Ah yes. Suicide - a simple matter of weighing the costs against the benefits and making a rational decision based on that. — Tzeentch
You're the one who finds life's rules not to your liking.
Didn't I recall you posting something about caring for others a while back? — Tzeentch
You did. I don't find you the suicidal type. I see you as a disrespectful, inconsiderate, selfish, young tough guy who wants to suck down all the benefits of society without having to pay for them. People like that don't commit suicide. You just need a little tough love. Go out and wander the world on your own two feet, come back and tell us what you learned.
What you describe is failed parenting. Parents who resent their children for not growing up the way they envisioned. They fail to understand that the child never asked to be theirs, and that children shouldn't be had to fulfill the parents hopes and fantasies in the first place. It is their failure. — Tzeentch
It's failed parenting to raise kids who don't contribute or want to contribute. So yeah, we can agree on that. We've not only turned out kids who want to "opt out" but they want all the benefits too. And worse yet, they want a hand in the teaching of their siblings to hate their parents demand that they contribute.
They fail to understand that the child never asked to be theirs, and that children shouldn't be had to fulfill the parents hopes and fantasies in the first place — Tzeentch
You didn't ask to be ours, so get out if you don't like it. You don't want to help out, leave. But don't expect us to pay you for our having fucked up and brought you into this life, failing to learn simple lessons of playing ball. You can only blame your parents for so long. You can't be an entitled little twit all your life.
The idea that a parent can force existence upon their child, and then present them with a list of things they expect of them holds no moral weight. It's nonsense. — Tzeentch
That is why we leave you with an option to quit. Any time you don't like our house, our rules, leave. Life is tough. We don't regret bringing you into it. We love seeing you grow and learn life's lessons. It's part of growing up. You'll see when you mature. All you need is to be punched in the face, hard, at least once. Well, maybe more than once if your head is really hard, like mine.
A parent can always reach for the belt, and force compliance - additional confirmation of their failure. — Tzeentch
No one is reaching for the belt. Leave. We only reach for the belt if you continue sucking our tit without playing by our rules.
Yes, and this option is no more tenable than telling a child to run away from home if they don't like their parents. — Tzeentch
LOL! I can't tell you how many times I ran away from home before I ran away for good at 14. Worked, hard, paid taxes, availed myself of government benefits, like Job Corps and the Marine Corps, and the G.I. Bill, continuing to work hard and pay taxes all along, got schooled, advanced degree, made a shit ton of money and guess what? I paid taxes all along. I got punched in the mouth, many times. But I also learned that not everyone can do what I did and I don't begrudge their needing help. I don't decide to not help 500 just because there might be one fraudster in there milking the system. Nor do I begrudge people who were smarter than me and didn't have to learn the hard way but who were raised to play ball and help out.
You are right that we failed as families and government so long as we have entitled little shits blaming parents for bringing them into this world and then demanding an opt out free ride. But that's okay. Life will come home, hard. Unless, of course, you are a silver spoon little bitch like Trump who never once in his entire life got punched in the mouth, hard. But dealing with dishonorable cowards and liars is also part of life. He's just doing his part. Why anyone would fall in line behind him, I'll never know. Another example of societies failure I guess. But the failure is not on those who willingly come to the rules of the house, either cognitively or intuitively. If it's their fault, then it's only because they didn't punch the bully who needed to be punched.
Also, you seem to be getting awfully personal. — Tzeentch
Your analogy, the family. I thought it was awfully paternalistic and contrary to what I perceive as your bent. But I ran with it.
Let me assure you I enjoy my time within the state's boundaries just fine for now. — Tzeentch
I bet you do. Now pay up, and quit whining about what you perceive to be the immorality of having to pay.
Healthcare is not where we administer justice. — frank
Justice has nothing to do with it. As William Mony said before he shot Little Bill in the face, "Deserve's got nothing to do with it." It's about winning the war. If you don't think we are in a war, or that you are on the front line of that war, fine. Make it harder on yourself and the rest of society.
Doing that would be a path to a horrendous ethical fuckup. — frank
You just described war: A "horrendous ethical fuckup." Now tell that to the enemy and those who aid and abet. This reminds me of M.A.S.H. I'm sure Hawkeye, et al, had empathy for the enemy. They may have even had an episode that discusses exactly what we are talking about here (not just treating the enemy, because I remember that one, but prioritization). Anyway, it's just a T.V. show but I always did respect those guys and I think the script came from real life experiences in Korea.
Oh well, it would not be self discipline if you were to help me exercise it. I must extricate myself from this debate with my own shear will power. Let's see how I do.
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