You meet my expectations fdrake, when it comes to eloquently and soundly articulating the facts about the problems, you do so excellently. I agree with Echarmion though, your insistence on provocative terms comes across as belligerence and considering the political state of the left, it's even easier to write you off that way. That being said, I think writing you off that way is correct, it's just that you make it easier.
I don't think you've hyperbolised the problems, truly, that's pretty much how it is. I won't echo what we've both already written about. The thread is "does systemic racism exist in the US" and that's been answered.
However, I hope you are able to separate interpretation from fact, maybe even that you can see interpretation as having important implications. That we can strive to be pragmatic in our approach. Race is superficial, the causation behind our problems shouldn't be charactered by the pettiness of our nature. Race is responsible for nothing, it is nothing, that's the truth beyond our pettiness. How can it be any other way?
Things are the way they are because of human nature, the nature of power, economics, technology and so on. I know you can articulate the problems using these terms, you've shown it. Yet you insist on using the petty language made important by the stupidity you should abhor. Which of the real problems can be resolved by any solution orientated around race and sex? What are the benefits of the perpetuation of the focus and how do they compare to the potential for harm?
It is all true, white men hurting coloured people, rich men hurting poor people, people hurting people. So I say people are hurting people, because I believe the focus on race and sex is harmful and unpragmatic, I think it leads us towards further tribalism. It's not a practical solution, it's angry hate, passion towards injustice should be tunnelled towards only pragmatic problem-solving.
So your terminology and insistence on emphasising racial and gender differences shouldn't be found guilty of being factually incorrect. It should be found guilty of fanning the flames of hate, spreading the very poison that you're embittered about. Impractical at best but more likely harmful and politically unsound. I think you're smart enough to know that, people will show resistance to help based on the reason.