I've also noticed a similar refusal of acceptance in my relationships. When people show me real affection, I feel a confusing mix of anger and sadness. It feels like an unbreakable barrier. Love can't get in, and I can't let it out.
So, ummm, how does one go about dealing with this? — csalisbury
When people show me real affection, I feel a confusing mix of anger and sadness.
The sinners are punished for their sin, but in a manner that the sin itself is the punishment. In hell, they simply replay the sin in its most naked, repetitive form. — csalisbury
I find in this notions of self-acceptance and self-forgiveness. A mature adult comes around to understanding who he or she is, and, perhaps with some difficulty, accepting himself as he is. This runs to understanding the extent of difference - to some extent. That is, difference points to uniqueness. It's useless to want to be other than you are, not because you are different, but because you are unique. Of course there are things you can change.... — tim wood
All this is how I explain to myself how guys deficient in every respect in comparison to my own glory always got the girl - I just didn't understand myself well enough to assert my self. It's about becoming a somebody - at least insofar as a person can both speak and answer for himself, even to God. — tim wood
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