The terms of the debate. The problem is that you're all dirty pagans, praying to nemesis. Everyone is a debater, everyone is entrenched (even I am *gasp*) -- and we're all at a safe distance. Combine that with the fact that we're all too often interested in the invisible audience member, so that our interlocutor can be the butt of jokes, ridicule, and the proof of our greatness.
There's also the problem of a bunch of 14 year old trolls holding real political sway. Things like pizzagate, and "the punching game" things I've heard expressed by people that take them very seriously, and make them more sympathetic fear and hate mongering. "Triggered" is the new big catch phrase for upsetting people. People talk about a lack of "freedom of speech" when censorship has never been as lax, and it has never before been as easy to get your voice out there to a wide number and range of people internationally.
It's really easy to start to become disrespectful. It's really easy to become more concerned with the imaginary audience than the person your actually talking to, and it's really easy to think your sides got it all figured and everyone that disagrees are wrong in horrible ways.
We do want interesting, engaging, thought provoking material, but what that is for me is not what it is for everyone else, and making it this way for the "audience" can only really be making it this way for me.
Everyone's got a magic cheat code, that if you press the buttons in the right order, you'll invoke their ire... so if we want less of that, then we should attempt to not do it to others, nor express it in ourselves. Not that anger, or nemesis is an evil goddess, but if our times are marked by an excess of her presence, then perhaps it would be good to operate as a counter balance.
There also the thing that we're entertaining ourselves here, so that we may find it more objectionable for someone that isn't as entertaining to be annoying or obnoxious than when it's someone we find entertaining, so that we're ready to forgive them, and punish the bore. This is fine, if that's what you're doing, but then what's important is how entertaining you are, not how disruptive, or civil. At the very least, it's a definite factor. Volume is significant here. Too much of a good thing makes it less good, and even bad things can be good in small doses.
I watched the video when it was first posted in the shout box before the removal, t'was alright. Was that beard comment removed though? That was great.
My preference is to ignore it until it goes away. That usually works for me... well... until they find me...