Can anyone explain to me how the fear of (else the roundabout concern that) “women are taking over and are destroying the core of masculinity” is in fact not a communal projection of personally held aspirations by a certain male faction in society, one composed of individuals that themselves desire to be domineering over all others - women very much here included as those whom they deem themselves entitled to subjugate? — javra
I don't know a single person who could take this as anything other than an insult to their morality (restrict this to males I know). No, that's not a fact - but in response to your question, I dont recognise this as even a tacitly motivating factor. It may be something totally unnoticed by most men (i.e, that their power exists, and whatever they're doing unfortunately promotes it) but that its a 'projection' of some intent to
keep power is patently ridiculous when applied to the majority of men outside of boards and governments (even then, most are literally working day-in-day-out to promote women and women's rights - current administration notwithstanding, given they're not the totality of politicians by a long shot, in that one country).
A much bigger and better question is why we don't care that most of hte world is out-right misogynistic and violently so, with the backing of the law? What does the West have that these other cultures don't? No idea. Probably an
attempt to dispose of arbitrary rules (read: an attempt to jettison religion) but that's not a very serious note I'm ending on.
Is the occurrence of "masculinity" of itself contingent on there existing "a weaker sex"? — javra
I doubt it, unless you mean physically. Femininity isn't inherently 'weak' other than physically.
That in mind, It's simply stupid to argue that a. men and women don't significantly differ in average strength, and b. that this isn't extremely important to intersexual relations/relationships. Even removing all arbitrary uses of force, this will remain one the most fundamental differences and motivation factors for the inevitably different approaches the sexes take to each other, overall. Though, I do think a
belief that this extends to psychology and emotional maturity/intelligence has been a significant and embarrassingly shit motivation for, at the least, bad expressions of masculinity.
I also uphold that "if there will be a war between the sexes, there'll be no people left". This pretty much summing up my own view. — javra
My position is that htis is utterly preposterous and the only foreseeable outcome of that kind of war would be a return to the physical subjugation of women, globally.
I'm a bisexual man, but a fairly 'masculine' one, it seems. I don't recognise the vast majority of accusations laid at the feet of 'masculinity'. Why not just acknowledge that some people are total assholes? Women are just as capable of being pernicious and socially destructive. The difference is men
hurt people physically whcih must be accounted for - but the principle does not change. Both sexes are capable of 'sexed' behaviour which is utterly toxic and destructive to society.