Being Stoned on Stoicism and Post-Modernism and Its Discontents I think the general characterization of Stoics in this thread is too non-complexly algorithmic. It makes no sense to say that Stoics have no concern over their family dying or their wife leaving them as a matter of principle--in fact, it is quite impossible, since humans are evolutionary trial-and-error creatures, and brooding over tragedy is a natural human response, about as natural as not putting your hand on the Bunsen burner after that last time you burnt it. Rather, I see Stoicism as an attempt to streamline this trial-and-error process. Say you came up with a code of ethics, then Stoicism would simply be the engine you use as you approach the world accordingly, in the most efficient and effective way. Really, Stoicism isn't really a philosophical theory at all, it is more like a philosophical device.
Anyways, historically, after Zeno of Citium started popularizing it, it became the device of choice for many rich aristrocrats in Greece and Rome, and then codified into Roman law and culture as a means to ensure some sort of cultural obedience. Really, it became this tool for them Roman fascists (hey, I know using that word is ahistorical in this situation, but to be fair, the word fascist came from the Roman word fasces after all) to retain power and justify their despicable actions under the guise of 'honor'. So, as a philosophical device, there really isn't a problem with it if you're into building codes of ethics through lifelong contemplation and creating a sort of theory to help you abide by them, but when Stoicism became a political movement, then it's ugliness manifests itself.