If two people have headaches there is no way of comparing whether both of them are having the same type of pain.
This is a basic problem first of even knowing whether similar/the same phenomena are experienced the same way because the experience is private and only accessible first-person.
Following on from this problem, there are many things that people experience first-person where we don't know if they are referring to the same phenomena such as:
Memory. Belief. Desire. Thought. Dreams. Just any experience that is rich and detailed including historical recollections of an event. Values. And so on. — Andrew4Handel
Does this mean we are closed off from others in some kind of profound way? — Andrew4Handel
I don't see this as a problem. The act of seeing other people as people requires we make a metaphorical connection with them. We intuitively, empathetically recognize they experience the world in ways very similar to the way we do. Without that recognition we could not even communicate. So, is my headache the same as theirs? Are my memories, beliefs, desires, thought, and dreams the same? Maybe. We can ask questions to figure that out. — T Clark
I don't see this as a problem. The act of seeing other people as people requires we make a metaphorical connection with them. We intuitively, empathetically recognize they experience the world in ways very similar to the way we do. — T Clark
...neurotypical and autistic people are having different experiences and it is a failure of communication.
I don't know if feeling comfortable around other people means you are sharing experiences. I am not convinced it overcomes a barrier in true knowledge of someone else's subjective life. — Andrew4Handel
Empathy is a controversial issue because it usually involves the alleged ability to imagine someone else's experiences.
I think this may be possible in a few cases but:
Can you imagine having HIV or Cancer if you don't have them? Can you imagine being a serial killer? Can you imagine being the opposite sex? Being (pregnant/menstruating). Being gay/straight/bi? — Andrew4Handel
To 'imagine' doesn't require 100% match of another's experience. — Tom Storm
If two people have headaches there is no way of comparing whether both of them are having the same type of pain. — Andrew4Handel
Migraine
pounding
pulsating
“sick” headaches (due to associated nausea)
throbbing sensation
Tension headache
squeezing
tightness
vise-like
Cluster headache
horrible
severe
suicide headache
worst pain ever
Indomethacin-sensitive headaches
jabbing
jolts
lightning bolts
shock-like
stabbing — Here's How to Accurately Describe Your Headache to a Doctor
No, they are not. All such phenomena are public: we can and do talk about them. The Private Language argument applies here.This is a basic problem first of even knowing whether similar/the same phenomena are experienced the same way because the experience is private and only accessible first-person. — Andrew4Handel
f two people have headaches there is no way of comparing whether both of them are having the same type of pain. — Andrew4Handel
I feel that people's imagination can be wrong and they impose a false representation onto someone else. It could be they diminish or exaggerate someone's experiences. — Andrew4Handel
As I said in my last post I think imagining someone else's experience may just be revisiting your own. — Andrew4Handel
In order to know what a pulsating headache is like you have to have had one. — Andrew4Handel
You won't have experienced it, sure, but it doesn't follow that you know nothing about what it is like.Likewise if I read a list of pregnancy and menstruation symptoms I would still not know what the experience was like because I am male bodied. I can't experience having a uterus. — Andrew4Handel
I am comfortable in the notion that my pain/experience is similar enough to other people's pain/experience — Tom Storm
293. If I say of myself that it is only from my own case that I know what the word “pain” means a must I not say that of other people too? And how can I generalize the one case so irresponsibly?
Well, everyone tells me that he knows what pain is only from his own case! – Suppose that everyone had a box with something in it which we call a “beetle”. No one can ever look into anyone else’s box, and everyone says he knows what a beetle is only by looking at his beetle. a Here it would be quite possible for everyone to have some- thing different in his box. One might even imagine such a thing con- stantly changing. a But what if these people’s word “beetle” had a use nonetheless? a If so, it would not be as the name of a thing. The thing in the box doesn’t belong to the language-game at all; not even as a Something: for the box might even be empty. a No, one can ‘divide through’ by the thing in the box; it cancels out, whatever it is.
That is to say, if we construe the grammar of the expression of sensation on the model of ‘object and name’, the object drops out of consideration as irrelevant. — Wittgenstein, Philosophical Investigations
I was shown a copy of what is in your box. — Michael
Even if you can refer to it, and that is not clear, it does not refer to anything someone else can refer to, so it drops out of the conversation.Irrespective of how I use the word, it refers to and means something to me. — Michael
You can't show me a copy of your pain, or your red qual. — Banno
Even if you can refer to it, and that is not clear, it does not refer to anything someone else can refer to, so it drops out of the conversation. — Banno
If two people have headaches there is no way of comparing whether both of them are having the same type of pain. — Andrew4Handel
Does this mean we are closed off from others in some kind of profound way? — Andrew4Handel
When I talk about the beetle in my box my words are referring to the thing inside my box. — Michael
What I don't seem able to do is give a similar account of what using a word privately to refer to your own private thought might be. — Isaac
But if you can talk about it to others, then it is by definition not private.
And so, since we are talking about it, it's not happening only inside your head. — Banno
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