See, the first stage of nirvana is attained when you give up on your personal hopes and dreams, but this is incomplete, because even though your spirit is dead, the body still remains, so nirvana isn't completed until death. — Wosret
One can see the torture that one goes through when confronting one's self with having/maintaining a high sense of self-esteem. — Question
I propose that self-esteem satisfies a sort of drive just as food satisfies hunger. — R-13
One could argue that narcissism, which I do understand as basic human "drive," is sometimes more powerful than hunger. Humans will risk their lives over honor, reputation, status concerns. Weight-lifters kill themselves with steroids. Anorexics are of course the perfect example of narcissism overpowering hunger.Surely self-esteem is not as important a drive as hunger? Would you say then that self-esteem or some form of narcissism must always exist in every human being? — hunterkf5732
In reality it is affected by the persons desire and ego, and a persons inability to accept. — eb0t
Self esteem is how much you like yourself. — Ashwin Poonawala
In the old days, humility was a virtue, and pride a sin - so it was the opposite situation where one could be proud of one's humility, but humiliated by one's pride. This is a stable self regulating system, and much to be preferre — unenlightened
Depends on which old days, of course. — mcdoodle
But if pride is a virtue and shame is a vice, as promoted by certain cod psychological quarters, the feedback destabilises the personality, and leads towards manic depression, the overachiever's disease. — unenlightened
A bit of point missing going on here. One of the right things of which one should be proud was not 'being proud'. One of the things one should not love oneself for is loving oneself. — unenlightened
A bit of point missing going on here — unenlightened
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