Because she kills the fetus, and thus refuses the natural consequence that emerged out of her being sexually promiscuous.How is she using a human life to be sexually promiscuous? — Michael
It's not as easy to be promiscuous if you have a child. Many men would be put off by that for example.It's not as if sexual promiscuity is a consequence of having an abortion or as if having an abortion makes sexual promiscuity easier. — Michael
Sure. So?She might never have had β nor ever have β an abortion and yet still be sexually promiscuous. — Michael
Are you sure you disagree? I said in those two cases abortion is still evil - only that less so than in the case where it's used as an escape from the consequences of sexual irresponsibility. Whereas in the latter it screams to the Heavens for justice, in the former it's merely evil.I disagree with both of these exceptions. Abortion is not morally permissible in cases of rape of lack of family care. In the first case, the fetus is not to blame for the woman being raped, the rapist is. To abort it is to punish the fetus for the crime of the rapist, which is wrong. In the second case, the care of the child becomes society's obligation. To abort the fetus simply because the family cannot provide for the child doesn't excuse the risk the couple took in having sexual relations. If they didn't want a child and knew they wouldn't be in a position to raise one, then they ought not to have engaged in such behavior. — Thorongil
What do you mean? By necessary evil I meant a situation where all the choices one can make, lead to evil/harm. Do you not think there are such situations?Just as one human to another (as opposed to some ridiculous political crap), there is no such thing as a necessary evil. It's psychologically precarious to endorse such a thing. — Mongrel
Yes I agree.And as for the religious right, their view involves something called "God centered." It means that everything in life should be approached with a sense of sacredness. — Mongrel
Okay - I'm not really sure what you mean by this, so please clarify.I'd advise that you not start with superficial stuff and work your way down to the basics. Start at the basics and come upward. That way you'll be more likely to get what's really cool, genuine, and meaningful about the right. I'm not very rightist, myself, but I have a lot of respect for what they bring to human life. I don't like to see that smeared with shit. — Mongrel
No - but she is using that as a crutch to help her be sexually promiscuous more easily. It's morally reprehensible to use another human's life - in this case the life of the fetus - for that purpose.What do you mean by abortion being used to justify sexual promiscuity? Is she saying "I'm allowed to be sexually promiscuous because I can have an abortion?" — Michael
Hmmm - I think I'd work same as before. I genuinely like working to help other people and seeing that what I do helps them. I just don't know what the hell else one can do with their time >:O If I was really rich, I'd start organising others to work in directions that I find to be good for my local community.If you were offered a lifetime income at your current income (plus cost of living increases) what would you actually do with your time? — Bitter Crank
I found that regarding these things it's good to accept yourself as you are, don't try to be like others, or how others think it's good to be. Get your self-esteem out of things which are in accordance with your own personality. We all are different - some are naturally shy, some naturally don't like to meet new people, etc. I've been diagnosed with anxiety before. Nowadays I still feel anxious, but I just do things regardless - I'm no longer "upset" or "annoyed" that I feel anxious or trying to change. But I do things which are true to who I am and who I want to be. If I feel anxious about activity X, and that activity is something that society thinks is good for me, then fuck it. I don't do it. But if activity X is something that is in accordance with who I am and who I want to be, then I just force myself to do it. Basically for me, it's been about accepting anxiety as an eternal part of my life, and just getting on with it - living as if I don't feel it. I know because it's just my personality, I will always feel anxiety - but I ignore it. Probably if someone meets me, they wouldn't even know I have it, unless I tell them. I don't think it's about changing how you feel - just how you act, and react to events. In the end, anxiety is just an uncomfortable feeling. Personally I've learned that I can cope with feeling uncomfortable and act normally regardless of it. When you do a sport - which is very useful - it feels very uncomfortable to run, and push yourself, etc. But it's just about training that will, to keep going regardless.social anxiety — csalisbury
