Perhaps it's just the Earth you are restricting all our possible futures to, and that any extraterrestrial resources available, will permanently be inaccessible to us. — universeness
Are you suggesting that humans would be able to create a better society, if we lived like insect species such as ants? — universeness
No, the ants are simply an illustration of how old the concept [of social species] is. Human would be able create a better society if 99% of of us were not here. — Vera Mont
Would you consider the time implied in the sentence below, to be a time when all homo sapiens alive then, were having a far superior experience of life as a human, than the average human, living on planet Earth is experiencing today, purely because there were a lot fewer of us then? — universeness
Secondly, though we may not have the same degree of communal upbringing that tribal societies have, the school system operates as a stand-in for "communal child raising" where the child has exposure to other teachings, nurturing and systematic education outside of the family unit. — Benj96
Thinking through the implications is difficult, and needs great care because the patriarchal model is the default, — unenlightened
Thus the issue you refer to would be the incel "movement". Not about the other questions above. — ssu
Except not jungle-dwelling human societies did live that way. What's recorded in history is conflict between civilizations, which all had a strongly united internal structure - though the co-operation was usually coerced to some extent by an elite.My main point is that under 'jungle rules,' that are recorded as in common practice amongst ancient homo sapiens, such as perpetually warring with every 'group' of humans your group comes across, obtaining as much resources as you can, regardless of how much you actually need or how badly your actions affect the well being of others, IS imo, a very bad way to behave, and it always has been. — universeness
What the hell have groupings of elephants, crows, dolphins or cheetahs got to do with that point? — universeness
Are you suggesting that humans would be able to create a better society, if we lived like insect species such as ants? — universeness
Not if you actually look at the OP, actually. — ssu
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel
While IncelSupport welcomed men and women and banned misogynistic posts, love-shy.com's userbase was overwhelmingly male. Over the next decade, the membership of love-shy.com and online fringe right-wing communities like 4chan increasingly overlapped.[36] In the 2000s, incel communities became more extremist as they adopted behaviors common on forums like 4chan and Reddit, where extremist posts were encouraged as a way to achieve visibility.[23] According to Bruce Hoffman and colleagues writing in Studies in Conflict & Terrorism, as "edgy" and extremist statements became more prevalent in incel communities, so too did extremist trolling and "shitposting"
I assume (maybe wrongly) that most people are raised by women in their "formative years". This suggests the influence of the mother at a time when a human being learns the most is at its highest, and in a way sets the conditions of the majority of human behaviors and impacts everything from simple relationships on down to the formation of entire societies. — NOS4A2
Researchers who study father-child attachment confirm what active, involved fathers have known in their hearts for years—that the father-child bond is no less important than the mother-child bond. Over 80 percent of studies that have examined father-child relationships have concluded that there’s a strong connection between a father’s involvement and his infant’s well-being.
Then I guess the definition "a person (usually a man) who regards himself or herself as being involuntarily celibate" isn't so important — ssu
How many instances of violence by incels are there? How often does bitching and carping about their sad condition turn into assault and battery (or fatal van driving)? — BC
And they're not, by any stretch, all short, ugly, socially awkward men suffering from chronic rejection. We're not just picking on some poor lonely boys here.Almost 1,000 references to dehumanising misogyny or violent action are recorded each day in the “incelosphere” as the toxicity of male supremacist content continues to intensify.https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/oct/30/global-incel-culture-terrorism-misogyny-violent-action-forums
The stigmatization should be obvious. — Tzeentch
I was referring to the social stigmatization. — Tzeentch
The social stigmatization, which is on full display in this thread, is probably a large part of the reason.
The term 'cycle of abuse' comes to mind. — Tzeentch
Flipping from the alleged patriarchy to an imagined matriarchy would probably yield far fewer grand results than feminists expect, everything else being equal. — BC
That said, being an involuntary celibate, miserable or otherwise, does not equate to identifying as an incel; the latter would seem to entail a very special blend of viciousness and stupidity. — Janus
Because they're short, ugly morons — Janus
Under jungle rules, young females are considered property and part of 'to the victor, the spoils, rule.' — universeness
I don't think our species is in competition, for the credit of which species discovered co-operation! — universeness
You take credit for something ants perfected 150,000,000 million years ago, and we still haven't managed to get our heads around how it's supposed to work?for the credit of which species discovered co-operation! — universeness
That's back on May 9, I don't know how many since.There have been more than 200 mass shootings across the US so far this year, according to the Gun Violence Archive, which defines a mass shooting as an incident in which four or more people are injured or killed. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-41488081
Incels have stopped trying. They've given into their worst impulses of bitterness and hatred. — Philosophim
He'll be OK, just needs to find his tribe, like I had to. — bert1
Astonishing! You'd think the cooking would have clinched it!When I expressed my personality I told her I was submissive, that her right-wing views were disgusting, that she was ignorant and unwilling to learn, and that sometimes I hated her, she dumped me. — bert1
t used to be a taboo to be an incel. In public, you would never have confessed your feelings of hatred and loathing at your lack of obtaining women. — Philosophim
War is the survival of the fittest strategy that was an imperative under jungle rules, but we discovered that it's not the only way to survive. We discovered that co-operation and negotiation, CAN produce better results for all stakeholders. — universeness
A new study by paleontologists indicates that the earliest evidence of mammal social behavior goes back to the Age of Dinosaurs. The multituberculate Filikomys primaevus engaged in multi-generational, group-nesting and burrowing behavior, and possibly lived in colonies, some 75.5 million years ago. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/11/201102120055.htm
The woman embodies female values, the man embodies male values. — Benj96
Would society be better off as a matriarchy? If so, why? Or simply, would it be better off if both sexes were in balance, leading as a cooperative. — Benj96
It does rather seem to drag on. But that guy drove the van onto the sidewalk in 2018, by when the incel movement was pretty deeply rooted, so it can't have been related to this form of isolation.Oh, that's interesting. I got the impression that kids avoided light and air before the lockdown as well, but maybe you are right. Hmm. I can't remember very well. — bert1
My son didn't have any friends before either, but he didn't really want any.
