Yes, in that sense of the word, no good person approves of it.No, I'm not equivocating. "To approve" of something involves believing it is good, acceptable or satisfactory. If you don't then you don't "approve" of it. That is the meaning of that word. Your garbled meaning is in your head only. — Baden
What is it then? You're willing according to the same nature that gave birth to the other's actions. That counts as approval of that nature, what else can it count as?That's not approval. — Baden
It may be disgusting if you don't separate forgiveness from approval. To forgive someone doesn't mean you approve of their actions. But it seems you do not understand the underlying logic of violence that perpetuates it, and hence the danger that Jesus's radical exhortation seeks to avoid:And to say of a woman who is raped that she is of the same nature as her rapist because she doesn't forgive him is disgusting. — Baden
Why does Jesus give those prescriptions? Because he wants to be a nice guy? No. Rather because those are the prescriptions that are required to STOP and put an end to the logic of violence, which is otherwise interminable because it feeds off itself.“You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. — Matthew 5:38-48
In your very attempt to disapprove of the rapist, you are approving of him by using the very same logic he has used - the logic of hatred and violence. Likewise, in their very rejection of their fathers, the Pharisees are approving of them. Just like their fathers did not recognise their own violence and expelled their own fathers saying they have nothing to do with their violence, so too the Pharisees go on perpetuating the same logic of violence while being unaware of it.Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You build tombs for the prophets and decorate the monuments of the righteous. And you say, ‘If we had lived in the days of our fathers, we would not have been partners with them in shedding the blood of the prophets.’ So you testify against yourselves that you are the sons of those who murdered the prophets. Fill up, then, the measure of your fathers’ sins. You snakes! You brood of vipers! How will you escape the sentence of hell?
That is true, but just because they are suffering does not mean that they are not at risk of perpetrating and continuing evil. Many have felt that because of the injustices done to them, they are allowed to murder, pillage, torture, etc. That is wrong. An evil doesn't justify another evil.A raped woman or a victim of a similar crime is a person in torment. Their nature is chaotic not evil. — Baden
Absolutely. How could there be anything else if God is Love?So, there is only free-will? — TimeLine
It is of course not the one who loves who is fooled. Jesus Christ wasn't fooled when He was put on the Cross. He knew exactly what was happening. It was Satan who was fooled. That is why in Dante's Divine Comedy there is the image of Satan nailed to the Cross - because that is what happened. Through his innocence, love and non-violence, Jesus exposed Satan for the murderer and liar that he is. And a lie that has been exposed no longer works :)Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. — TimeLine
Now you're equivocating on "approval". There are two kinds of approval. There is one type of approval that involves me willing the same specific action that you will. There's also another kind of approval that involves me willing according to the same nature that you will.So, you believe those men who don't forgive those who rape their wives approve of their wives being raped. OK. Can you take a look at the edited example? Does the woman also approve of being raped if she doesn't forgive? — Baden
I've told you that there is hell back a long time ago:So, now you do believe in punishment? So, there is a hell? — TimeLine
Punishment is self-inflicted. Vice and sin are their own punishments.I'm saying hell and heaven are just reactions to Love. — Agustino
My forgiveness is very relevant because I have to set myself as opposed to her actions. By setting myself on an equal footing with her - as someone just like her - I do the opposite. Setting myself as opposed to her actions is the only way to encourage repentance in her.This magnanimity is a hallucination of reality because your forgiveness is irrelevant if she is not genuinely repentant, proven if she repeatedly makes the same mistake. — TimeLine
It is relevant for me to be honest when I apologize, but not for the other. I will assume that they are honest because we should always try to think the best of our neighbors.The problem here is that you are arguing against authenticity and you need to prove why it is not relevant for a person to be honest when they apologise — TimeLine
Yes, it does, because from his point of view my hatred of him and unforgiveness justifies his behaviour, because just like him, I am a bad guy who wants to harm him. That hides himself from seeing his responsibility for what he did - instead, he will conceive of himself as someone who now has to defend against the evil I want to do to him.A man rapes your wife. You don't forgive him. Does that mean you approve of his actions? — Baden
Forgiveness has nothing to do with taking actions to protect my wife. I can forgive him and still take actions to dissipate the threat as you say.And at what point do you forgive him? — Baden
