through without being ground up. In general though, the larger and more highly varied population that presents its children for education, the less effectiveness mass education is becoming.

    Part of the problem, observed for at least the last 60 years by various observers, is that we collectively aren't even sure what education is supposed to be doing. Sorting the good boats out for lifting by the next high tide, and sinking the low quality ones? Regulating the labor pool? Conducting an enlightenment factory? Training people for dead end jobs? Educating people for a society that ceased to exist a long time ago? Giving people basic skills (to do what?)
  • Philosophical stances on raising children?
    I want to start a small school to create a small community of kids in an affluent area where they just may have the resources necessary to band together and make some substantial world changes.Megolomania

    Isn't that what various incarnations of the private school are doing? I get it -- you would like to run your own school. It's a very exciting prospect. I've day dreamed about that for 5 decades, at least (and was never going to happen in my case). Good luck in your efforts. But there's no great accomplishment in educating children who already have a good amount of social capital and increasing it. Nothing wrong with that, of course. That's one of the ways the well off get better off.

    But it is a greater challenge to educate students who start with much less social capital and increase their social capitalization (like the skills needed to acquire and use knowledge to their best advantage along with social connections). Of course, minority children get screwed out of good educations pretty often, but the "surprising" fact is that white children do too. And anyone who is poorer than average is likely to get a poorer than average education.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    True enough, Britain ended slavery before the US did. To what extent were the terms of the Factory Act honored in the breach, and how much in their observance? Nine hour days for 9-13 year olds; how many Humanitarian of the Year awards did parliament earn for that?

    I'm aware that child labor was routine and customary pretty much everywhere for a long time. The US wasn't any different.
  • Why was the “Homosexuality is a defect” thread deleted?
    Of course I don't know what you posted that merited deletion and a banning threat. Try not to gratuitously antagonize anyone. I understand (from personal experience) how satisfying landing a gratuitous rhetorical punch can be. Unfortunately there can be consequences.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    can't speak for the US, but it does seem they didn't handle ending slavery very well. If only the colonies had been returned to rightful rule of Her Majesty - all this could have been avoided! Still, now - it's not being handled very well by progressives either.counterpunch

    Possibly could have been avoided. Had the colonies been a British possession during and after the Industrial Revolution, and given British mills' very strong demand for American slave-cultivated and picked cotton, slavery might not have ended any sooner than it did. Machines to replace human labor in cotton growing weren't available until well after the period of the American Civil War.

    It's quite possible that had Queen Victoria and Parliament ended slavery in... 1875, say, the British land-owning subjects living in the cotton growing colonies would have spawned black hatred of the sort that the descendants of British colonists spawned (manifested in Jim Crow laws.)

    No, it's not being handled very well by progressives, middle of the roaders, or reactionaries. The most progressive administration--Roosevelt's,1932-1945--did very little to help black people. A solid argument can be made that it was the southern Democrats that prevented FDR from doing more, but it would have been surprising if a brahmin like Roosevelt had championed black people.
  • Why was the “Homosexuality is a defect” thread deleted?
    who I must know are now watching every word I sayTodd Martin

    There's only one owner of The Philosophy Forum and that's Jamalrob. The several moderators are all volunteers and do not have time to watch every word you say, let alone all the other people who may or may not be saying something objectionable. Like me, for example.

    If you are lucky, other members will read your posts. If they happen to consider your comments out of order, they might flag your post. That's the extent of the panopticon.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    Did you read the case of David Reimer? Circumcision gone wrong; so they surgically turned him into a girl, and raised him as a girl in ignorance - and his maleness re-asserted itself in later life.counterpunch

    I have known about Reimer's case for quite some time. It's pretty bad. According to Wikipedia: "Recent academic studies have criticized Money's work in many respects, particularly in regard to his involvement with the involuntary sex-reassignment of the child David Reimer,[3] his forcing this child and his brother to simulate sex acts which Money photographed[4] and the adult suicides of both brothers."

    John Money (b. 1921, New Zealand, d. 2006, U.S.) was Reimer's psychologist. Money was at Johns Hopkins University from 1951 till retirement. He established the Johns Hopkins Gender Identity Clinic in 1965. Money was the co-editor of a 1969 book "Transsexualism and Sex Reassignment", which helped bring more acceptance to sexual reassignment surgery and transgender individuals.

    Google can find several lists of possible genders, all bullshit. Here's 5 examples.