The economic landscape is not helping.My take on this is that parents are more overworked than ever, and lack their own support network to fall back on, which in previous generations was provided by for example grandparents and the extended family, perhaps even an entire neighbourhood. Again we see social atomization. — Tzeentch
It never seemed to be an issue when spinsters were despised, even if they didn't whine about it, even when being a footloose bachelor was envied. It didn't seem to be an issue when homely women were caricatured and called names.Yes that would be a more positive reaction, some obviously don't have the mental strength to avoid the pitfalls... I guess what bothers me is that the total lack of attempt at understanding and empathy is deemed fine in this case, whereas generally it is literally the basis of our morality. — ChatteringMonkey
Isn't the truth of that dependent on context though? What if a woman has lots of support and an independent income? Bags of security, no need of that from a partner. Might they not prioritise the fun stuff more? — bert1
I'm feeling a bit queasy. That happens when I read knee-jerk, claptrap hatred for men. I'll cut Vera Mont some slack - Women lacking respect for men is run-of-the-mill. — T Clark
here's nobody at the baseball park. They're all on their goddamn phones. My son is having this trouble. He can't attend school, but there are no children messing about outside like kids used to do, throwing stones and showing their bums to the peado in the bushes and fun stuff like that. — bert1
They shouldn't be expected to do it all on their own. What happened to their support network? The adult mentors and community organizers, coaches, teachers, scout-masters, den-mothers, big sisters and brothers, and church-ladies?The solution 'just go out and meet people' is a major barrier for the young who were caught up in this mess. — Tzeentch
Yes, egging one another on; reinforcing resentment and blaming others for one's own shortcomings, instead of encouraging positive change. Charisma is rare and accidental and unreliable; courtesy, interest, versatility, tolerance and humour are far better assets. And of course, acceptance of the fact that everybody isn't ever going to get first pick.It's a bit of a chicken or the egg problem... they don't become jerks in a vacuum, it's a bit that good old resentment playing a role here. — ChatteringMonkey
Young people everywhere are struggling with developing intimate relationships (and relationships in general), and that is a serious problem. — Tzeentch
It wasn't a tough decision.No Tzeentch, society has decided that women are the victims, so it's okay to marginalize incel men. — ChatteringMonkey
Nobody's marginalized for feeling unloved. They are rejected for acting like jerks - and much or worse. It's just that women who are 'marginalized" in the same way - i.e. have no sexual outlet - don't go around "punishing" - attacking - people.Minassian rented the van some three weeks before he used it as a weapon on a major Toronto street. He told investigators he had set out to kill as many people as possible and that he drew inspiration from the misogynistic "incel" movement of mostly online groups of young men who blame their lack of sexual activity on women.
Asked by investigators how he felt about the harm he had caused, the attacker replied: "I feel like I accomplished my mission".
But there are plenty of women online who share the same frustrated feelings of involuntary celibacy as men. These women want to have romantic and sexual relationships, but for whatever reason, are unable to do so. They call themselves “femcels,” an abbreviation of “female incel.”
But ultimately the problem is not totally solvable by acceptable means I think, there will always be those who will miss out because they are less attractive/charismatic/rich than others. A healthy society doesn't solve the frustrated desires of those. Historically this has always been a problem. — ChatteringMonkey
That is indeed the most difficult hurdle: how to convince people of the idea, but it is the only one. — Jacques
Why don't we just put them down, like the males of breeding animals we have no use for? Wouldn't that be a major step towards progressive utopia! — ChatteringMonkey
Done.So I'm concerned that if the system of dating apps, as well as social media etc is accidentally marginalising and compressing/ reinforcing negative beliefs in incel groups, they may indeed become so radicalised and extreme that what was as you said "verbal aggression" may become "physical aggression". — Benj96
The federal government on Tuesday released a study on the growing terrorism threat from men who call themselves "anti-feminists" or "involuntary celibates" and draw motivation for violence from their inability to develop relationships with women. Since 2014, attacks inspired by the "incel movement" and spanning the U.S. and Canada have left dozens dead.