I may not want to be married with her anymore, but I would forgive her and be friends with her. Not to forgive her is to justify her actions and approve of them. It would be to tell her that she was right to cheat on me, because I am a bad guy, and I didn't deserve her anyway.Augustino is saying that if his wife cheats on him repeatedly, he needs to represent himself as a moral person by continuously forgiving. He is being paradoxical. — TimeLine
The history of the world is the continuous expulsion of the victim - of God.The true light that gives light to everyone was coming into the world. He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. — John 1:9-11
I'm saying hell and heaven are just reactions to Love.Are you saying there is no hell? — TimeLine
It also follows that you cannot reason with an ignorant egotist, like those people who pretend to be holier-than-thou when they clearly contradict themselves. — TimeLine
If you are a moral person all you have to do is be a mirror so that they can look at themselves as they are.if you were a moral person you would prefer to help them see the meaning behind the apology itself — TimeLine
Of course. It's actually part of the hidden strategies of war in Chinese history as well. Forgiveness of the enemy. It's funny that the Chinese are more Machiavellian than Machiavelli by being rulers that you want to serve under, instead of rulers that are hated and feared - which pretty much is in direct contradiction with Machiavelli's weak advice. Which is precisely why in Western history we have few great strategic minds.I remember when Pope John Paul II went to the prison where the man who had shot him was locked up. They sat down, talked, and John Paul forgave him. It was a simple act of kindness and commitment and I found it very moving. I remember the guy was shocked and moved. — T Clark
This is very interesting. In my experience we often tend to assume in the intellectual landscape that Westerners are the Cartesians, and Indians (Buddhists, Hindus, etc.) are the monists who espouse unity of body-mind. That's why in Chan Buddhism there is the namarupa - mind-body. Is this understanding a Westernized version of Asian culture you would say?Of course nowadays it is simply assumed by most folks that mind is an attribute or quality of body, rather than vice versa, but in my view that is very much a cultural construct. My Indian Studies lecturer used to point out that Westerners say of someone who died, that he 'gave up the ghost' whereas Indians tend to say he 'gave up the body'. — Wayfarer
In reality no. But what will actually happen is that you will start fearing that they might take some sort of action against you because they are afraid, which will paradoxically drive you to violence yourself.If someone acts afraid of you, you are not justified in being aggressive towards them on the basis of that fact. True or false? — Baden
I agree with him regarding reconciliation.Because baden is correct — TimeLine
Yes indeed. A person who requires excessive contrition in order to forgive - who demands authenticity - is a person who lacks the virtue of magnanimity of soul. Don't judge and you will not be judged.What you are saying is that you don't care about other people, you don't care about the well-being of the community as long as you are safe from being morally liable, which I find to be paradoxical.
How you forgive does actually say something about you. — TimeLine
Virtue and compassion are like two sharp swords Baden - they may seem weak if you haven't understood their logic.And no, you don't justify someone else's behaviour by taking reasonable precautions against it. Don't pretend you actually act that way in real life. You wouldn't last five minutes. — Baden
I think you are equivocating on this word. Yes, you do form opinions of people, however, the type of judgment that is in discussion here is not the passive, automatic one, but the active one that impacts your behavior towards them.We constantly judge our neighbours. — Baden
Yes you do. If we live together, and I lock myself in one room at night for fear that you will kill me, that would justify aggressive behavior from you and may actually even bring it about.And no, you don't justify someone else's behaviour by taking reasonable precautions against it. — Baden
Whether they accept your forgiveness or not is a different story, but you should always forgive.Evidence is founded when mistakes are not repeated so indeed you can reconcile with such a person, but you cannot forgive. — TimeLine
Their lack of honesty is theirs, why is that relevant to you? Their apology has no meaning or substance. That says something about them, not about you. If you treat them as if that's the case though, you will justify their behavior and aggression towards you by the low esteem you hold of them.Authenticity is certainly relevant and while your example is correct, likewise it is not about expecting them to lie but rather whether your actions of continually forgiving them despite the lack of honesty reduces apologies into nothing but a word with no meaning or substance. — TimeLine
The authenticity is irrelevant. We are not to judge our neighbor. If they lie, that is their fault. But if you act and expect them to lie, that is your fault, for you have justified their behavior by your low esteem of them. They will say that you expected them to lie again anyway. Their behaviour would condemn itself if you weren't to condemn it.The problem with that is clearly the authenticity behind 'I repent' that has always stood firm within me, where a repetition of behaviour clearly outlines that the person is unwilling to actually admit to his/her wrongdoing. — TimeLine
