Are We Spoiled Yuppy Brats? I was lucky and unlucky. I’m a white man. Plus one (or maybe a thousand). I grew up in a middlish class family (my parents were correctional officers with public pensions and good benefits). Plus another one. My parents instilled in me the need of a good education. ( I graduated as my high school class valedictorian and earned a college scholarship.) Plus one more.
However, my father was an angry alcoholic and was often abusive. Minus one. I was depressed ever since I was fourteen. Minus. I developed schizoaffective disorder (partly schizophrenic, partly bipolar) at 19 or 20. Big minus. But, my student loans were canceled due to disability. I have no debt now, and have a little money in a Roth IRA. Plus. When my dad died in August, I got a decent inheritance. Plus another. But my dad died, and we had a complicated relationship. It got much better towards the end. Neutral but still sad.
I am blessed to have a loving wife who is a great stepmother to my two teenage boys. Huge plus! I recently discovered God’s grace, and I am actively working to be more humble and grateful. Another huge plus!
So, it’s been a mixed bag for me, but I still can’t help but feel privileged. I know if I were black or brown I wouldn’t have had the same fair treatment, which is something i feel guilt about. It’s really not fair.
I often bitch and moan as you do, and I really can’t justify it most of the time.
For what it’s worth, you seem like a very humble guy, and I find that admirable. God bless you and yours!