    Novigender

    A gender identity used by people who experience having a gender that can’t be described using existing language due to its complex and unique nature.

    Polygender

    This gender identity term describes the experience of having multiple gender identities, simultaneously or over time.

    This term indicates the number of gender identities someone experiences, but doesn’t necessarily indicate which genders are included in the given person’s polygender identity.

    Social dysphoria

    A specific type of gender dysphoria that manifests as distress and discomfort that results from way society or other people perceive, label, refer to, or interact with someone’s gender or body.

    Soft butch

    Both a gender identity and term used to describe the nonconforming gender expression of someone who has some masculine or butch traits, but doesn’t fully fit the stereotypes associated with masculine or butch cisgender lesbians.

    Stone butch

    Both a gender identity and term used to describe the nonconforming gender expression of someone who embodies traits associated with female butchness or stereotypes associated with traditional masculinity.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    Reds under the bed!counterpunch

    As you know, politics make for odd under-the-bed fellows. The vaguely defined left and right share some similar cognitive defects. The arbitrary gender people and the anti-evolution or intelligent design (sic) people kind of think the same way.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    Interesting that you import sexuality into this discussion. I didn't raise it, but now you have - I wonder to what degree the assumption of socially constructed gender is really an excuse for submissive gay men, to play the female role - without experiencing the psychological implications of submission?counterpunch

    One of the cheats in the gender discussion is the construction "gender assigned at birth". 999 times out of a 1000 gender is identified by glancing at the external genitals. The number of situations where sex organs are so ambiguous that a doctor would need to arbitrarily "assign" a sex is very small. Use of the verb "assigned" is a clever way of asserting that gender is arbitrary.

    There is some validity to your observation. It could be extended to say "socially constructed gender" is a justification for men and women whose sexual orientation falls in the middle of the Kinsey scale to experiment with cross dressing, cross-role playing, changing pronouns, etc. Some males (no idea how many) may just find the female gender role more attractive (whether or not they are gay). (Sexual orientation is different than gender confusion.)

    I presume you are using "female role" and "submission" in the sexual sense.

    The problem I have with that part of your observation is that a large share of gay men perform both roles in the same encounter with equal competence and satisfaction. Maybe once upon a past--pre gay lib--time men thought in terms of female roles and submission (pitcher/catcher, active/passive, dominant/submissive). Certainly the old psychiatric literature (pre 1972) used that terminology.

    At least from my (fairly extensive) experience most gay men are actively involved in sexual encounters--period. Maybe in "rough trade sex" (sexual encounters with roughish, working class heterosexual men) the old terminology would still be relevant -- but even then, gay men who like rough trade pursue it. (Full disclosure: my few encounters with rough trade didn't end well.)

    There are some specialty areas, like bondage and discipline which involve pretty much exclusive master/slave, top/bottom roles--and this would be true in heterosexual B&D. Or so I gather, anyway. I find the B&D/S&M scene sort of interesting, the same way I find fascist gangs interesting.
  • My View on the Modern day Computer
    In 1962, in his book “Profiles of the Future: An Inquiry into the Limits of the Possible”, science fiction writer Arthur C. Clarke formulated his famous Three Laws, of which the third law is the best-known and most widely cited: “Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic”.

    Back in the 1980s, Apple published several more-or-less plain language books explaining how the various parts of the Macintosh computer worked. I could understand it. I loved my Mac Plus computer. It came without a hard drive (most people bought one as an accessory--20 megabytes; seemed big at the time); there were two 3.5" floppy drives. I used it a lot.

    Even with the explanatory books, there was / is something magical about computers (as long as they are working properly; they become a cursed burden when they are not).

    Sometime back in the late 80s or early 90s someone published a study on how composition changes when written by hand, typed, or written on a computer screen. I can attest that there are, as the study found, differences. The ease of editing on screen (rather than paper) helps a great deal with the flow of ideas. (However, almost all of the world's great literature was written by hand.) Add to the screen the ability to look things up in a flash (like the quote from Clark -- which I couldn't remember verbatim) helps too.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    I have read writers on the left and the right who are not lunatics, but sometimes it seems like the same toxicon (Latin poison) has addled the brains of people across the political spectrum. I can't quite put a finger on what the toxic stuff is that rewires the brains of people on the left and the right, so that they both inhabit separate but equally distorted realities.

    I do not see any equivalence between the most vocal people on the left and right; the gender extremists (left) and Proud Boys (right) for example are made of different stuff. But there is something similar in the way they both formed around extreme granule positions.

