But being in a position that you want to kill yourself hurts plenty more than I have ever felt as a reaction to a suicide. Forcing someone to endure what they perceive to unending misery, active, painful, scalding misery is immoral.
It is a lesser of two evils. — AmadeusD
If your own son or daughter, then would you let them end their lives? Is it a logically coherent thought process? I find it impossible to understand that claim. — Corvus
Life itself can be viewed as suffering. — Corvus
My point was that if it was never peer reviewed or tested with repeatable results, it never should have been taken as more than something to look into. — Philosophim
There is hard medical documentation that something like Sacks’s awakenings happened. — Joshs
When I run the thought experiment on myself, try as I may, I can't make myself believe that forgotten (and consequence-less) suffering matters. To whom? But then I'm stopping at the subjective, as you clearly are not. I think different people will have different intuitions about this. — J
A counterpoint to consider. I met a gentleman who was deaf from birth, now in his middle years. His parent refused to provide any remediation, including contact with other deaf people, in the belief that this would build his ability to adapt to "normal" hearing society and so position him well for a good life. However the result was that although he could not fit in well with the hearing, he also could not fit in with the deaf community, and so found himself isolated. — Banno
Internal coherence is not sufficient for social or communicative normality in the practical sense that matters for care, welfare, and interpersonal life. — Banno
There are situations that do not have an unambiguously clear response, situations in which we cannot know hat it is best to do and must muddle through. — Banno
I'll point again to the study that showed a multiplier effect of 2.25 for the NDIS scheme. Having folk with disabilities, indeed all folk, participate as fully as there capabilities will permit has a benefit to us all, even in dry economic terms. — Banno
Which I think is a danger in philosophizing about mental illness when you're wanting to know about it because it helps you express yourself -- to disappear into the navel and not even enjoy oneself but instead get caught up in a self-feeding circle that just hurts.
I.e. we ought not ruminate. And the way to tell if we're ruminating or not is whether or not we're enjoying ourselves or not -- i.e. am I just wallowing in my sadness in which case, OK, I have to wait it out and can't think myself out of it, or am I actually coming to understand it better such that I know better how to deal with my emotions? — Moliere
the guide towards whether a concept is better or worse is whether or not it helps us to talk about our feelings in the pursuit of finding more peace with them. — Moliere
The driving force was disabled activists insisting that disability is not a deviation from the normal human body, but the consequence of social design. — Banno
I understand greater need and greater suffering. But lesser suffering is still worth talking about and improving. Comparing suffering as if to triage the worthy from the worthless is counter-productive to building bonds between those who suffer. — Moliere
I've had both bad and good experiences with counselling. I also take medication.
I also try and give comfort to people I see who have the same emotions. In fact I tend to find the more I focus on others' needs the less I notice my depression.
But I don't think that we can just think ourselves to be happy — Moliere
But I agree we need better conversations -- and would go further there and say we need better concepts.
Where I'm hesitant is in thinking there are problems with overdiagnosis. I'd reach for the opposite -- there are problems with underdiagnosis. People may want a diagnosis, but that doesn't mean it's an accurate one....
I'd rather say it's a medical field with such-and-such degree of confidence in it, which is lower than people often mean by "science" because they have the picture of Newton's physics in their mind. — Moliere
How often is psychiatry the tool of oppression and anti-individualism in movies; from One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest to Girl, Interrupted? — Tom Storm
To the point that I've come to think that the face-to-face relation is not literal, but that we can have it here even as we only type to one another. — Moliere
“Only optimists commit suicide, optimists who no longer succeed at being optimists. The others, having no reason to live, why would they have any to die?” — Hurmio
I think that if there was total acceptance of the fact that there's nothing out there, one would 'turn inward' so to speak, and disdain the world.
Why would there be any reason to commit suicide then? Except in the most dire circumstances possibly.
Wouldn't the smallest things become a material for inner work, for observation and understanding?
Sounds good in theory! Hence why I try to remember ..
‘But all things excellent are as difficult as they are rare’ - Spinoza — Hurmio
Kind of. I would still much prefer my old life back, but it is like my hand has been forced to seek out something else and Buddism has a lot of explanations for the suffering.
I find lots of it ridiculous though — unimportant
The problem of evil is avoided, for one thing.
