Games People Play "Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence." In the case of love between two people, I would say never listen to others. — TimeLine
I know what you're saying, but what I'm saying is I don't care what you think. I don't mean that in a mean way, but in a philosophical sort of way, like how is it persuasive for me to hear what you kind of think I ought to do? I just know for a fact that you can love the wrong person, but you say in an underlined way that I should never listen to others when they tell me not to jump off the metaphorical cliff because I'm going to land really hard. They've been right. You just don't know what recklessness is I don't think and what sort of consequences result.
If you want to spend a rampant weekend with some relatively unknown woman of obscure origins and your friend tells you that is a mistake because she might have an STD or the moral dimensions are problematic because you have a family, then yes, listen to your friends. The purpose of love - namely that of moral consciousness - as I have iterated earlier is that it works as a tool that enables authenticity, so if you doubt yourself and are insecure to such a degree that you follow others and do what you are told, you are automaton and no longer exist and often such people end up spending rampant weekends in secret to try and escape from their own misery. There is no authenticity in their behaviour. — TimeLine
It is not self doubt that runs people head first into brick walls, but it is an unwavering certainty of indestructibleness. The guy who no longer does that but who listens to others perhaps is now showing a sign of maturity.
I do think we're talking past each other because what you seem to be talking about is a lament, like a regret someone would have if they allowed self doubt brought upon by social pressure to push them away of doing what they knew was right and instead of having had the experience, they had only the regret and the not knowing what could have been. I say sure, there's that, but there's the flip side of the coin. In fact, what you said has a really humorous sarcastic application, like if I were about to jump into something pretty objectively stupid and I told my friends I just had to do it because I couldn't deny myself my right to live authentically.
When a person experiences an inner anxiety or subjective discomfort, that is the inner 'I' telling them that something is wrong, an intuitive awareness explaining that they are conforming to their social environment but they are not consciously aware that their choices in life is really them seeking approval and as such live in this quiet desperation. — TimeLine
This is a bit of psychobabble isn't it? I mean, sure, denying oneself happiness because you feel a need to conform could be one reason for anxiety, another might be that your risk taking has resulted in great uncertainty and changes in your life you aren't ready to deal with. I suppose there are also many who find comfort in fitting right into the middle of the pack. The best we can say is that their existence seems sad and wasteful, but maybe it's not to them.
Yeah, you are clearly having some trouble understanding the purpose of this thread. I am attempting to explain it using sophomoric language but perhaps epistemology is a bit beyond your scope? — TimeLine
Either I just can't understand what you're saying despite your kindly dumbing it down for me, or else it might just be you sorting shit out in your head in a way that has profound application to you, but (as I've sort of been trying to point out) it simply does not have universal application. Sometimes following your heart is stupid as shit. It just is. I wish it weren't. I'd have a hell of an omniscient inner guide if it weren't.