    Extremism isn't new, of course. I just find it perplexing that I can not detect what, exactly, is driving the current extremes.

    A different extremism is that of the leftists and tender-hearted American liberals who would like to open the borders to the entire oppressed population everywhere. Yes, we could do that, but the open-border advocates have not reckoned with the effect that would have on the 320,000,000 citizens.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    I wish I could answer more precisely, but it's all still very preliminary.counterpunch

    That's precise enough -- close enough for government work, as the saying goes.

    So, many small bore holes rather than a few big ones.

    Another geothermal approach which is being used (to a small extent) in Minnesota (and other places) involves the differential temperature of soil about 6 to 10 feet below the surface. In the winter buried pipes extract heat and in the summer dissipate heat. The soils are generally around 50-55º F all year round, depending a bit on soil type and rainfall. This approach is good for homes and small buildings. Either trenches can be dug to bury the pipes, (or pipes can be tunneled) or bore holes can be used.

    This approach works in temperate zones. In very hot areas subsoil temperatures tend to be too warm for cooling.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    Little know fact, maybe. The pre-refrigerator ice industry was started in New England in the early 1800s, taking ice out of lakes in January and February. The ice cubes (big ones) were packed in sawdust and would last into the summer. The first big market was in the Caribbean and the American south. Soon, however, ice was being shipped to England and the ice industry spread across the northern states. An apartment I lived in in 1971 in St. Paul had previously had ice boxes in the kitchens. There were doors in the hallways for icemen to deliver the chunks of ice directly into the ice box. The doors were still there in '71; the ice boxes (made of wood) were converted to cupboards.

    Householders had to empty a pan under the ice box which caught the melting water.

    Of course people used the ice to cool drinks, too.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    I'm wondering about heat transference. what is the medium between the hot magma and the pipes in the chamber containing the water that is to be turned into steam? How big a bore hole are we talking about? How much heat transfer surface will be needed to absorb the heat necessary to superheat the water in the pipes? How much heat will be lost from the steam between the bottom of the well and the turbine? Is the amount of heat loss significant?

    One of the technical difficulties I see is getting enough piping into the bottom of the well, pumping water down, and getting high pressure steam back up at the top. I'm not an engineer, so I don't have any tables to consult here. But suppose a pipe breaks at the bottom of the well--either a cold water supply or a steam return. How would it get fixed? Will the operators be able to pull the everything out of the hole quickly enough so that too much generating time isn't lost?

    District heating distributes steam for several miles, but building-heating steam is neither superheated nor under very high pressure.
  • A New Political Spectrum.
    a political party that recognises science as truth" is not necessarily a party of scientists. It's a party of people who think science is true - and the best guide to a prosperous and sustainable future.counterpunch

    I was never a scientist. I have spent a lot of energy and time overcoming a mainline Protestant religious upbringing and its world view. Some time back I made a commitment to a scientific understanding of the world. (Of course I made a commitment. I'm a religious atheist--sacred vows get made.) The world view of science is that the world is understandable--not obviously understandable, but with systematic study what is not understood can be made known. The project is not complete, of course.

    A Science Party? Good idea. Something to counter the "Know Nothing" organization, and the 3D party of Deny, Deflect, & Deceive. The whole corporate-political mafia of liars, thieves, knaves, and scoundrels.

    So, there are already people who would happily join the Science Party. Just be aware that while rational people (including scientists) do their best, we are driven by the same ir-rational drives as everyone else. You make an excellent case for cheap abundant electricity and hydrogen fuel produced by tapping geothermal energy. I've read your extensive research which has been vetted by numerous academic peer groups. You have discovered the solution. So what's the problem?

    The trouble is, I just don't like it. I want to like it, but I can't. I'm in love with solar. The sun is the way! And I'll do everything in my power to make sure that your project is torpedoed at the earliest possible opportunity. Solar IS the way forward. The preceding bold/italicized text was for RHETORICAL PURPOSES ONLY.

    That's one of the things that can go wrong with science based politics: Even the best scientists have egos; have vested interests; get emotional; can be treacherous. Highly rational science-politicians have the same batch of emotional drives as the average orangutang. We all do. Our limbic system is our Achilles heel.

