CAMBRIDGE, Mass. [In 2012] —They rated the women on a sexual appeal scale of 1 to 10, including explicit descriptions of their physical traits and musings about the women’s preferred sexual positions.
“Doggy style,” they said of one. “The Triple Lindy” of another. Of another whom they perceived as “manly,” they wrote: “Not much needs to be said on this one, folks.”
This was not a presidential candidate caught in an unguarded moment. This was the men’s soccer team at Harvard, one of the most prestigious and privileged universities in the world, writing about counterparts on the women’s soccer team.
The University canceled the rest of the season for the men’s team — two games — and said the team, which was in striking distance of winning its conference and a spot in the N.C.A.A. tournament, must forfeit any postseason play.
They rated the women on a sexual appeal scale of 1 to 10, including explicit descriptions of their physical traits . . .
because the boys failed to restrain themselves, thus failing to meet the the virtue of character the school requires of its students. — Πετροκότσυφας
Right. If a red and blue-blooded Harvard man can't tell the difference between an '8' and a '6' on the female fuckability scale, then something is obviously wrong with him. Probably doesn't like women to start with. Fag alert. — Bitter Crank
I would not argue that women should be subjected to physical abuse, rape, domestic violence, and so forth. They should not. Everyone has a right to be safe in their persons, and not be subjected to assaults with impunity.
Speech is not assault [excepting slander, lying, and incitement--hate speech codes to the contrary]. Calling someone sexually attractive--or not attractive--is allowable, even if framed crudely. We regularly attack each other verbally for being stupid, moronic, imbecilic, jackasses, idiots, crooks, jerks, assholes, pricks, fairies, whores, old hags, and so on and so forth--and surprisingly, everyone survives. Maybe we don't like being called a cocksucking fairy, but it isn't a fatal wound.
The relationships of those with more power and less power is not going to be egalitarian, no matter how much social engineering is undertaken. — Bitter Crank
They might have ridiculed the men at meets. They might have organized a PR offensive. — Bitter Crank
I know I wouldn't like a group of women describing me in that way. — anonymous66
I agree with pretty much all of this, except that I'm not in favor of ANY speech restrictions. I'm a "free speech absolutist." — Terrapin Station
On a scale of careability, I rate this a zero. — Baden
Anyway, this isn't about Harvard or its students, its about grinding a boring old axe. — csalisbury
And I'm not in favor of social sanctions on speech, either, such as being fired just because you insulted your boss. — Terrapin Station
that is a good point. There is virtually no free speech at all in the workplace, and no free speech way short of insulting the boss. As it happens, many bosses are richly deserving of insult, but... — Bitter Crank
Has the PC culture gone out of control? I doubt it. — ssu
but I expect that Harvard would have exposed itself to loss or liability of some kind if it had done nothing — Ciceronianus the White
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