Ok first of all, I am not exactly sure if I placed this in the right thread, if not, feel free to move it.

Me and my friend recently had an argument about opinions on how to treat someone who is extremely hammered.

I made a new boyfriend who is sweet when he is sober, but when he is drunk he turns a bit crazy. Before I go along how crazy he gets, let me just point out that I have been on 8 dates with him so far. 6 of which were times when he was sober and 2 where he was totally drunk. Moreover, he is not an addict. He only drank on two occasions which had an interval of 2 weeks in between and he didn't drink at during this interval, I know this because he goes to work and meetings and we chat on a daily basis. He claims that he doesn't have a history of alcohol addiction. He is more of a workaholic than an alcoholic based on how successful he is at work.

Anyway, he doesn't measure his drinking. On the two occasions he was drinking with me he orders excessively. This results to him acting wild and beyond the pale.
He becomes very sloppy with his stuff like wallet and phones, he gets a bit aggressive with sex but not to the point where I could classify it as rape but just stubborn, although he does listen to me when I tell him to stop. He urinates in public, he walks around wearing a thong in public spaces.

I have been hammered before and did crazy things, albeit not to that extent. But I understand what it's like and how you absolutely have no control over yourself, which is why I don't blame him. I tend not to identify someone with their drunk persona, being drunk skews your perception and behavior. It's just poision not just the physical health but mental health. So you get to do things you wouldn't consider doing. When one is drunk, their irrational self prevails over their rational selves.

Since I understand all of this, I decided to take care of him and his stuff. But because I also learned my lesson of what being excessively drunk can do, I also warned him the next day as he sobered up. I told him he needs to measure his drinking next time, if his sober self was still as stubborn as his drunk self then that would be it between us. He respected me and told me he will. My friend opposes my opinion, she told me if she was in my place she would have left him and went back home. She tends to percieve a drunk person as who they really are but honestly I think she's wrong. Someone being drunk might represent their deep irrational thoughts but it overlooks the rational part of their brain. When they are drunk, they are technically intoxicated. I told her that it was wrong to leave him and that since I stayed there and took care of him that he might be grateful that I did a nice thing to him. During the times he is sober he has never done anything crazy. He was a respectful man, and he treated me with chivalry.

I was wondering what is your take on this?