    Still, you have the right idea. Just don't expect totally smooth sailing.
  • Why Do Few Know or Care About the Scandalous Lewis Carroll Reality?
    or else, overcome this fascination and write it off as inappropriate.baker

    It's also a way for envious people to cut large figures down to size. "AH HA!!! Lewis Carroll might be famous for this supposedly great story, but he was a pervert, so he's just one less dead white European male making me feel inferior!
  • Why Do Few Know or Care About the Scandalous Lewis Carroll Reality?
    One of my literature professors said that happy people don't produce great works of art.baker

    I've heard that too. It might have some truth to it, and it might also be bullshit or wishful thinking. Maybe I haven't produced anything great because I am just not unhappy enough? "The tortured, anguished artist valiantly overcoming his misery to produce the great work" is more likely a work of fiction by someone who was neither tortured or anguished, at least when writing the book.

    My own experience has been that serious unhappiness is not a productive condition.

    Why is so much fiction about unhappy people? Because unhappy people are more interesting. As Tolstoy says in the first sentence of Anna Karenina, "All happy families are alike, but every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way." It's a more satisfying experience I suppose to produce works of art about unhappy people than find something interesting in boring, monotonously happy people. Happiness, success, predictability, pastel prettiness, etc. make for a very dull story. A good story needs some grit, failure, dark color, misery... to contrast against the sunshine.

    All that said, sure: some miserable people have turned out great art. We just shouldn't count on it.
  • Why Do Few Know or Care About the Scandalous Lewis Carroll Reality?
    Not that it's much related to the discussion, but just to say this is a really important point that is often overlooked in discussions about this, understandably, very sensitive topic.Isaac

    Your insightful comments about

    How is a young adult supposed to have a healthy sex life after the age of consent (in their particular country) if, prior to that age, they have it rammed down their throats that being thought of as a sexual person is so manifestly evil that it should be punished with widespread contempt...Isaac

    helps explain the problem raised by @FrankGSterleJr's OP. Despite the several 'sexual revolutions' that have happened, a lot of people are very conflicted about sex and sexuality. People who were screwed up in childhood 60 or 70 years ago have not necessarily become 'unscrewed' over the years. It took me a long time. And despite everything, young people are still getting screwed up.

    All that makes it difficult for many intelligent, educated people to think calmly about matters such as Lewis Carroll (Dodgson) photographing nude girls. Lolita, anyone? The middle aged literature professor Humbert Humbert was obsessed with a 12 year old girl, his stepchild, no less. I'm sure there are people who would like Nabokov dug up and posthumously burnt at the stake! I suppose Stanley Kubrick, who produced the 1962 film version of the Lolita should join Nabokov in the fire.
  • Why Do Few Know or Care About the Scandalous Lewis Carroll Reality?
    Distinguishing the artist from his art is a basic skill. As KK observed (hyperbolically) most of his art heroes turned out to be monsters. I hope he can still enjoy the assholes' works.

    I'm so used to my male heroes in the arts turning out to be assholes and monsters that it would shock me if anyone I admired artistically turned out to be a decent manKenosha Kid

    A lot of art (all categories) has been produced by people who were/are known to be happy, pleasant, normal, decent people. And a lot of great art has been produced by people who were/are known to be screwed up, unhappy, abrasive, abusive people.

    Sometimes knowing the biography of the artist helps one understand and appreciate a work, sometimes it doesn't. Some people want to prosecute the artist for any moral deficiencies they can find, and other people are content to not turn over every rock, looking for shock value.
  • Why Do Few Know or Care About the Scandalous Lewis Carroll Reality?
    So basically softcore child porn is fine: it's just the hard stuff that's wrong? What if drugs are used so that the child doesn't remember being molested? What if the photographed child becomes traumatised at a later age? Does it suddenly become immoral, say, 12 years after the event?Kenosha Kid

    There were Victorians producing what we can confidently label "pornography" for sale. It was an up-market trade. Some of it was soft -- from gauzy soft to harder material. What Dodgson was doing might make later observers nervous and squeamish, but it wasn't porn.

    The Victorians also liked to make headless photographs. Victorian snuff? More likely they did it because they discovered they could. 266px-Victorian_Headless_Рortrait.jpg

    How about Wilhelm von Gloeden and his photos of naked Italian boys and young men, or Thomas Eakins' American realist paintings? Was Eakins doing porn or merely realistically painting nude males swimming?

    Point is, if we can't keep our categories clear, then any discussion of art, artists, personal preferences, personal practices, and so on ends up in a meaningless muddle.
  • Selfish to want youth?
    It isn't 'selfish' to want to be young (again) but you still are young (unless there is something you are not telling us). So make the most of it.