To be honest this isn't a very complicated question for me. If you look through history, most people today have lived and experienced SO MUCH MORE than pretty much anyone 100-200 years ago - and all this probably the time they're in their mid 20s. And yet they're still unhappy. They still want more. Perhaps they're even more unhappy.Perhaps "Living their life" should, whatever that means, have priority. And I'm not sure that "work for work's sake" is worthwhile. — Bitter Crank
I used to be an atheist that was pro-life. In fact, I was a conservative before I became religious, and I became religious because I was conservative, that was part of the path. For me, the reason why I side with the right is because I detest the arrogance, self-righteousness and pettiness of the left, and I love the Ancient Greek culture, which I see as an ideal. I have a feeling that real men and women used to live back then - men like Alexander, ready to conquer the world, with gigantic ambitions and passions. It seems to me that the left is reducing all of us to our common denominator, our animal nature - it's the outgrowth of democracy which seeks to make a level playing field for all. It's seeking to make more and more of us like Hollywood pop-culture. What used to take restraint and courage, the virtues, are now despised. Strength is despised.I can tell you that I don't think I have ever met an atheist that was pro life (or mentioned they were) — shmik
Yeah, that's the kind of money they should never have been allowed to make. Their "work" (speeches, ghostwritten books, "consulting", etc) has simply done very little, if anything, of value to merit earning that kind of money. I hate folks like that, who make money doing nothing - same feeling I have for Wall-streeters. I find that disgusting. But I've always respected someone who had a good ability to find opportunity and make money by providing something of value. It's just that I detest those who don't deserve the money.If the Clintons are as rich as I've heard they are (with most of their wealth accumulated in the last 16 years) then they have done very well for themselves as well -- a few million
towhat?over200million
towhat?over200million
$ ??? is good money for book royalties, consulting fees, speaking tours, et al. — Bitter Crank
I agree, but I also don't like Trump for those reasons. However, I prefer Trump and his buffonery over seeing the self-righteous supporters of Crooked - especially the Media and Hollywood - maintain their hegemony over culture. I think that they are responsible for far more of our current social problems and ills than many of us are willing to believe. I think we are all defined in part by what we oppose most. Their Hollywood anti-intellectualism and pro-sensualism is my number one enemy.So then why don't I like him? Because, for one thing, he isn't any better than a lot of rich guys, and compared to the other very rich guys who have made a run for the presidency, he lacks 3 things:
1. Experience in public service.
2. Gravitas
3. Intellectual depth
So for #3, he certainly isn't unique here. If still waters run deep... George Bush II was/is the very model of a shallow gulch, a drainage ditch, a dry arroyo. So was Ronald Reagan, IMHO. In politics, "shallow" is not a disqualifier.
For #2, a quality separate from depth and his CV, he isn't unique either. A number of presidents have gotten through a term or two on gaseous gravitas. But they aren't remembered as great, either.
For #1, he is kind of a stand out. Of course, President Eisenhower didn't have political experience either. — Bitter Crank
He's succeeded in construction business - which is probably the most complicated business you can get into simply because the number of factors (and diversity of the people) that has to be managed is much greater than in most other businesses. He's built some amazing structures/places.He's succeeded in show business. No small deal, most people who try to succeed in show business fail. He's succeeded in business, apparently. Maybe some of his dealings were shady, but shady kind of comes with the territory of real estate; everybody wants to live on a shady street. As a "university" founder, he evidently left a great deal to be desired. I can't think of anything else he's done that was particularly distinguished.
