Can one be in essence a psychological woman in a man's body? — Joshs
No, one can not.
One may wish one was a woman (when one is a man) or wish one was a man (when one is a woman); one may play the social role of the opposite sex; one may identify with people who are of the opposite sex; one can pretend that one is actually a member of the sex opposite that which one was born into. One may have some degree of feminized or masculinized brain (homosexuals). But in 99.99% of births, one is male or female.
Granted: there are people who are born with ambiguous genitalia which is a problem unto itself. Transsexuality is not thought to involve ambiguous genitalia (at least as far as I know).
You haven't addressed the issue of whether one can distinguish between bodily gender(genitalia, facial hair, bone structure, etc) and psychological gender( cognitive-affective processing differences correlated with masculinized va feminized behaviors ). — Joshs
I'm not a practicing psychologist, neurologist, endocrinologist, surgeon, or any other advanced specialty, so it has not been my job to precisely parse out these distinctions. However, 97% of speakers, writers, demonstrators, and practitioners about and of gender issues and/or transsexualism aren't either. None the less... you ask, can one distinguish...
Many aspects of personhood can be readily observed, or observed given sufficient time and care. From what I have read, from what I have heard from transsexuals, what I have observed most transsexuals were born with genitalia, hair distribution, bone structure, and endocrine system within the normal range of their biological gender. The normal range, however, is quite wide.
The way individuals think, imagine, process data, remember, and so on generally falls within a normal range, but again, the range is wide. Many of the differences among hyper masculine men, the average man, and the effeminate homosexual man will be lost in overlap of ranges. Just for example, the hyper masculine man (exaggerated secondary sexual characteristics, large, muscular body, male dominant personality) can be and sometimes is a homosexual. and not only a homosexual, but one who is sexually passive to boot. Similarly, there are kind of reedy, slightly built men who are domineering male STEM types. There are husbands and fathers who giver every appearance of thinking like "real men" and acting like "real men" but who have a sort of "swishy" style of speaking and who have a lot of "feminine interests" but who aren't at all homosexual or remotely transsexual.
Transgender M to F may be successful ex-soldiers, have lived very masculine lifestyles, think and talk in very masculine style, but may be 45 years old (or more) and decide they are going to become women. So they take the hormones, grow big tits, redistribute the surface fat layer, learn to dress and groom like a woman, but otherwise are still pretty much the same people they always were.
The jury is out on how much alike and how different men and women are. It is pretty much a hung jury, because "the jury" doesn't seem to be able to decide one way or the other. Men and women both argue both sides, back and forth, switching sides as is convenient. There is no consensus on what, exactly, is the same about men and women, except that everyone agrees that they are different.
Not talking about biology here.
The point is that a would be transsexual man can claim to be a woman, not on the basis of biology, but on the basis of psychology, and the range of psychological traits makes that a very hard case to prove or disprove.
It would be easy if transsexuals all had biological mismatched reproductive organs (like a penis and ovaries), and mismatched brains to go along with the mismatched reproductive organs. Unfortunately, that just isn't the case.
I am not a big fan of the "meme" concept, but I think a lot of gender-fluid talk is mostly meme and very little reality. No, I don't trust a 4 year old and his sometimes overly-invested mother to be on the level when the mother reports that her son wants to be a girl, and that he should be seen by a gender specialist, blah blah blah. No, I don't take it at face value when a screwed up teenager (there are such things as teenagers who are unusually screwed up) claims to be transgender. Or neuter, or whatever the fuck they come up with. If 4 year olds can pick up these memes, 17 year olds have been over exposed.