    People do age at different rates. Still, at 32 you are just a few years past full adult development of your brain (which is finished, give or take 15 minutes, around age 25. 32? Many people hit their peak around 40, and then plateau for maybe 15 years. At 75, I'm certainly on the decline physically, but mentally I feel as sharp as ever. Anthony Fauci is 80 and is still going strong.

    A chronic lack of quality sleep is a real hazard to health; if you aren't sleeping well, start looking for an explanation and then do something about it. If an internet search, or library search yields no good guidance for you, or if your best efforts don't lead to quality sleep, then check out a sleep clinic. You might have sleep apnea (a breathing problem you wouldn't necessarily be aware of) or you might be practicing very bad sleep hygiene.

    Genes aside, we can at least slow aging down by a) not smoking b) drinking in moderation c) eating a healthy diet d) regular exercise appropriate to your age (for a 32 year old, everything else being equal, you might want to do daily moderate exercise) f) sleep 8 hours a night g) live a life that you find enjoyable, meaningful, and satisfying -- whatever that is for you.

    Even if you do all that and still have vigorous sex at 100, you are still going to die at some point. Once you become "old", you might start looking forward to dying as the fitting end of a good life.
  • Why Do Few Know or Care About the Scandalous Lewis Carroll Reality?
    seems like 'cancel culture' to meWayfarer

    Exactly.

    Photographing young naked girls or boys should not, in itself, be a cause for concern. The children didn't mind, the parents didn't mind, and if nothing untoward was done with the photographs, why should anyone care?

    If Lewis Carroll himself later found pleasure in viewing the photographs, why should anyone else concerned themselves with the matter?

    Photographing nude children isn't the same as photographing children engaging in sexual acts with other children, and children engaging in sex with other children on their own volition isn't a problem either.

    What is harmful, and nobody has suggested that Carroll did this, is coercing children to engage in sex acts. It's the coercion that is harmful. Also harmful to a child is parents flying into hysteria with their child, having discovered that they were engaging in voluntary sex play.

    Frank, have you been watching QAnon tapes?
  • The biological clock.
    Other animals also have built-in clocks. Dogs, for instance start looking out the window for their favorite person to arrive home from work at about the same time every day. I suspect that any built in biological feature (like built in clocks) that we have, other animals also have.

    Here's another time feature: as people get older, they report that time (seems to) pass by faster. I'm 75 and can attest that time seems to pass quite a bit faster for me now than it did when I was 50. I did not experience this acceleration of time when I was in college or in my late 20s and 30s.

    Faster passing time isn't unpleasant or troublesome.
  • Navalny and Russia


    Messenger: "The people are revolting."
    King Hanover: "Yes, they certainly are."
    Messenger: "What shall we do?"
    King Hanover: "Release the hounds."
  • Navalny and Russia
    And I am very happy about the demonstrations. Can public resistance bring Putin down? Given big enough demonstrations that continue long enough, and with at least tacit cooperation from at least some of the powers that be, Putin might be brought down, or at least humiliated (egotistical thugs like Putin and Trump hate that).

    But then there is the Hong Kong example, where massive demonstrations and tacit cooperation from some of the powers that be, the apparatchiks didn't crumble. Of course Russia and Hong Kong are vastly different.
  • What is the purpose/point of life?
    I’m a very realistic logical thinking person so naturally I thinkMtl4life098

    Think more.

    I feel my issues and lack of self worth or drive for more or better or happiness all stem from being young and thinking hard about death.Mtl4life098

    You and millions of young people your age feel like you lack worth, or drive, or... something and you all worry about death.

    Should you see a psychiatrist? No. Better self-worth comes from working to achieve worthwhile goals. There are many worthwhile things to do. Everyone has issues. You have issues now; you'll have issues until you drop dead. That's just life, so get on with it.

    The Purpose of Life? You are part of the universe. Does the universe need a purpose?

    Death: Yes, you will die. Maybe tomorrow, maybe next week, maybe 70 years from now. Take care of yourself: don't smoke; don't drink too much; don't play with guns; eat a balanced diet, get a reasonable amount of exercise, and aim for a good night's sleep. No use killing yourself with bad habits.
  • Navalny and Russia
    It seems like V. Putin is as firmly in place as any of his soviet predecessors were. Who would remove him? Street demonstrators? Angry voters? Truth-telling? Putin is not a one-man act. Does he not have plenty of powerful friends (fellow liars, thieves, knaves, and scoundrels) whose mutual interests are going to be protected all round?

