Someone make me feel good and tell me that I would be a great philosopher please? — Question
Working at a nursery for minimum wage while supported by mom isn't ideal. It's pathetic. — Hanover
Be careful - seeming lack of ambition can be the mask for the greatest of ambitions. The thing with great ambitions (unlike puny ambitions) is that they cannot be fulfilled very easily (and it's stupid to try when failure is guaranteed), so people having them, often seem to be doing nothing from the outside - not even attempting to do something. In Chinese culture there has always been a word for such a person - they are called sleeping dragons... silently waiting, unknown to anyone, for the opportune moment. It's not known when the opportune moment will arrive... life doesn't change gradually, life changes in bursts. One day you're a no one, tomorrow you're a God. Look at Trump - in just a second he became from clown into President, while others have been laboring their entire lives trying to do that and failing. Hitler suddenly arose out of nothing and became the supreme leader of Nazi Germany. Steve Jobs was a druggy in India, before he was CEO of Apple. Ghandi was just a simple lawyer in South Africa before he became the Father of India. Nobody heard of Jesus when he was 25! Success comes fast when it comes. And one only loses it when they rush after it.Your lack of ambition is clear by your satisfaction in a peaceful life — TimeLine
I never did anything by taking risks. I can probably say that I've never taken a single risk in my life. People from the outside may think I took risks, but in truth, I never did. Even my driving exam, people around me were pushing me to go and take it after I finished my driving school, but I couldn't... what was the point of going and failing? I waited for one year in fact, just when my driving school was about to expire, until I finally took it. Everyone was laughing at me and calling me coward - even my mother at that time - because I wasn't like others to go and fail time and time again. But I'm the one who passed it from the first time - unlike some other people who took it even over 10 times till they passed. Only losers risk - winners never risk, that's why they never lose ;) :Pis dangerous in the long term and would mean that you are one to never take risks and challenge or push yourself, clear by this post with your neediness of others. — TimeLine
Yeah not to worry - in 30 years time, when I become President, I'll also write a letter to her, telling her how she left the man who was about to become the leading man of the nation. Then we'll see who the real loser is. :PThis could stay with your forever and one day you'll find yourself sitting on a couch with your elderly mother, a box of KFC chicken and a letter from your now ex-wife telling you that she's left you for Harold. — TimeLine
I have a motto in life - it says "Forget winning, make sure you never lose" - on top of that, I have another - "Don't listen to the masses" - recovering from loss is more difficult than winning itself. Avoiding loss is always a priority over winning.Life is about taking risks, losing everything, gaining, crying, laughing, shocking people, shocking yourself, as long as it is all within the constraints of morality. — TimeLine
Who cares? Really, who cares? Once you realise that no one cares, not even you, you can renounce whatsoever is troubling you. Really, if you never leave the walls of your house, until you die, has your life been wasted? Absolutely not - when you die, you die, that's the end, doesn't matter that you were President or you were the beggar on the corner of the street. Relax! The real secret is that only the man or woman who has completely renounced winning the world, only that man or woman can actually turn around and win it - everyone else has already lost before they've even tried. Their ambition has killed them. Only those who have conquered their ambitions can fulfil them - it's a paradox, but it is true.Be passionate and courageous otherwise you will never really understand philosophy and, you will never really live either. — TimeLine
You're not stressed because you have no real responsibility or accountability. Worst you can do is damage a plant.Actually, its a very rewarding job! And, I don't come home stressed and angry about dealing with assholes and the such. Living with mother isn't bad, I enjoy it. It was hard when I was younger and enamored with doing a whole wide range of things and such as moving to a different country and bla bla bla. — Question
Sure, lash out when I tell you to get to work.But, you know, living in a retirement home might be what awaits you given that you're so against being dependent on someone or something.
