No it means to not treat people unequally based on their gender/sex. We have that and is what I and Hanover has argued, but you are willfully ignorant.I mean if you thought gender is exclusively biological sex, then what could 'gender-neutral' even mean? Cutting little boys dangly bits off and giving half of them to girls? This is how absurd your position is. — Baden
Listen to yourself. If it's not your definition then why are you using it? I never said it was a left-wing definition. I said it was an incoherent definition. Can we do without the politics at the moment and just deal the logic of what you are saying?Listen, please. It's not my definition. It's not a left-wing definition. It's the standard definition. It's what the word means and how it's used in every discussion in the area on which the OP is focused. If you don't want to recognize it fine, but in that case you won't be able to communicate on this topic. — Baden
My explanation wasn't complicated at all. It was an explanation about the implications of your own definition - something you don't seem to think about.Either of the two sexes (male and female), especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones. — Baden
This part shows that "gender" is arbitrary and therefore meaningless independent of some subjective idea of gender. I could make up any identity and call it "gender". It also contradicts the previous sentence in your definition.The term is also used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female. — Baden
If we aren't using the same definitions then we are simply talking past each other, which is a waste of my time.We generally do not need definitions to talk plainly about things, and certain words - like language, game, object, culture, ability and so on are quite resistant to exhaustive and exclusive characterisations/definitions. — fdrake
See my reply to andrew on this page.Gender refers to the socially constructed characteristics of women and men – such as norms, roles and relationships of and between groups of women and men. — WHO
Strange. I thought it would be different for a gender-neutral society. A gender-neutral society would want to be blind to gender - not notice it - not refer to it - not make the distinction between genders (not use gender-specific pronouns). To be color-blind is to treat others equally regardless of their race. To be gender-blind is to treat people equally regardless of their gender.and you are resisting the idea that being 'gender blind' actually 'very often reinforces gender-based discrimination'. — fdrake
What is a stereotype of not the idea, or a belief, that a person has? Stereotypes don't exist independent of people's minds, so it would be an attack on a person's beliefs, or ideas. If you're an idealist, then you are your ideas. I think that there are a lot of people who don't integrate all of their ideas (metaphysical, political, scientific, moral, etc.) into a consistent whole, which is why we get inconsistencies across many different topics - something I have tried to point out but then my posts get deleted for being "off-topic".Well it is an attack on stereotypes, not on individuals. — unenlightened
Well, it wasn't in the form of a question. It did make a direct statement that "gender" hasn't been defined as anything coherent or consistent.I'm surprised that nobody has answered it, because I believe it is very simple. Perhaps you didn't ask it quite as directly before — andrewk
Thank you.'Gender' identifies with which of society's two standard sets of behavioural expectations the person most complies, or society expects them to comply.
Sex is biological. Gender is a societal expectation based on sex. — andrewk
What are some of the expectations of the United States culture that are enforced by laws? Don't we already have laws for the unequal treatment of anyone? What more do you want? It seems to me that by changing the way society expects different people to behave, you'd be changing society's gender (according to your definition).I agree with Simone de Beauvoir that gendered expectations are oppressive and that it is worth working to eradicate them. That will take a very long time, and will encounter resistance, but it is worth the effort. — andrewk
But I thought this was all about trying to not be rude and offensive and here you come along and say that it's okay to be rude and offensive. You're basically saying that people need to get over the idea of words being offensive and that we should be able to use words that we choose despite how others might feel about it. I couldn't agree more.Some people use 'gender' as a synonym for 'sex', and even prefer it because it sounds less rude. I think that is a mistake and, wherever possible refuse to fill in a field in a form marked 'gender' (or choose the 'prefer not to disclose' or 'indeterminate' option if there is one), while I am perfectly happy to indicate my sex. — andrewk
I think the way you're thinking about gender now is a mistake and the result of a mass delusion.Although I think it is a mistake, I confess that I made it for much of my life, before I became aware of the importance of the distinction. — andrewk
So in a gender-neutral society you would only enforce heterosexuals to use gender-neutral pronouns when referring to each other but when referring to a trans person we have to use gender specific pronouns? Isn't that inconsistent for a gender neutral society? It also sounds to me like you are pushing for special treatment, not equal treatment, of trans people.I would not presume to tell the person anything, as I am not in a position to understand their experience, much less give them advice. It has to be acknowledged that in some cases gender dysphoria of the sort you mention can come into conflict with de Beauvoir's vision of feminism, and this has caused some distress on both sides. So it behoves us to proceed carefully in areas that are vulnerable to that conflict. But I think it is possible to work to dismantle societal gender expectations without having to enter that conflict zone. — andrewk
Whats the difference? I've asked this several times. If was so easy and obvious then why can't anyone answer the question?I assume you mean 'sex' rather than 'gender' here. — andrewk
But a transgender woman (a man claiming to be a woman) does call those things feminine. It is the only way they know how to express their womanhood. Are you telling the trans person that those things are not characteristics of womanhood?The way that this conversation relates to him is that in a world in which gender stereotypes were not promoted, this male would be free to wear lipstick, dresses, play with dolls and other activities that gender stereotypes claim are 'feminine' without fear of being judged or otherwise looked-down on by others. — andrewk