— Jeremy Murray
Don't know what you mean here — unimportant
Not much though I am indulging myself in this thread. — unimportant
a rational frame in which to reflect upon my horrible feelings — Moliere
"Depression" has diagnostic criteria for a clinical setting but that doesn't mean it's conceptually clear -- and insofar that we're enjoying ourselves (it is therapeutic rather than harmful) then it's rare for people to even want to talk about the various moods of depression in order to make some kind of sense of it all. — Moliere
to embrace the absurdity of life through living authentically — unimportant
anyone can be smote at any time.
Most annoying to still watch others enjoy their lives in blissful ignorance.
I know lots of people deal with various chronic illnesses and still enjoy life but for me it has stripped away my ability to engage in what I devoted my life to for about the last 20 years. — unimportant
trite 'get help'. — unimportant
This is a fundamental question — unimportant
Hehe concept creep is a good way to put it if I am understanding you correctly in it being a slippery slope to normalise suicide for what seems lesser and lesser maladies. — unimportant
What I thought 'silly' was how some disabled people were rallying against it, for the future creep idea you propose, envisioning a holocaust type scenario where they will be shuttled off for their lethal injections. — unimportant
What if it was instead taken to be super cheap and easy to do with little checks at all, if someone felt like it? — unimportant
You can call it classic cynicism of aging but most seem quite happy in middle age compared to me now. Maybe it is superficial and they are suffering too — unimportant
In the last few years I feel like the only guarantee is life will get worse and worse so what is the point?
"Just because" is usually the reply or some prettied up version of it.
My parents are elderly and either they or their peers are talking of an ever growing list of health issues. You can do very little of what you used to enjoy so why wait to reach that stage? "Just because".
The live fast die young adage seems better — unimportant
it seems like retirement is a scam — unimportant
I was haunted reading case reports from NL of assisted suicide granted to the depressed. Here is one example: — hypericin
Maybe not a break with a reality. But certainly a break with objectivity is assessments of one's life circumstance. How can a depressive evaluate this with any objectivity?
Like you, I wouldn't be here suicide were an easy option.
For depression, I've wants to say, "but there is always hope". But can we say this with confidence? Despite having crawled out of our own black holes? How do we know that others aren't much, much deeper, so deep they are doomed never to emerge? — hypericin
Me too. So likely, does everyone — ENOAH
Humans in history might be called evil because we despise our own actions, but we are not inherently so. We despise our own actions because they are not our natures. And, therefore, albeit a centuries or millennia long process, history can be constructed differently. — ENOAH
I wasn’t referring to indigenous people living in modern civilisation. — Punshhh
Not quite. 'trans' hasn't existed many places at all. Most instances quoted are, in fact, torturous attempts to relitigate instances of historical homophobia. What's happening now isn't too far off, as you've noted elsewhere. Most trans youth resile into being gay at puberty.
What I meant by true is 'verifiable'. Claiming to be trans is nonsense, on it's face. Not that it can't mean anything at all socially, but on it's face, its like claiming to be a rock. Your second point is taken, and the sudden drop in identification in the last 18 months seems to suggest something along those lines. — AmadeusD
But the more mystical or apophatic your theology is, the less things need to be explained and God remains unknowable. My favourite explanation for the existence of suffering is that because an apophatic God is beyond all attributes, we have no basis to expect the world to lack suffering. — Tom Storm
it misses that, assuming 'trans' is a "true identity" in the way claimed by the more committed TRAs, then it is imperative that we accept that reality and adjust our priors so as to make room for its truth — AmadeusD
Why does moral perfection require eliminating all evil as such? What can we know about moral perfection? — Astorre
That is, free will too, is a construct, a mechanism in the operation of mind which upon "emerging" (along with the "self") proved to be functional in the operation of mind/history, and so, stuck. — ENOAH
borders themselves are also xenophobic — ProtagoranSocratist
Euthanasia for the terminally Ill is one thing. For someone who is really depressed, or shaken by a loss that seems irrecoverable, that is quite another. I don't think it is ethical to make suicide a safe, available option for the depressed. If depression is a mental illness, then the person is out of their right mind, and does not have the competency to judge such a momentous decision for themselves. — hypericin
Since I can't help myself, I'll help others. Now I would say for sure that that's something that keeps me here, and for the first time it does not feel superficial or illusionary - at least for now. Maybe that's the kind of hope I hoped for when I was younger. People shouldn't bear the pain of themselves. — GreekSkeptic
I argued that pain is the primary standard of truth because it is the only thing that feels honest and coherent. — GreekSkeptic
The cat is a sadistic creature — ENOAH
