Why is wrong to preference the perspective that the majority of people have...?
— ZhouBoTong
Justice. — Banno
They have no idea what's going on. If I want to understand blindness would I just go to some random person who can see and tell them to explain it to me or should I actually go within the blind community? — BitconnectCarlos
I would rephrase in terms of the privileged being unable to see their privilege, — Banno
I don't think I have said anything that would disagree with this, but please point it out if I did :grimace:
You're not even trying. Come back when you want to learn. — Banno
they would just view them as broken and in need of fixing. — BitconnectCarlos
they would just view them as broken and in need of fixing.
— BitconnectCarlos
That perspective just seems dumb and detached from reality to me, and it certainly would not have any sort of supporting argument. Sorry you ever had to deal with it...
NOW, is me saying "sorry you had to deal with that" a type of pity or a declaration that you had "problems" that I did not?...what I mean is, isn't any feeling bad on my part an acknowledgement that "those people" (sorry, using super-discriminatory language to make the point clearer) are in some way worse-off than myself? If I feel bad, it implies that I am happy I am not that way...? — ZhouBoTong
That perspective just seems dumb and detached from reality to me, and it certainly would not have any sort of supporting argument. Sorry you ever had to deal with it...
But if I said "sorry you had to deal with that disability", would that be the problem I described above?
This is actually a surprisingly common attitude, at least where I come from. People frequently talk about aborting disabled fetuses, and in the 1920s-1930s in the US they would sterilize the disabled because they viewed them as a burden or a stain on the gene pool. — BitconnectCarlos
Less severe but still shitty example of things that I have dealt with as a person who stutters: — BitconnectCarlos
-People advising me not to go into a profession which involves speaking to the public, or even doing much speaking in general (this advice may be well-intentioned.) According to them I should basically just spend 8 hours a day, 5 days a week behind a desk talking to no one. — BitconnectCarlos
-Time constraints on presentations - say 5 minutes - where I am expected to convey as much information as a fluent speaker would in that time.
-Simply not being assigned responsibilities or roles despite everyone else getting them. For instance there was once a time where my entire class was assigned a part in the school play but I was not. This could be well-intentioned.... who knows. — BitconnectCarlos
The main thing here is that the implication is that, as a person who stutters, I should just try to get through life without speaking or really actually socializing. Although not as bad as sterilization or death, I'd say that this does constitute ableism even if well-intentioned. — BitconnectCarlos
It's just an awkward thing to say, because you really don't want to reduce people to just sympathy. The subtle implication in sympathy - especially in this case - is that you consider yourself above that person. Focus on something else. — BitconnectCarlos
Aren't there still countries trying to eradicate down's syndrome?
Are you over 50?
I think you would be surprised in schools today. It is the opposite attitude. EVERYONE can do ANYTHING.
Thanks for the explanations and applicable anecdotes :smile: .
I'll be 30 this year. — BitconnectCarlos
I feel it's kind of like a pendulum sometimes; sometimes the attitude is super positive and other times it's pretty cynical/realistic. Maybe we'll see it swing back in the other direction more to the realistic side soon. — BitconnectCarlos
I don't need you reminding me of my condition, nor do you score brownie points for coming up to me and expressing me how you're such a virtuous person who is good enough to feel pity. — BitconnectCarlos
The thing with pity is that men don't make friends with other men out of pity, nor do women fuck men out of pity either. — BitconnectCarlos
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