    Yes, one day Putin will be removed from office, perhaps by the undertaker. Or, maybe another crook will oust him and pick up where Putin left off. I don't expect a refreshing revolution and an outbreak of democratic virtue in the near term.
  • Is the material world the most absolute form of reality?
    We are living it daily, with all the horrors it entailsJack Cummins

    We are living it daily, with all the joys it entails, as well.

    What about our favorite foods; natural scenes of which we are fond (sunsets, birds, trees, flowers, mountains, rain, snow, all that); fine films (even TV shows we enjoy); poetry, music, or just familiar voices we like to hear; the joys of carnal pleasures; savage cartoons of stupid politicians; big planes taking off; our dogs keeping a watchful eyes on us; storms; big waves crashing on the shore; robot vehicles on mars. There is so much good that the material world entails--much of it for free!

    Of course, the horrors tend to be free too. No down-payments are required for cancer, arthritis, heart disease, brain tumors, worms, flesh-eating streptococci, vehicle crashes (even 2 wheels foot powered ones), or the relentless drag of gravity.

    From dust we have come, unto dust we shall return--the material reality of life. Nonetheless, we material beings spend a lot of time thinking about transcendence. It's a very compelling idea, seductive, lovely. Sometimes we find a teasing taste of transcendence. I am not sad that transcendence isn't on the menu. That we descendants of dust and ashes can imagine, even experience a moment of the sublime, is wonderful.

    I'll rest my case there.
  • Is the material world the most absolute form of reality?
    "Is the material world the most absolute form of reality?" What is absolute reality?

    I'll cast my vote for a material world, composed of matter which turns out to be quite resourceful, considering that we material creatures are discussing stuff that isn't material. Mind arose from matter, and it doesn't transcend matter. But that's just my opinion.

    We greatly desire a spirit (lots of possible definitions for spirit) to inhabit material, and it does inasmuch as we think it does. As far as I can tell, animated matter eventually becomes inanimate matter, and our thoughts disappear forever. Cruel world or merciful transience?
  • Is the EU a country?
    North Americans, anyway, referencing North and South America sometimes say "the Americas". Then there is the Organization of American States which concerns itself with Western Hemispheric affairs.

    Many North Americans think that South America begins with Mexico. Not quite, but there is something culturally valid about that. But that's because the US swiped most of Mexico. They weren't doing much with it anyway, and God clearly intended the US map to look the way it does today. Manifest Destiny, and all.

    America is derived from Amerigo Vespucci, an early explorer from Florence. Biography.com says that Vespucci "discovered present-day Rio de Janeiro and Rio de la Plata". That's amazing! He must have been using an early time machine. (joke). Anyway, we are all grateful that the two continents weren't named after his last name, where we'd be called Vespa or Pooch (informal for dog). North and South Pooch. Just not very dignified. United States of Vespa; there'd be all sorts of copyright infringement issues.
  • The Road to 2020 - American Elections
    the received truth is that the Republican party is bad and the Democratic party is good,FreeEmotion

    You will be screwed by both the Republicans and Democrats; the difference is that the Republicans won't use vaseline.
  • Is the EU a country?
    Once upon a time I thought the United Kingdom was irrevocably one country (or realm). Now there have been ballots cast as to whether Scotland stays or leaves. Wales? Northern Ireland? Cornwall? Kent? Who's next?

    No, I don't think the EU is a country because the Union is composed of sovereign states who maintain their own systems of national government; diplomacy; military policy; education; health care financing; status of religious organizations vis a vis the state--all while sharing a currency and allowing free travel in the Schengen Area.

    Question: Do Europeans think of 'European' as a national status? Or are they Estonian Europeans, French Europeans, or Greek Europeans? This American doesn't think of anyone as "European" apart from their national status. But then, this American thinks of himself as Minnesotan as much as American. Probably young people in Europe will adopt a European identity first.

    By the American Revolution, the English and Germans-speakers had had over a century to begin forming an identification that transcended their local colony, or their status as English (or whatever they were). Only 70 years after the nation was formally established, we found that in 1860 there were regions, cultural and economic interests that transcended national identity, resulting in succession. Regional differences persisted long after the forced reunification of the country (and have not entirely disappeared yet).

    My guess is that Europe will need a century or two to build a European nation and identity. It would not be surprising if there were rough periods of transition.