Oh yeah, this unscrupulous prick is back :-} And what are you Hanover, pray tell me? You're supporting yourself, but what use is that? There's nothing great about that - even the taxi driver does that. You have settled for a mediocre life - you'll probably never be Prime Minister, President, a great writer, a famous artist, or anything great. Just another taxi driver supporting himself ;)I think you should get a real job so that you can support yourself and not live with your mother. Where's your father who ought to be telling you this? — Hanover
Let me say that again, you're no different than a taxi driver. People with big ambitions aren't satisfied with petty things. What you call great - supporting yourself - is just another petty thing. I think you should be ashamed of yourself.It's pathetic. Let me say that again. It's pathetic — Hanover
I'm at a crossroads. — Question
Good - time is one's biggest asset! One should only start taking big risks when their time is running out, that's when it can start paying off. Until then, slow down with the risks - you have more to lose and less to gain.I'm still young enough to go back to college and get a degree in philosophy. — Question
Okay so that's what you have to address. Look for ways to increase your self esteem. Learn something - it can be anything - choose a skill. Learn it, and become the best in it from everyone you know. Initially you'll feel like no way you can learn it. But you can - remember your most important asset - time. You have a lot of time. You don't have to learn it today. But if you practice it every day for 2 years, you're going to be an expert, like it or not. I called myself an expert on web-development and database management before I'd even designed my own website/database! >:O Most experts out there are fakes to begin with. People put on their CVs that they speak German because they did one semester in school - they can barely speak 5 words in it. It's actually pathetic - they're all damned liars. I have a friend who is a qualified lawyer, but he's actually completely incapable on legal matters (I know because I've tried to use him, even paid him, and he's still failed me - I had to learn the law myself!). And yet he practices law >:O ! I've seen senior engineers who know fuck all about how a building works - I worked under them in fact >:O The truth is most people don't even have a clue what they're doing. It's all a show of appearances - it's not hard to start winning if you stop being tricked by the appearances. The appearances are just there to prevent you from getting involved in the activity - to make you think it's too hard. Ignore the appearances, I know it's hard.However, I have low self-esteem — Question
That's not a bad idea - however - an even better idea is learning a few skills which pay more. Anything in IT pays a lot, and you can do it from a computer :P If you don't like that, think about practical skills that you could build on that you already have. Go to evening courses - there's evening courses for how to operate gas boilers to how to sell real estate to God knows what. Focus on educating and building your skills.I was thinking about getting a second job, paying off my debts and possibly returning to college once I build up a better work ethic and study habits. — Question
I'd say get enough money, pay your debts off, and only then do it.I have no way of telling whether I would like it enough to go the whole nine yards with BA->Masters->PhD. By the end of it I would be naturally in deep debt, but, I suppose a very happy and proud person? — Question
"If you can have a wife" is obviously answered by yes - I've seen some pretty darn strange things that would be a lot more stranger than a man like you having a wife. I think - to be entirely fucking honest with you - that you stand to have a better wife than most men out there, because in your aloneness you have developed the quality of spirit that could attract such a soul.I do not see myself ever having a wife, although the thoughts do return and bother me on the subject. Still thinking if I can have a wife with my current lifestyle or even if I realize the dreams in the OP. — Question
'Pussyfoot' is a meaningless concept based on the mistaken notion that people are under some obligation to achieve big things with impacts that reverberate around the world. I blame this notion on the Parable of the Talents, which I find one of the meanest, most vindictive parables in the new testament (it's as if it were written by a Trump speechwriter or a Rand acolyte, although I doubt Trump has ever read it).Am I just being a pussyfoot or should I stick to my very rewarding minimum wage job at a nursery (which I find ideal) and live happily with my mother? It's not a bad life, sleep wake work eat sleep, repeat. — Question
Also, there is nothing wrong with living with your mother. — andrewk
Perhaps we should remind ourselves what I said to Hanover in a thread sometime ago - he frequently thinks he's at the pub talking BS with folks who can barely string two words together... And I said a few more harsh things to him back then, and even got put on notice by the mods >:O - and Hanover put me on ignore ever since, saying that I'm free to think it's because of my greatness if that makes me feel better! >:O What a loser...I lived with my mom for a year and a half, at 22/23, and had v bad self-esteem, and some dude who thinks its HILARIOUS to talk about how great they are telling me I was pathetic wouldn't have helped a bit. — csalisbury
had v bad self-esteem — csalisbury
I have low self-esteem — Question
Society imposed some fictitious rule on people that "man" ought move ought from "mother". I suspect this has to do with capitalism, individualism, and consumerism, along with a plethora of unrestricted wants and desires from the daughter or son spewing out. — Question
No, don't.Anyway, listen to Hanover or Charles Murray — Emptyheady
Most philosophy departments also require their majors to take an upper level symbolic logic course. If you're not good at advanced logic, or if the professor is terrible, then expect to find this class highly frustrating and nerve-wracking. — Thorongil
Man, these poor philosophy majors would never survive in a math department, let's be real...first-order logic is not going to kill you. — The Great Whatever
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