Well, as much as it would be ego-pleasing to say that everything good in my life is due to my great genius, intelligence, discipline and hard work, that would be false. Yes, most of the worldly things I've had in my life are due to luck.That isn't how you made it into the big time, is it? — Bitter Crank
The difference between a disciplined (and all other good attributes) person winning the lottery and his opposite winning the lottery is that the former will maintain his winnings and grow them, while the other will return to his original condition in awhile. That's all there is to it. But luck is still the decisive factor even for the disciplined one.But one still has to cooperate with lady luck. — Bitter Crank
That's not necessarily the case. My point is that "the gods", or "luck" or "fortune" or however you want to call it plays a much bigger role in success than is often attributed to it. The Ancients were well-aware of this - if someone was rich in Ancient Rome, they attributed it to Fortune, not to themselves. And that was correct.Luck is incompatible with knowledge at an epistemic level and those poor 45 year olds with few skills who did turn into affluent entrepreneurs likely had pre-existing cognitive abilities that enabled them to adapt and learn with the incentive to improve their situation. It is not causally due to this phenomenon of luck, they knew that an opportunity presented itself and worked towards attaining it. — TimeLine
You still didn't tell me if you like mashed potatoes... ;)Hey, the fact you don't know stuff is probably less damaging to my self-esteem than you might think. — apokrisis
I mean the idea itself is very old, and Tillich doesn't even express it in the best way. Also the idea itself, without the necessary experiences, isn't of much help either.No? How so? It was groundbreaking within my own experience, regardless of the historical context of the concept. — Noble Dust
Are you kidding? You're living in probably one of the most expensive cities in the whole world! You can find much cheaper rent anywhere else, especially in third world countries where prices and rents are much cheaper for everything. That is provided you can sustain a similarly high income, which wouldn't necessarily be impossible - for example I know that if you worked online you could do it. If you were a web developer, say, you could continue the work you used to do in NYC from anywhere around the world, and earn about the same while living at a cheaper cost. If you are a musician you could probably do it if you're already somewhat established online and get funding/sales through things like Patreon.Yeah, like where? Can I find cheap audio gear and rent, and somehow find a way to make a living while having time to write/record music? :s — Noble Dust
To a certain extent, but it's not that ground breaking :PActually, come to think of it, it was a useful concept. The idea of our conception of God being just a representation of the real God; the "God above God". That's how he phrases it; in other words, more accurately, it would be the "God above god". — Noble Dust
lol! See, that's why you should move to a chill, non-competitive place :PYou mean are depressed, right? I still live here :P — Noble Dust
Ah, at least I remembered that... >:OThe ground of being is the main gist; God is above God; beyond God. The ground of being. — Noble Dust
LOL, that must be quite a depressing place to live then, no wonder you were depressed!It's the definition of that place. — Noble Dust
>:O I have literarily almost zero memory about what the contents of the book are anymore. I somehow remember Kierkegaard is mentioned and there's lots of talk about the ground of being?I guarantee you it's all in the title. A fucking misleading title, at that. >:O — Noble Dust
I never tried that. I prefer to run in parks, or watch people :-O lolBecause reading books in the park can be profound — Noble Dust
Hmmm so is NYC the type of place where if you lie on the ground on the street nobody stops by to see what's happening with you?And no, its NYC, no one approached me. — Noble Dust
Though there have certainly been poor 45 year olds with few skills who did turn into affluent entrepreneurs >:O - it's to a large degree a matter of luck also.A 45 year old man who dropped out of high school, is barely literate, has no sought after skills, is going to do poorly--no matter what. Doers of good deeds and county workers can help the guy, but they can not turn him into an affluent entrepreneur. — Bitter Crank
Yes, when I was depressed I didn't find much help in books either. However, things like prayer, sports, and having a few close friends were all helpful to a certain extent - and just getting adjusted to feeling the emotions. You know there is a point when you have emotions but you realize they can't hurt you and you don't have to react to them - that moment was quite revelatory for me. It is much like how you feel the need to give up when you're running and you keep feeling it but don't give up. It's a strange thing because to a certain extent you escape your biological programming - but it's like a muscle, it must be trained.At that period of my life, no, as far as I can remember. — Noble Dust
I read that when depressed too >:O - but I don't remember much now. I think I liked it at first, and then didn't like it anymore lol.I remember reading Tillich's The Courage To Be — Noble Dust