"With or without religion, you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion." ~Steven Weinberg
— 180 Proof
Not quite. All it takes is making someone believe something—anything—that results in dehumanization — Outlander
Wherever we encounter indigenous peoples they all say the same thing, They revere their environment and seek to live in harmony with it. They respect their environment and natural balance and inherent wisdom of the animals and plants they live alongside — Punshhh
Would you also love to hear how anthropological and biological takes on gender are grounded in philosophical presuppositions? For instance, did you know that Queer theory originated in the genealogical-ethnographic-historical studies of Foucault? — Joshs
And thank you for questioning in high school. I taught high school math for five years before the attempt to puberty block and transition kids. I never bought the, "We have to let them do this or they'll kill themselves" line, and after doing research on the subject, it truly is tragic. I never would have gone along with it either. Adults can do what they want, but I will never stand by and let a kid be harmed. — Philosophim
Its the insistence of tying my speech and the denial of sex supremecy over gender that trigger every red flag and emotion I had against religion. It is not only wrong to question if a trans woman "is a woman", it is immoral and blasphemous. Thankfully the trans inquisition has passed but there are still people suffering from the after effects of it today. — Philosophim
Philosophy in its increasing irrelevance did not try to expand to become relevant, but retreated to the comfortable re-examination of its old and failed philosophies. — Philosophim
"Thinking in the face of the pressure not to." P — Philosophim
Early on, you could not even question the issue in many places on the internet. You would be banned for even saying something like, "I don't believe a trans woman is a woman." It was a secular religion and saying anything against it was blasphemy. The life of a philosopher in modern day is hard. Underpaid, untenured, and immense competition for positions as there are far more students than teaching positions. Why risk your livelihood on debating the issue? — Philosophim
I'm much more interested in the scientists doing the work and the psychologists doing the analyzing. — Philosophim
The model of affirmation is profitable. Clients will come see you to be told the things they want to hear, — Philosophim
I’ve never found a book of philosophy that’s assisted me with any real-world issue, to be honest. — Tom Storm
I think once people become radicalised by their social media bubble, it’s probably all over. — Tom Storm
I know you didn't ask me — AmadeusD
No comment on merits, but illustrating that its hard to find one side - but not hard to find the other. — AmadeusD
Philosophy will always be needed to dive into linguistic assumptions. Good, evil, God, knowledge, etc. As for the modern day, I see a few. Granted, I could be completely wrong as assessing the important things of today is notoriously difficult, while hindsight is usually 20/20.
Trans gender issues. This was literally made for philosophers to tackle. What are male and female is science, but cultural associations with sex, aka gender, is a goldmine of philosophical discussion.
AI 'life' and mind. AI is going to challenge us to start thinking what a life and a mind are. As it continues to evolve, we're going to find AI that will be remarkably intelligent. Of course, it won't have feelings. Does that mean we treat it as a life, or do are things that cannot feel exempt from fair treatment?
Interpersonal connections in an internet world. We still have much to discuss and think about in regards to internet behavior and human evolution. — Philosophim
Interpersonal connections in an internet world. We still have much to discuss and think about in regards to internet behavior and human evolution. — Philosophim
I'm a big fan of sitting out controversies and pseudo problems. — Tom Storm
Religions are a great example of group think because most people are not in the religion for clear and rational language. They are there for moral guidance, group and cultural cohesion, and internal desires of how they want the world to be. Rational language alone will not persuade most people out of a religion because they lose so much more than they think they would gain. Usually if you want someone to leave an ideology, its a multi-pronged approach. — Philosophim
A clear and rational argument that demonstrates one is not immoral for leaving is very powerful. — Philosophim
Trans ideology has been so effective because it has set itself as a moral one without truly justifying that it is actually moral. — Philosophim
That is not to say that some aspects of transgender ideology are not actually moral. Any good measure of control and manipulation understands that there should be some truth to what one is pushing. Should an adult have the bodily autonomy and right to transition? Absolutely. Just like there are usually good things taken in isolation in any ideology. But what is important is to analyze what an ideology is saying rationally as much as possible without appeal to emotions to be free from the manipulative and prosthelytizing pressures that ideologies put forth. — Philosophim
I do not believe this is a liberal vs conservative issue. This is a people issue. Politics on either side effectively use what they can to manipulate and convince people that 'their' side is the correct one. The question really is whether it also happens to be that it is more rational to pick one side or the other. — Philosophim