As far as I know, Hillary has not tried show business or real estate. Being First Lady isn't something that Trump was ever eligible to be, and it's pretty clear that he doesn't have much of her policy wonkiness. — Bitter Crank
In other words, in TheWillow's world, if you disagree with feminazism, if you're against globalisation, if you're in any way friendly to whites - that's it, you shouldn't be allowed to live, you shouldn't be allowed to have an identity - because you're racist, sexist, misogynist, etc. . He wants to bulldozer the strength of peer pressure and social conformity in order to enforce his disgusting world view on the rest of us. He too has the phantasy of making an eternity - an end of history - out of his ideal.Another example is the reaction to some Leftist's protests against the election of Trump. The white working class are given a free pass to approve a racist, sexist and heterosexist values and platform as a protest against economic degradation, yet the moment minority groups and their allies put in a protests about the values and platform of who's been elected, they are just sore losers without who have no reason to be concerned. — TheWillowOfDarkness
Maybe the country wasn't so far left politically, but culturally it certainly was.And who was Prez during most of the sexual revolution? Oh, yeah - Nixon. The country was SO far to the left. — Real Gone Cat
Oh yeah, let's not be anti-woman, let's allow Amy Schumer to fuck around and do whatever she likes. Let's let her be a spoiled brat, that certainly is being "pro-woman". I don't call that a woman - that's a beast of the fields as far as I'm concerned, and the faster we get rid of folks like her (from the TV screen and the Media), the better the whole world will be. Give me a break - you say the country has never been on the left, and lo and behold you're peddling the same mantras "women are abused", etc. that the left peddles. Where are these places where women are taken and whipped or raped? Show them to me! In the past I could have taken you to a place where the slaves are abused and showed you - here are the slaves, they have no freedom and they're at the mercy of their masters. Take me to where these women are abused. Where is that? Nowhere. So give me a break with this feminazism. This is nothing short of a war on men. Some whores - like Amy Schumer - would like men to prostate before their vaginas, and be some disposable scum that they can throw away whenever they need to. I'm not going to bow to that - you can keep your head down and bow - you may do anything for pussy, but not me.Given the continued wage disparity and results of the recent election, we see how enlightened the US is regarding its attitude towards women. Look at your own post. You are so anti-woman that you can't stop yourself from writing "Crooked Hillary". — Real Gone Cat
Well I'm very glad those "murder" rights are repealed. As far as I'm aware it's not a good thing that we have women who use their bodies in irresponsible ways, and then resort to murdering the child in order to avoid the consequences of their actions. That's shameful - they should be ashamed of themselves, as should the men who had sex with them knowing that this would be the consequence.When abortion rights are repealed (I give it two years, tops) please come back and tell us all about the wonderful sexual revolution. (And if you think giving a woman the right to choose is wrong and should be repealed, then you know nothing about the sexual revolution.) — Real Gone Cat
Yes, as far as I'm aware, it's the government's job to make people pay taxes, and it's the businessman's job to avoid paying them if he can. He's a businessman because he can manage capital better than the government - or at least thinks he can. The problem is that the government is stupid - that's why men like Trump can get away with paying less in taxes. If the government was formed of able men, then no one could get away with not paying taxes.Not like failing to pay - or file - taxes for at least 10 years. Or failing to pay your employees on a timely basis. Or going bankrupt numerous times (and using the US taxpayer to bail you out). — Real Gone Cat
You mean to reduce taxes on everyone? :PAny bets on how long it takes Trump to significantly reduce taxes on the rich? Six months? — Real Gone Cat
Trump could be dangerous that's true. But it's not because he's stupid. It's because he's fucking smart and ruthless and will go to great lengths to do what he wants to do. He's not mediocrity - mediocrity doesn't build towers, mediocrity is smoking weed, drinking with your buddies, going to hookers, etc. Trump is very very far from mediocrity. He plays a role - that of the buffoon - because it gives him a massive advantage. People laugh at him instead of get ready to fight back. Crooked laughs at him and thinks she has the election in her hand - but Trump is out there working till 3 AM in the morning, rally after rally. He's working his butt off getting what he wants. You don't become President sitting in bed, you don't get that being mediocre - unless you have a powerful husband or well-connected friends who want to put you there because you're good and docile and will do as they require you to do.I'm hoping for the best, I hope he can rise above himself, but so far, as far as I am concerned, it is the victory of mendacity and mediocrity, and the best we can hope for is something short of economic collapse. — Wayfarer