So in a gender neutral school the girls will play on the varsity tackle football team or wrestling team with the boys?His ability to play American football well is one property that is part of a male gender stereotype (by the way, that stereotype no longer applies to English football (soccer) or Australian football, in which there are popular and prosperous female leagues), but implies nothing about other aspects of his behaviour. — andrewk
I think I have firm grasp of language as I have been able accumulate 1.7k posts without much of a problem. The only problem I seem to be having is with the way in which you are using a certsin term - "gender". I have defined it as the equivalence of sex. You have yet to provide a consistent definition for your use of the term.It isn't us who're misunderstanding gender, it's you who are misunderstanding language and normativity. — fdrake
Mine wasn't an aruement from hypocrisy. I'm saying that the application of his arguement is inconsistent. He's essentially preaching to the choir. Think of it this way: you go to the emergency room with a splinter in your finger and a bullet in your chest. The doctor thinks that the splinter is the more serious threat and completely ignores the bullet wound. Unenlightened simply isn't being intellectually honest or consistent.The "argument from hypocrisy" is not an argument, but rather a thinly veiled ad-hominem. Would making the argument in Saudi Arabia or Iran somehow change the argument? — Echarmion
No. Nature and the fact that you have a penis, which is different than a woman, who has a vagina, is what allows you all to be equally men.Gender neutrality allows that your linebacker, Stephen Hawking, unenlightened the gobshite weakling, and Bitter Crank the gay icon, are all equally men, and thus equally masculine, no matter how many women we are not stronger than, or how we choose to waste our time. — unenlightened
Read it again. That was just an example he gave as to how we should handle teaching gender-neutrality to children. The fact of it's existence should be discussed and mentioned, but placing value judgements on political ideologies (gender-neutrality is part of a political ideology) is not what teachers should be doing, and I've already mentioned several times that your presumption of "gender" is wrong - which is why we have nonsensical discussions like this.Nobody is suggesting teaching socialism the subject as Hanover implied. — Baden
His link said nothing about Karl Marx. I think you and un, are the extremists here. When you find yourself in a hole, stop digging.Right, I see, so you thought this conversation was about teaching Karl Marx to toddlers. — Baden
That is what the free market system is for. Make it an option for parents to try or not. It shouldn't be a requirement or even experimented with in the public school system.So, who is your foil here? Who is saying that gender-neutral schools are necessarily and unqualifiedly a good thing? What your interlocutors are attempting is more like exploring the grounds on which the subject could be meaningfully debated. What we're getting back in return is an attempt to shut things down on the basis of buzzwords like "authoritarian socialism" etc. So, maybe they represent progress. Maybe not. Shouldn't we explore how we would find the answer to that question? — Baden
Many of these behaviors are instilled in people before they get to grade school. It starts in the home. Your first few years of life are where you adopt your norms for the rest of your life... in a myriad of small ways, ignoring, ridiculing, one sex, and encouraging the other. By simply assuming that girls aren't usually as good at maths, or that they're not as interested, or that they won't need it, by not challenging such expressions when they are expressed by pupils. Again, one does not put the dominant ideology on the curriculum because it pervades the ethos of the school. One does not teach gender stereotypes because they pervade everything one teaches. Your maths question is silly, and I have given it far more notice than it deserves. — unenlightened
You need some perspective. If American culture is highly gendered and adversarial and the debate is overheated and ideological, then what would you call what would happen if you suggested Iran change their culture? There are far worse extremes in the treatment of women vs men in other cultures - differences that I would call unequal. American culture is one of the most open cultures on the planet. You seem to think that any questioning of your ideas is overheated and ideological (and silly).What I am wanting to contrast here is the American culture that seems to be highly gendered and gender prescriptive, and adversarial, with the playing down of gender differences in Sweden. It seems to me that the whole tone of the debate in the US is overheated and ideological, and is putting great pressure on folks to conform or else to rebel to an extreme. — unenlightened
How does one discover a unique aspect without relating it to the group? Even with DNA the uniqueness of the individual consists of usually a unique combination of traits that are shared in a population, or rarely a unique mutation, which is only found to be so by comparison with the group. That is to say, uniqueness is necessarily a position in a group, like a king in a country, or a runt in a litter. To say that I am unique is to say that I have X, and no one else has X, and it is only through the relation to everyone else that uniqueness can be seen. — unenlightened
Perhaps you have evidence to the contrary, but it does not seem to me from what I have read so far, that this sort of gender neutrality in education has resulted in much trauma or confusion about gender identity. Whereas, the politicised gender war taking place in America does seem more poisonous. To be specific, I would suggest that the conflict exemplified in the links above puts pressure onto children to conform to or else to rebel against gender stereotypes that may result in an increase in identification as transgender and so on. — unenlightened
I don't know about this site, but when a pregnant woman walks in and all the seats are taken do you get up to give the pregnant woman your seat? Men can't get pregnant so...?So how should women be treated differently? On this site too? — unenlightened