As a woman sitting in your room on your own, you enter your filters, and you get a menu of 50 nice handsome men to choose from. You shag a bunch of them and maybe one stays with you, maybe not. — bert1
In small communities in which everyone knows each other, choice is limited and people know what each other are doing. — bert1
Well the way I see it is that nature itself is creative and destructive. It's chaotic and ordered. — Benj96
And this is why we start seeing more chaotic, antagonistic bahaviour among chimpanzees. Among humans, it becomes full-scale internecine war - not merely against other other bands of one's own species, but within tribes and even families.Humans on the other hand, excel in abstraction, imagination, reasoning etc (cognition) and have one of the most complex languages to reflect that. Thus we can go against instinct if we so wish. — Benj96
Not in stratified civilizations. A lord can, a serf can't. A general can, a galley slave can't. A CEO can, a coal miner can't.We can be as self serving or as socially cooperative as we like. — Benj96
Separate issues, those. Grouse hens deliberately lure predators away from their chicks; a vixen will attack a bear to protect her cubs; ants die by the hundreds to protect their hill.Sacrifice and suicide being prime examples of how we overcome our primal instinct to self preserve. — Benj96
. You would just need to form two groups and ask one group to only have children with the darkest members, — Jacques
"No creature can be honorably required to go counter to the law of his nature -- the Law of God." — Jacques
The bible doesn't mention abortion as far I can remember nor does it mention paedophilia. — Andrew4Handel
They just keep thumping on "Thou shalt not kill!" and fail to mention the slaughter of peoples that same god didn't like, or all the other wars, the witch hunts, the death penalty... My computer has two compartments - and sometimes a plug-in peripheral. The human mind has as many as it needs to create in order to accommodate all these incompatible categories of thinking. Remember Alice in Wonderland?according to the pastor who teaches from that book — Vera Mont
"Alice laughed: "There's no use trying," she said; "one can't believe impossible things." "I daresay you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was younger, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast."
It's deeper than that. You absolutely depend on them for your survival. You are, long before you have any choice or control, invested in trusting them. In a sense, we're all born with Stockholm syndrome.As a child I think it is hard to believe that your parents would constantly lie to you about reality — Andrew4Handel
You also have no reason to doubt it, until you have reason to doubt it. And in religious (or partisan) communities, the whole social infrastructure supports their version of reality and conspires to keep any alternate versions from reaching you.so you tend to accept their religious beliefs until it becomes untenable.
A HUGE one - and I do not use caps lightly.So in a sense I suppose their could be an emotional component to strong beliefs motivating them.
I find it hard to believe that people really believe extreme positions. — Andrew4Handel
I don't believe gun advocates feel they need guns to protect against a corrupt government. — Andrew4Handel
What does this entail? — Andrew4Handel
I feel like a lot of thinking does not necessarily resolve an issue. — Andrew4Handel
That horse done sailed away on a dead ship, circa 1972.I feel like we don't make process without truly constructive honest debate that can get us out of entrenched positions and tribalism. — Andrew4Handel
So Then we rely on experts, ethicists, the government and jurisprudence to make the best legal decisions on behalf of the masses. — Andrew4Handel
Why shouldn't the same be possible again? — Jacques
I cannot empathise with people who become aligned to one set of doctrines and cannot defend any other position or question their own. — Andrew4Handel
As difficult as it is for me, I would rather give up diversity than peace. — Jacques
I have no hope of changing human nature, — Jacques
Who knows, maybe after a year of uniformity, I would say: Please give me back diversity, — Jacques
has run its course, there's no separating the colours again.“All we need is a voluntary, free-spirited, open-ended program of procreative racial deconstruction.... Bulworth
Yes, we need to rely on emotional humans. Moguls have not done what? How do you figure a computer that does not care will improve anything? — Athena
The machine has no life and therefore does not need, want or desire to improve its own life, or make itself richer or more powerful: once the power supply is assured, it doesn't need or want anything for itself.It doesn't need a better life; it is content and has no reason to prevent us improving our lives. And it can help us achieve that, as moguls, who are enriched by our impoverishment, have not done and will never do. — Vera Mont
A better understanding of capitalism is necessary to answer your question. Research requires money and one of the most important functions of capitalism is providing the capital required for research. — Athena
The wealth gap among upper-income families and middle- and lower-income families is sharper than the income gap and is growing more rapidly.https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/01/09/trends-in-income-and-wealth-inequality/
What would a one-world government govern? How would it be organized? — Athena
Take out the Security Council of super-delegates, hand over all the military passwords and ignition keys, close the legal exception loopholes and let 'em do the job.WE THE PEOPLES OF THE UNITED NATIONS DETERMINED
to save succeeding generations from the scourge of war, which twice in our lifetime has brought untold sorrow to mankind, and
to reaffirm faith in fundamental human rights, in the dignity and worth of the human person, in the equal rights of men and women and of nations large and small, and
to establish conditions under which justice and respect for the obligations arising from treaties and other sources of international law can be maintained, and
to promote social progress and better standards of life in larger freedom,