gender is a personality type of an individual that a person subjectively expects a member of that particular sex to have — Philosophim
But once someone has had their eyes cleared and has a way out of cognitive dissonance that does put their moral viewpoint at risk, the clear and definitive language gives them the off ramp that they need. — Philosophim
Your perspective on social change is insightful, — Athena
How do we feel at ease with who we are, when our understanding of reality is all messed up? — Athena
As we can lack information about how we come to have PTSD, so can we lack the memories that can help us. While replying to you, an important memory that has improved my life for the last 20 years came to my awareness. Maybe we all focus too much on the negative. Does counseling ever encourage good memories? Most of my I have felt love and I think the source of that was my father — Athena
This is something necessarily very different from "medical practice", simply because the science deals with generalities and statistics, whereas practice consists of individual relationships. — unenlightened
One of the things that often happens in these situations is that the individual in question is so agitated that they hardly sleep for days or weeks, and as a result, the people around them cannot sleep properly either. And so many of the crisis interventions basically address this problem by various tranquillising and soporific drugs. Sometimes one cannot persuade the person to take the drugs, and involuntary treatment occurs. It should though be troubling to all concerned at least — unenlightened
I have a friend who has been on various psychiatric medications for years, and hasn't been able to get off of them. It seems these medications, from my point of view (and i don't lecture him on it, even though i've gently criticized some of his other drug use) have been assisting in physical degeneration for him, even though he's a very coherent person for me to talk to. — ProtagoranSocratist
A disability for whom? Where and how do we draw the line between disability defined in terms of the hardships it causes for those surrounding the allegedly disabled person ( as so often happens with ADHD) and their own sense of being disabled? And even with regard to the person’s self assessment, what percentage of it is made on the basis of non-conformity with the dominant culture and what part of it is truly a self-assessment? Would you agree there is a difference between someone born deaf or sightless and someone who develops such conditions as a result of injury or illness? Do you think the former consider themselves disabled in the same way as the latter? — Joshs
But neurodivergence is not a morbidity in a typical sense, so it is unclear what “health” means in this context.
Trying to “treat” neurodivergent people by making them respectable citizens who are palatable within neurotypical productivity culture is usually likely to backfire; typically bad for their own well-being, and a social loss. — Joshs
Can you provide a link to something from DeBoer on this? I'd be interested in reading more. — wonderer1
There are obvious "documented positive effects" for alcohol, heroin, and tabacco as well. — ProtagoranSocratist
the 10,000 foot takeaway there is that there are major risks/issues if psychology and the language of health/wellness come to define ethics and the philosophy of "living a good life" and "being a good person." — Count Timothy von Icarus
Lo' and behold, programs when curricula loaded with texts that claimed that the illusory nature of the individual must be overcome also discovered that it the individual was illusory. And yet, this area later became ground zero for much of the replication crisis, and some of the claims it made for things like "priming" are, in retrospect, the sort of thing that should have rung alarm bells in the same way claims of psychokinesis do. — Count Timothy von Icarus
A criticism I'd like to point out here is that psychology, like economics, is not metaphysically neutral. Aside from empirical work, it provides an interpretive lens for how data is interpreted, which is based on ideals dominant in the field. — Count Timothy von Icarus
Nobody must question the medical model, because it is a scientific model. Scientists are objective and therefore mentally healthy. — unenlightened
He also appreciated Laing’s insistence that psychosis could be understood as a meaningful experience, rather than simply as a disease process. — Joshs
I'd have to say that psychiatry is very limited: it's basically just something people use in desperation, and i can't comment on how to properly administer it. You have to get a referral to see a psychiatrist, because MH proffesionals know that talk based therapy is more effective than medicating for a wide range of issues. — ProtagoranSocratist
To what extent is psychiatry able to look at subjective experiences of suffering and how does philosophy come into the picture of such understanding? — Jack Cummins
I've always felt that my psychiatrists were on the same treadmill that my internist, orthopedists, or dermatologist were on. — BC
It seems like we tend to talk about "mental health" as an absence. I haven't heard people say "she is really mentally healthy" — BC
Philosophy comes in handy here to explain some of the glaring contradictions humans exhibit, and for generalizing about how contradictory we are as a species, with our often uncoordinated and/or contradictory cognitive and emotional traits constantly screwing things up for ourselves. — BC
