There was developing an interesting discussion on the law of identity and (non-ordered) sets. — jgill
More a painfully needed, though unsuccessful, intervention than a discussion.
The points are simple:
* In mathematics, in ordinary context, 'x=y' is true if and only if x and y are the same object, which is to say 'x=y' is true if and only if what 'x' stands for is the same as what 'y' stands for. The claim that there are no such objects is not properly given as an objection to the fact that '=' stands for identity, since we would still have '=' standing for identity if the objects were physical, concrete, fictional, hypothetical, 'as if', abstract, platonic, etc.
* Sets are not determined by an order in which the members happen to be mentioned. If I say, "What are the members of the set of books on your desk", then if you say, the set of books on my desk is all and only the books 'The Maltese Falcon', 'Light In August' and 'The Stranger', then no one could say "No, that's wrong, the set of books on your desk is actually all and only the books 'Light In August', 'The Stranger' and 'The Maltese Falcon'!"
{'The Maltese Falcon', 'Light In August', 'The Stranger'} = {'Light In August', 'The Stranger', 'The Maltese Falcon'}
{8, 5, 9} = {5, 9, 8}
And '=' reads fine whether 'equals', 'is identical with' or 'is'.
No law of identity is violated there.
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Boss: Jake, tell me what is the set of items on our shipping clerk's desk?
Jake: It's the set whose members are a pen, a ruler, and a stapler.
Maria: But he also has another set on his desk! It's the set whose members are a ruler, a stapler, and a pen.
Boss and Jake: Wha?
Boss: Maria, take the rest of the day off. You're not quite with it lately.
/
{pen, ruler, stapler} = {ruler, stapler, pen}
Nobody says that the set of items on a desk is different depending on the order you list them.
On the other hand, mathematics does have ordered pairs and triples. For example:
<b c d> = <x y z> if and only if b=x, c=y and d=z.
With ordered tuples, yes, order does matter.