Trump is far far more capable than Clinton will ever be to do ANYTHING AT ALL. Listen for once - Crooked has never done a single thing in her entire life. It's always been the folks around her - an entire system which was getting things done, she was only a tool for that system, a piece in the mechanism. She never did a single thing she wanted to do by herself. She always had a bunch of people around her telling her "do this, do that" etc. It's simple really. She has a good record only because she's been around the right people her whole life! But she has no capacity! Wake up! Look at it, she had everything put on the table. You, me, any of us can be Secretary of State or whatever if our best friends are Presidents and all around the governmental administration. It takes absolutely 0 skill. Going to sign international treaties - no skill. You go with a million pundits around you, telling you do this, do that, now we have to do X, now we have to do Y - it's so fucking simple. An idiot can do it. That's why most politicians are exactly that.When all the euphoria wears off and the real work has to be done, then we'll see what it really means. — Wayfarer
Oh so who was up and running with the sexual revolution, etc.? The Right? No that's the Left. The "me me me" - that's always been the left.Change is painful (the music these kids listen to these days, jeez), and to stave off your impending mortality, you try to grab and hang onto as much stuff as you can. This inevitably results in politically conservative jerking of the knees. You suddenly realize that soon you will cease to be, so until then its, "Me, me, me!" — Real Gone Cat
Oh yeah, Crooked Hillary is a "sober adult" - give me a break, that's a shame of a person. Worse than Trump - at least Trump has a certain honor about him, he will not lick up to folks to get what he wants. Crooked Hillary immediately licks up to the special interests who give her money. She should really be ashamed of herself - the person who wants to be President goes licking bankers, and hedge fund managers, and other rich folks >:O Sooner or later we'll hear about the Clinton-Soros sex scandal I'm sure >:OHow can anyone choose that evil oompah-loompah over a sober adult is beyond me — Real Gone Cat
Yes it's insane, that's why I've been rubbing it in their faces every single chance I've been getting. Let them call me a sexist, a mysoginist, I don't give a fuck. Losers, as far as I'm concerned. If they're going to cry like babies, and "grieve" for Crooked Hillary's loss >:O - that's funny as hell! They should remember that Crooked has millions stashed away and is living like an Empress on their backs.(There was some salon or slate article about how it's insensitive to discuss the reasons for Hillary's loss beyond sexism at least until female hillary supporters have time to grieve...that's insane but I've seen people in my fb circle say similar things) — csalisbury
So you're saying that in politics people will not use all weapons they have against each other, including propaganda and unfair ones?Ask the Committee to Reelect the President (CREEP) and Watergate-disgraced president Richard M. Nixon how well that approach worked. — Bitter Crank
You forget one thing: in politics anything goes. If I can make my opponent even worse than he/she actually is, why not do it?This just proves my point about Hillary: despite decades of scrutiny from the right, all they have to hit her with is fabricated scandals and non-issues. If this person is such a terrible politician and statesman (as the right has been bleating for years), why do conservatives need to constantly lie, distort, and dissemble in order to attack her? Wouldn't her actual words and deeds suffice? — Arkady
So the claim appears to be that Trump has tried to exploit the issue of Obama's true heritage, first raised by the Clinton campaign in 2007.
Except he didn't. — tom
Sure, but I freely admit there is an objective standard which the law should try to approximate to, so I see myself as being justified in doing whatever is necessary to the law in order to make it approximate that standard. But as far as I know, you're not a moral absolutist, so you're not playing the same game as I'm playing. If you are a moral absolutist, then that's good - then we're on a levelled playing field, but you should at least say so :)Regarding your interest in having Trump try to overturn laws/Supreme Court decisions on abortion, or undermine progressivism in general, isn't that just a case of "when things don't go [my] way, [I'm] willing to do anything to make them go that way". — Michael
;) What difference would that make if you were the one making the laws?Anything? I said any legal route. — Michael
Typical progressives :P - when things don't go their way, they're willing to do anything to make them go that way. And by the way, I'm not a sympathiser of Brexit at all.Now I recall our debate on Brexit and my willingness to accept any (legal) route to ignore the referendum result. ;) — Michael
You're not reading the question. Let's go over it again.Pretty much. Women don't have to do anything in particular for men to feel that way. In a society where women are not locked away, where they are free to participate in society and draw attention, care, time and resources from others, men will notice beautiful women all the time.
If we are expecting women not to be noticed by men, we are asking them to withdraw from public life, to have no interest in gaining from the wider community, to care not for their public status (e.g. job, friends, whether they are likeable to a stranger) and to cover themselves head to toe, so they aren't recognisable as an individual who draws attention. To be someone, and wanting to be someone, who is sexually desirable to others is part of existing in public life, by the mere fact of people paying attention to you, sharing their time and resources, as is part of loving in the public sphere.
