On the transcendental ego Let me connect my previous thoughts. There is something inherently unnatural about sexuality. It is an act of the body, not the body itself. It is like anger in that it can be used in a very bad way like anger does in hate. Yet I would say that sexuality is always like a drug and therefore is self altering. Nobody avoids this or can. Even Jesus, since he was a man, had experienced something of penis autonomy. Because sexuality is an assertion against your parents, we all look to a father, and mother, to trust in. People have turned to Jesus (who supported historical genocide by the Jews) and Hitler and Trump and every other figure of adoration. Every adult struggles with their entry into adulthood because we want to return to the toyland of childhood where everything was fresh and new. Heidegger fell for a type freakshow political ploy where someone who was psychotic was turned by quack doctors into a figure of hope for people who were starving for a better era. I think people are too likely to go with common narratives of these questions instead of thinking for themselves