All you are talking about is the political ideology of traditionalism or conservatism being imposed on a culture from outside of the culture. How is this any different from a culture defining itself as being traditionalist and imposing that on it's own people (kind of like how the Republicans are in the U.S.)? A political ideology isn't right or wrong. It is just a method of living. Other cultures have imposed themselves on others for all of history. It the natural way of things.Remember, I was arguing that preserving a culture is fundamentally wrong, because it can only be successful through oppression of its individual members. If you consider what unenlightened and I have discussed, you'll see that I've been arguing that the group (or culture), is a category of classification created for some purpose. The effort to preserve the correctness of the categorization (preserve the culture) can only be successful through suppression of the individual members' will to diversify. You seemed to think that preserving the categorization for the purpose of scientific observation was somehow acceptable, and fundamentally different from preserving the categorization for the purpose of slavery. — Metaphysician Undercover
Yeah, like I said, it comes down to nature. Humans' use of an arbitrary system of categorization isn't very helpful. The hierarchical nature of life's speciation isn't arbitrary.When we define what it means to be a human being we refer to these aspects which are common to all of us. and not specific to any particular culture, or group of cultures. We are all in the group "human being" regardless of culture. — Metaphysician Undercover
I'm afraid this is not the settled unquestionable reality you think it is. On the contrary you have merely hidden the circularity from yourself. We decide who is human, and whoever we have decided is not human does not get to make the decision. And that used to include peasants, slaves, blacks, children, homosexuals, the disabled, and disfigured, and women, at various times and various places. there is still controversy on this board about when a clump of cells becomes a human. — unenlightened
I wasn't arguing anything. I was asking a question and you answered it with another. Are we performing mental gymnastics again? Just answer the question, MU.I don't see what you're arguing, if you are arguing anything. How would you expect to observe a culture without interacting? By spying through telescopes? How could that be respectful of the people's privacy? — Metaphysician Undercover
How do you know what it is you're preserving without first observing the culture in its primitive state PRIOR to any interference of another culture? Once you've interacted you've destroyed any chance at knowing what the culture is before any external interference changes it. But yeah, you and unenlightened can keep running around in circles if you want.But the subject we're discussing is not simple "observation". What we're discussing is "preserving the more primitive culture for the purpose of...". The subject is preserving the culture, not observing the culture.
All you've done now is changed the subject. You're not talking about preserving a culture any more. So what's the point in proceeding on this path? — Metaphysician Undercover
I didn't say that the senses are observations. I said that you make observations with your senses. That is the definition of observation - using your senses. Scientists performing their own experiments rely on their own observations to make sure theirs is the same as some other scientist who made a claim that they are now testing. They are testing the consistency of the claim of another by using their own observations.No, the senses are not observations. How do you define observation? Language is sometimes tricky. My point is, when scientists run experiments, they have to rely on observations of others, rather than their own observations. How many scientists experiment on themselves? — bogdan9310
This is nothing but straw-men, MU. Denying members of that culture the right to leave isn't just observation as I have been stating. Once you've done that you've gone above and beyond what I've talking about (observation).The problem is, that in order to maintain that culture for the purpose of observation it would require denying the members of that culture the right to leave that culture and join the culture of the observers instead. This would be the same sort of oppression forced on slaves, denying them the right to leave the culture of the enslaved to join instead the enslaving culture. — Metaphysician Undercover
Not if it is in one's nature to be cultured, or social, like it is for human beings.A mixture of two distinct things makes a mixture of two distinct things, each of the two distinct things forming a part of the mixture. It does not make the two distinct things one and the same thing. Mixing water and salt will produce a solution, but it does not make water and salt the same thing. — Metaphysician Undercover
What I am objecting to is the false identity which identifying the individual in relation to the existing culture, rather than identifying the individual according to the values and ideas which one holds, creates. — Metaphysician Undercover
Of course this all becomes an issue of moral principles. How would preserving a primitive culture for the purpose of science be fundamentally different from keeping slaves? — Metaphysician Undercover
Observation is not reliable. — bogdan9310
This is ridiculous.Having different observers, we could be looking at the same thing, and have 10 different observations. Observation is not reliable. — bogdan9310
It seems to me that a more advanced culture would want to preserve a more primitive one for the purpose of science - something a more primitive society might not understand.So where do you get this idea to "protect" an isolated culture? What would be the purpose of maintaining this distinct and isolated culture, as exemplified in the op? — Metaphysician Undercover
Then Namby-Pamby needs to be a human raised by machines and never see or make connections with humans and be taught about humans as if they are just another animal that engages in different types of social behaviors than other animals. Or better yet, Namby-Pamby needs to be a machine observing humans in an objective light. A human being could never obtain that sort of objectivity because every one of them is a product of their culture (and their DNA - and it is in our DNA to be a social creature (for most of us at least)).In terms of the theme of this thread, the Namby-Pamby wants above all to transcend his own culture, and to stand outside it in a judgement of perfect impartiality. — unenlightened
