So how do people stay endlessly fascinated? How does one master the capacity to stay engaged? I believe this is a topic that demands more attention. — Benj96
Is it possible to be fascinated by everything? Is it possible to sustain a lifestyle of total curiosity? — Benj96
When I think of curiosity people a few images come to mind, namely;
Children - they seem to be boundless in what they can find interesting. I suppose this is because for them most things are novel experiences. They can be fascinated with a puddle, or some mud, or a ladybug climbing a piece of grass — Benj96
Children can also be relentlessly , impossibly bored. I have never been so bored as an adult as I was as a child. I think that’s no coincidence. Different moods and attitudes imply and are based on complementary ones. — Joshs
but few people have the time or the financial independence to take all things to the max. — Tom Storm
What I also like to see addressed, maybe in another thread, is how to lead one who does not want to be lead? — James Riley
Sense? — tim wood
As for boredom. That may be a severe parasympathetic state - too much resting and digesting - no fear or motivation to change your current state and the mind goes crazy without stimulus - see “sensory deprivation experiments”) — Benj96
I found your answer very insightful and enlightening.
I had never considered how wonder persists despite receiving answers to the questions that perhaps elicited it in the first place. If anything it is as tho confirmation of the basis for wonder by receiving answers or insights encourages it to persist. As it does in me writing this response having learned a lot from what you replied with. — Benj96
But it’s incredibly difficult. And each person I think likely requires a different trigger to put the purpose or “soul” back into their pursuit of an existence. If we could only create some formula of how to engage ones intrinsic passions - we would be on the right track. — Benj96
I also agree that extremes do tend to provoke a consequential reverse reaction - pivoting to the other extreme.
The question then seems to be “how does one stabilise themselves?” The so called “Goldilocks zone” of not too happy not too sad instead of a tumultuous rollercoaster of ups and downs.
Any thoughts? — Benj96
If life bores you, risk it. Me — James Riley
Maslow (psychologist turned philosopher) talked a lot about your 'intrinsic passions', and I highly recommend any of his books to your friend. His first book is The Psychology of Being is an easy read and was groundbreaking at the time. That book explores the extremes of our human thought process (cognition and values), from the rather bleak side of the human condition, to the highest side of the human experience in concepts: — 3017amen
The loss of interest in something is a necessary, meaningful part of the creativity cycle, just as important as curiosity. — Joshs
Do you think maybe the fast paced working life of living in a society/ collective may be propagated by the entertainment industry for this reason? — Benj96
Media may be a placating us or distracting us. Who knows? — Benj96
We don’t have the time to explore things in depth because of all these swirling obligations and responsibilities. So we let media do it for us. — Benj96
when we consider that we have a limited span of attention then technically every “new curiosity” is the abolishment of a previous one to a state of indifference or boredom or lack of desire to continue pursuing it. — Benj96
Maybe we should teach kids how to be better parents/teachers so their kids, when they finally arrive at school, are better leaves and flowers. — James Riley
I'm afraid I've digressed from my original question regarding leadership, — James Riley
Having none of my own, I am naturally an expert on these matters, learning especially from the flaws and failures of others in practice. But the only thing I've got here is that leadership presupposes that the led are sufficiently selves in themselves to be led. And with children - even as old as seventy - that presupposition is and must be suspect. Now I'll throw some words around: that before there can be leading, or even teaching, there must be parenting, and I confess that the more I have thought about that, the less I got.I was thinking of the parent child relationship. — James Riley
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