This seems quite clearly wrong, unless what you mean by gender is "immature and potentially misinformed prior concepts of sex" which is what I think actually is the case. — AmadeusD
This is probably a thread of its own. You say later that:
The concept of gender refers to behaviour and presentation. — AmadeusD
And under that concept there's probably no way to make sense of what I said. I'm not quite sure how to be concise here: I think of gender as a socially organised way to order sexual behaviour through our daily praxis. That's probably not making much sense for now. There's a nature-vs.-nurture aspect here, complicating things, too - but basically it's impossible to think about sex outside of gendered concepts. That includes science, as science is social activity. (It's not that important to follow up on this here, and I'd rather not, since this goes in a different direction, but my influences here come from sociology - Husserl-inspired theories [Alfred Schütz, Berger/Luckmann], as well as a little of Mannheim's total ideology. For what it's worth, I think the current confusion follows on from post-Derridan post-structuralism - which mostly left me confused and I don't think there's much influence here - I think I stopped with Saussure...)
I can't quite disagree, but I cannot see an avenue to assent to this. Male and female are categories that are not violated. They are useful inherently. I cannot understand a discussion about "trans" that doesn't include the grounding what you're on the "other side" of. That would be sex, no? — AmadeusD
They're useful inherently for most people:
They rarely vary independently, but they do in an incredible minority of cases (exception for rule, i suggest). — AmadeusD
You talk about exceptions for a rule. But if the occurance of exceptions is also rule bound, then you're not going find the rules of the exception while focussing on the binary. The key here is attention. We're not going to find the rules that govern those exceptions. Not because they can't be found that way, but because habitual thought patterns have led us past them for centuries. I don't think we can't; I think we won't. And I think the problem is socially re-inforced complacency: it's not our problem. Unless we're trans.
If there are no biological markers somewhere around sex that regulate those exceptions... how can we tell? If there are, listening to trans people and what they're paying attention to should be interesting.
Of course, right now, it's fashionable to be "trans". High motivation (comparitively to earlier times) to look into it, but also more noise to sift through. It's frustrating.
His position is that if we were to abolish gender (insane) cis people (i hate that term, btw. Just people) would lose so much of what they are unaware constitutes their identity with the loss of words like 'man' and 'woman'. — AmadeusD
I'd sort of agree with your lecturer, provided this doesn't lead to a political program. It's impossible to abolish gender, I think, since the combination of biological differences and living together in groups will always lead to some sort of gender distinction. However, I do think there's a lot of unaware stuff going on in gender identity. A practical repetition that doesn't even need to be put into words; something you only really run into if you don't fit (say, if you're trans).
Which is why I said "whithout much of a gender identity" rather than "without any gender identity". I walk into the male toilets without a second thought, for once. Socially speaking, I'm unreflected male as much as I'm unreflected cis. I think being trans means that you can't be "unreflected" anything in terms of gender, because the system that would fit you has not socially developed. I see only two possibilities: you must reflect on your gender, or you must find some other area to put your problems in.
So:
it is a subversive transition from "your gender" to "your chosen gender" or some similarly opaque and unhelpful line. — AmadeusD
How else would they put this? I'm fairly pessimistic, though, so I think I agree it's unhelpful. People aren't going to understand them without a way to approach them or disproportionate effort. If we'd encapsulate them in a social category, the need to actually understand would probably lessen. Of course, then we'd likely have a new trans-people-are-like-this problem. Humans tend towards stereotypes.
Not unreasonable, but not your problem. — AmadeusD
Not much of a problem to be honest. I brought it up as markers of gender identity in a social negotiation context. To what extent I am a man is mostly a fun puzzle I don't take seriously. It passes the time. I can deal with mishaps. But the way they happen do shed light on how I connect with gender.
This implies there is an objective standard to being a woman/man. If "adult human female" isn't it, the entire conversation collapses in on itself. Another weirdo type line, imo. Fwiw, "adult human X" is perfectly sufficient, conceptually. — AmadeusD
There is an objective standard, but it's in constant flux. Let's take our eyes of gender for now and just look at adult. "Adult" is usually connected with both age and behaviour. An adult can behave childishly without being a child, but an adult can "fail to grow up". Etc. Also, this are all things I've improvised from within a social context. How many years have passed since my birth is pretty much a fact. Beyond that there's an ongoing repetition of imperfectly internalised norms you can be wrong about. But being wrong about something that's in flux... adds to a gauge that might lead to social change if the gauge doesn't empty (pardon the video game language; it comes naturally to me).
So:
Is it posssible you could elaborate here? I get the intuition i would agree, if I understood. — AmadeusD
I start with the assumption that there are trans people; i.e. they arise out of contexts that don't give them the information that trans people exist and still end up seeing themselves that way. Whatever that means isn't clear. Whether that's a single grouping or convergent symptoms isn't clear. But this happens in significant albeit low numbers.
Next, we can find out that trans is a thing and name it "trans" and try to figure out what that is. Experts can do that: anthropologists, sociologists, psychologists, biologists, etc. We get terms that are used in a variety of systematic ways, sometimes incompatible with each other, but experts usually know about this (as they demonstrate when they fight for academic resources).
Then the terms bleed out into "the wild", where they propagate unsystematically. I don't want to go into it too much here, because that's a whole wild topic of its own, but now you have a lot of people calling themselves trans who might never have "figured it this out for themselves". A man who would like to go out in public in womens clothes certainly engages in cross-gendered behaviour, ("cross" being the English word for "trans"), but that doesn't make for a trans person by itself. They overgeneralise.
Overgeneralisations, IMO, are part and parcel of the identity game. I *am* this. I will fight for the right to be this. And so on. The identity game tends to reinforce gendered behaviour, here, as someone who's gender-identity is contested will often seek refuge in hyper-gendered behaviour to make their "chosen gender" more accessible. The fall-out is two-fold:
If you're really trans you might feel pressured into gendered behaviour you don't really want to engage in (voice lessons are common example... or were a couple of years ago). "I guess I have to wear a dress now."
Meanwhile, the guy who simply wants to wear dresses might try to justify that (maybe to themselves) with "I am trans". This assumes a positively marked social category, and with the right political leanings...
The problem here is this: it's hard, and maybe (currently?) impossible to tell the difference from the outside, when all you have is what they do and say.
I have a hard time siding with an extreme minority which can totally reasonably be characterized as mentally aberrant, on issues that, for the majority, amount to safety issues (i have provided ample evidence for this throughout the thread). — AmadeusD
I'm not contesting the evidence you've cited - mostly because to do that I'd have to go to the source; other than the biology paper, I'd at least somewhat be qualified to read them. And I also don't really want to talk about whether or not trans people ought to be allowed in this or that bathroom. It's just that the acutal "safety issue" seems to be secondary to the general discourse around this (especially, since the safety of trans people is usually secondary for people who argue safety). There's an unease around the gender topic that needs to go before any law change might be useful. I'd not be surprised if trans people allowed into "their" bathrooms still choose to avoid public bathrooms, as these places aren't seen as safe. Under this theory, your numbers could be a transition problem (e.g. some of the trans people who do take advantage of the law might be the "vengeful" kind). This is why, ideally, an attitude change would have to come first. But then an attitude change isn't going to come without actual contact. And given that being trans is rare to begin with...
It's all a muddle for me. My sympathies are with the minority, here, though more with the regular person than with the activist. There's something there, I think, we don't quite understand enough.