I'm recently recovering from being woven in a narcissists's web, so I probably empathize with you here, but I think self "love" is the wrong wording. Self esteem isn't the same as love, at least how I've defined here (see the OP again.) — Heister Eggcart
I dunno about that. Lying might be a problem in itself, but I'm saying that they might be necessary for the good. — Heister Eggcart
What about TimeLine's? I answered that if you didn't read my reply to her. — Heister Eggcart
do think that the situation that I refer to in the OP and later on here is indeed pretty rare, and would be an outlying, moral predicament. I think Wosret has been worried about me suggesting that "lying honestly", if possible, should be used at all often, which is not what I'm saying. I'd say that lying out of love would essentially be a last resort, a kind of necessary evil, maybe. — Heister Eggcart
Well, hold on. I'm not judging who's a liar and who's not, but whether a lie can pair itself with honesty and love. — Heister Eggcart
No idea what you're trying to say here. Please reword and clarify. — Heister Eggcart
The SS example was just that, an example. In principle I can plug in different people with a different setting and the moral paradigm would remain the same, I think. — Heister Eggcart
Say a dude's going to go murder a bunch of people, but you lying to him can keep him from doing that. Isn't that doing what is loving for both the almost-murderer and those he's saving from not being murdered? — Heister Eggcart
The amount of effort that one puts into enlightenment creates momentum, and this momentum is more than enough to sustain life. Clinically depressed people have little motivation, and in most cases they can put on a happy face. — Dwit