Haha! Why were you reading the books in the park and not at home? And did the strangers approach you and start talking to you? :P I assume if they saw you crying they must have!But, I was crying in the park, in front of strangers, to give you a sense of the impact. >:O — Noble Dust
Did you find any books helpful in your depression?I bought it on a whim in a state of severe depression, and then left it on the park bench where I began reading it after it's purchase. — Noble Dust
Depends at what level of inquiry you are asking that. If you are asking at the level of metaphysics/religion, then it is because of the Fall - humans have rejected God's love and are thus left with Satan's violence.Under the assumption "God doesn't want us to sacrifice scapegoats"
Why then does the human, the perfect creation of God, sacrifice the scapegoat? — Frank Barroso
Wow it does exactly what your whole philosophy does :DThat's a spectacularly bad description as it mushes all the different aspects of a dissipative structure ontology together. — apokrisis
Yep, and like so globalised tendency, function and purpose are all mushed together into a cute word salad that is taken to be philosophy and deep understanding :BBut anyway, it should be remembered that teleology at the base cosmic level only needs to be considered a globalised tendency. At the biological level, we could talk about it being a function. Then at a psychological level, we could talk about it as a purpose. — apokrisis
That is the way of this world (of Satan). René Girard describes this as the victimage mechanism which resolves the conflictual crisis that arises in the community due to mimetic rivalry, and would otherwise lead to mutual destruction, by the unanimous and collective murder of a victim. The transference of collective violence on the victim is responsible for the unity and peace of the community. Both ritual and prohibitions - and hence the sacred - emerge out of this murder, which is at the foundation of society. And all of mythology is the work of Satan - a lie that covers the founding mechanism as necessary for order. The sacrifice is seen as necessary for peace, and hence the victim is seen as guilty and responsible for the chaos of the community.But peace almost always is a result of prior violence — Noble Dust
No, that's an underhanded way to say that peace requires violence, for suffering implies violence. That which causes suffering is violent. So peace doesn't require suffering in an absolute sense. In some circumstances suffering may be unavoidable though.But does peace require suffering? — Noble Dust
This theme is found in other world mythologies too. It is a justification for violence, and makes it seem like peace requires the use of violence.Their earthly suffering is inconsequential when compared to the spiritual gain. God is far more concerned about bringing us closer to him and less about our earthly comfort, even to the extreme that a violent and painful death isn't that big of a deal. — MysticMonist
Yep. That's mosesquine. He's Korean.The guy who insists on making a logical syllogism proving I am the most disgusting hot dog on the sidewalk in South Africa or something? — darthbarracuda
You're not speaking with Apo lol...I really don't need you pseudo-scientific gibberish. The heart of your ideology is pure Daoism. Deal with it. — Rich
This thread is very interesting, and it relates well to my reading of René Girard. The logic of violence outlined here seems to be everywhere in society. We tend to arrive at situations that seem to force us to choose between kill or be killed - situations that demand resolution through violence. Think even of the conflict between US and North Korea. Both sides are approaching faster and faster the understanding that it is a game of kill or be killed, which is exactly what will lead to conflict.The "left" has a more 'collectivist' approach, and generally thinks that the government should keep the peace. The "right" has no time for such nonsense and is armed and dangerous. You're probably right. We can, perhaps, afford to lose 10% of the left. That's what decimated means - 1 in 10. deci.
Some people are alive today because they were armed and were able to defend themselves. Many more people are dead today because they were armed and were pierced by a bullet before they had time to shoot their assailant. Even more are dead who had wielded their guns and were shot by somebody else first, and a lot of people are dead, whether they had a gun or not, because somebody just up and shot them with or without a good reason, or was aiming at person X, missed, killing Y instead.
Shoot before you might be shot is part of the logic of guns. Shoot first and sort out the bodies later is part of the gun logic. Shoot, shot, shit. — Bitter Crank
The purpose of thermodynamics is artificial or emergent. It's like having a 12-sided dice with 11 faces having a value of 1 and only one side having a different value. According to thermodynamics, it is only this asymmetry in the structure of reality that creates the entropic imperative in the long run - meaning the entropic imperative is only statistical and results from there being a lot more entropifying possibilities (a lot more possibilities to score '1' given a throw in the dice analogy) in the pool of possible choices than the opposite. So if anything this "purpose" is enforced by the a priori structure of reality.Apokrisis has quite specifically advocated a Cosmic Goal manifesting as a Thermodynamics with Purpose. — Rich