Many men feel "under the spell and control of beauty" by nothing more than a woman walking down the street in jeans and t-shirt. Or the smiling waitress with a presentable casual uniform. Or the woman in a blouse and slacks working in the office. Merely by living and interacting with others, women are people who are desired. Unless women get locked away, this is something men are going to have to deal with. — TheWillowOfDarkness
The question isn't about the fact that by the mere fact of their existence women will attract attention, care, time and resources. It's not about the fact that by their mere living in society they will attract attention to themselves. The question is whether they should WANT that. I can attract all the attention in the world when I go in the street. It doesn't follow that I should actively seek to do that - ie want it. It can be just another fact of my existence, just like my shadow. So I'm asking you whether it's honorable to WANT to be desired sexually. Whether it's honorable to want others to feel like they are your property, and under the spell and control of your beauty?Oh so this wanting people to desire you sexually is a good and honorable desire no? It's good and honorable to want others to feel like they are your property, under the spell and control of your beauty right? — Agustino
No actually I haven't. That's what you think I was thinking. It's clearly not what I have written.My point was not that they were moral, but that you were equivocating a woman's appearance and behaviour with her desire to have sex. — TheWillowOfDarkness
Nope - my arguments never said she wants to have sex. Only that she wants to dominate. Having sex may or may not be part of that.You say she wants to dominate you here, but previously your arguments were saying she wanted to have sex because of how she appeared or behaved — TheWillowOfDarkness
Not at all. I actually claimed the contrary.If you made a pass at that woman or even raped her, it would be justified because she really "wanted it." — TheWillowOfDarkness
I insist that SOME of the women wanted his sexual attention - and even if they wanted it, they were still abused. Just wanting something or consenting to it doesn't mean you're not abused.You insisted the women really wanted his sexual attention (meaning, you know, he hasn't violated consent and the women haven't been abused by being acted on sexual against their will) — TheWillowOfDarkness
I'm getting sick and tired of you not reading what I'm writting and asking you. Again you answered an entirely different question, an answer with which of course I agree! I doubt you'll ever find a person who doesn't agree. But my question was different. it's not whether states of women are "sexually desirable" or necessary for social relations, etc.Because many states which register to men as "sexually desirable" are a mere fact of their existence or are somehow related to other social relations, personal expression, maintaining employment, being interesting to others, etc.,etc. It's not fucking hard, Agustino. You just have to take a moment and think about what matters to women, what she needs to do to maintain social relations, be someone who lives with others etc., etc. — TheWillowOfDarkness
It's whether they WANT to be sexually desirable or not. She can be the most beautiful women and go out there normally, and attract the attention of all the men she passes by - sure. But that has nothing to do with whether she actually wants to do this. Someone can be unconcerned about whether they are sexually desirable or not. Or someone can WANT to be sexually desirable. So I'm asking you why, if she's not available, would she WANT to be sexually desirable - not why she may be sexually desirable nonetheless because of other factors that are, let's say, not up to her.Then if they're not available why the hell do they want to be sexually desirable if not in order to have power and dominate? — Agustino
He's referring to the birther issue - that Barrack Hussein Obama wasn't US born.What is the discredited conspiracy theory that Trump initiated? — tom
>:O these firsts don't mean anything. Look at Obama. First black President. Did things improve for blacks? For many things haven't improved at all - they still face problems of poverty, lack of education and rampant crime. But now folks get to tell them "Why are you complaining - look you have a black President!" These firsts are just getting yourself drunk on nothing, they're actually more unhelpful than helpful.first female president of my country. — Mongrel
"If the person really loves then their acts will be moral" - no. Have I said that? I said that for morality to be the case their intention must be loving, and their action based on duty. The fact that "if the person really loves then their acts will be moral" is your thinking, not mine. You asked me on what morality is based - so I told you what it is based for me. That's my framework. Now it seems you want to question the framework, but if so, then you should make this clear instead of presupposing another framework in order to question it.OK, so the love is in the person. If the person really loves then their acts will be moral, no? So where does duty come into it? If you do something you want to do (out of love) it is not a matter of duty and it will be moral, or else the love was not genuine. — John
Who is this person? >:) >:OOn another thread, I participated in a discussion about anger, jealousy and envy, where someone claimed that envy was a always a source of evil, whereas anger and jealousy were not always sources of evil, and were sometimes sources of good. I agreed with this in regard to anger, but argued that envy and jealousy are closely linked and that jealousy, like envy is always negative. The other claimed that jealousy is righteous, that is just, anger over someone taking what is rightfully yours. I disagreed and said that I think jealousy is actually pre-emptively envying the other (even if it is only a general or imaginary 'other') for having what you want. — John
