Why do you think the USA is going into war with Iran? @BitconnectCarlos
Here's another analogy.
A: Check out this guy sticking pins in us.
B: What shall we do about it?
A: Well, we can't just let him get away with it forever. He'll just keep doing it.
B: I guess.
A: How about we cut his fingers off?
B: I don't know if that's such a good idea. His buddies are just likely to come and stick even more pins in us. They might even decide to cut
our fingers off. What should we do then?
A: Um, I don't know. Cut their heads off?
B: Er...
The route to less violence is de-escalation. The US is doing the opposite right now.
An alternative:
A: Check out this guy sticking pins in us.
B: Why is he doing that and how can we get him to stop without getting hurt ourselves?
A: Good question...