But cartography isn't constrained to any particular number of dimensional degrees at all — StreetlightX
Accept the way things are. Change what can be changed for the better. Accept what cannot. Learn the difference between the two.
Habits of thought play a crucial role... Habits of thought. — creativesoul
See above... — creativesoul
Certainly animals mourn. I do not see the relevance to death being a taboo subject to some people. — creativesoul
I cannot help you with that. — creativesoul
It's only taboo to those who've not come to acceptable terms with it. Many are taught to fear it. That teaching can run deep. Others are taught that it can be an honorable thing, in specific instances, including suicide in ancient Japanese cultures. This is honorable as a result of not allowing oneself to be captured or killed by the enemy. Hence, the kamikaze pilots and the samurai falling onto his own sword. — creativesoul
When you think about it, there's not much to talk about, is there? — Ciceronianus the White
Is that what you're describing here? That you've become so used to being depressed that it's basically your normal state of being, and that during the rare times of happiness that when you allow your mind to wander into the realm of the future, that you 'see' yourself being depressed again, and that that negatively affects/effects the happiness at the time? — creativesoul
Still trying to figure that one out. — 0 thru 9
Wouldn't that just be assigning yourself an identity though? How could you detach yourself from this "ideal identity" you've assigned to yourself, without turning back to the identity which others have assigned to you? — Metaphysician Undercover
So which identity is it that you are seeking detachment from, the identity you have assigned to yourself, or the identity which others have assigned to you? — Metaphysician Undercover
My question would be what is identity in the sense being used here, as one's personal identity? Is your identity what others assign to you? — Metaphysician Undercover
In this case detachment would be to separate yourself from this, and create your own identity. — Metaphysician Undercover
What is your "existing identity" and which way are you going in your detachment? — Metaphysician Undercover
Have you heard of "Death Cafe"? — Bitter Crank
To tell you the truth, I've been reading this thread, and haven't yet figured out exactly what disidentification is. Maybe it involves recognizing that we live in the past and future, rather than at the present. Therefore there is no such things as "I am", only what I was, and what I will be. — Metaphysician Undercover
Because we fear death, and because there's nothing you can do about it. — Moliere
When I was in college I read a lot of Jiddu Krishnamurti, a speaker/writer who addresses these kinds of topics. His career lasted something like 60+ years and he was quite prolific, so there was a lot to read. — Jake
Around the same time the book Be Here Now was published by Ram Dass. The book looked much like a children's comic book so I thumbed through it once and then dismissed it because after all, I was a college sophomore, I was an intellectual, I don't read baby books!! :smile: — Jake
EXPERIENCE: The three words "be here now" from Ram Dass are an extremely more efficient way to proceed towards experience. And putting the theory so concisely is very much in the spirit of the experience itself, whereas theorists like Krishnamurti (and this post!) are essentially heading in the opposite direction. — Jake
But this subject doesn't really work like that. A little theory might be useful as a kind of circus to get the attention of compulsive over thinkers like you and me, a kind of bait. But the theory very quickly becomes more of an excuse standing in the way of the experience rather than a path to the experience. — Jake
1) If it's theory you want, enjoy the vast pile of it already available.
2) If it's peace you want, proceed towards "be here now" by the shortest possible path.
3) If you don't know what you want, you probably won't get it. — Jake
1) Understand detachment theory. — Jake
Or perhaps, to continue the food and diet analogy, we should feed it carefully. — 0 thru 9
The present is a division between the future and the past. There is no "present moment" because by the time you say "now" it is in the past. So what we call "living in the present" is not living in that moment which is a dimensionless boundary between past and future, because there is no such thing. What we call "living in the present" is living in a time which is partially past and partially future. Depending on what we are doing, and thinking about, we might sometimes focus more on the past part, and other times more on the future part. We can't focus on the present part because there is no such thing. That would be delusional. In doing something like playing music we must be very much focused on the future part "what is coming", and very little focused on the past part, "what has just happened". — Metaphysician Undercover
Whatever it takes to break out of near-solipsism, which I think almost trapped me, and has become more common recently. — 0 thru 9
I don't think you can come to a resolution about oneself, but rather can remain in a state of flux constantly reevaluating. — Andrew4Handel
Is Russell suggesting reason will diminish feelings of anxiety and hate? It seems to me that anxiety could be an appropriate response to an evaluation likewise other negative emotions such as resentment and anger. — Andrew4Handel
And it seems that emotions rather than reason will resolve prejudice where you may have prejudicial views but then the emotions guide you away, such as a feeling of compassion. — Andrew4Handel
I was once in the zone for 4 months straight. Unfortunately, it was of the twilight variety... :confused: — 0 thru 9
I've never before heard a musician say "the music plays itself". — Metaphysician Undercover
I think exploring the unconscious might be a route to understanding emotional responses including prejudices and biases. I am not sure what reason would tell us about our values other than leading us to value nihilism. — Andrew4Handel
One of the features of psychological disorders such as anxiety or depression is that thinking becomes difficult to control and biased in particular ways that lead to a worsening and maintenance of emotional suffering. Many patients report that they feel that they have lost control over their thoughts and behaviours. Another important feature is that the persons thinking and attention becomes fixed in patterns of brooding and dwelling on the self and threatening information. Metacognitive therapy recognises this change in thinking patterns and believes it is very important. It gives it a name: the Cognitive-Attentional Syndrome (CAS).
This pattern consists of worry, rumination, fixation of attention on threat, and coping behaviours that the person believes are helpful but many of which backfire and keep emotional problems going. The CAS is controlled by metacognitions and it is necessary to remove the CAS by helping patients develop new ways of controlling their attention, new ways of relating to negative thoughts and beliefs, and by modifying metacognitive beliefs that give rise to unhelpful thinking patterns. This approach has been developed into specific ways of understanding and treating disorders such as generalised anxiety disorder, post-traumatic stress, obsessive-compulsive disorder, social anxiety, depression, and health-anxiety.
