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  • Disambiguating the concept of gender

    You're getting a little speculative there.
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  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    Wanting to wear a dress and high heels is specific to a certain culture.Harry Hindu

    True.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender

    I've come to the same conclusion. Being trans does not change a person into the opposite sex. It's just a person behaving as if they're the opposite sex.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    I suppose we have to determine whether or not the rate of regret is sufficiently high to warrant erring on the side of caution.Michael

    We now know that gender dysphoria can be transient. This quote is from Dr David Bell, the psychiatrist who worked with trans kids and eventually was instrumental in reforming the NHS approach youth transition:

    It is vital to distinguish between gender dysphoria and transgender . The former refers to childhood disturbance in relation to the sexed body, the latter is an umbrella term and is easily used to foreclose exploration

    Gender dysphoria is most commonly transient, as evidenced by the high proportion who desist, its socially contagious nature in teenage girl peer groups, and by the testimony of large numbers of detransitioners. Its common comorbidities suggest that it is probably one contemporary means of expressing adolescent distress, alongside depression, anxiety, self-harm and eating disorders, among young people with histories of childhood trauma and those on the autistic spectrum. For these children, a therapeutic approach which is neutral and exploratory is essential, locating their gender dysphoria in the context of their personal histories, and recognising that it may be a temporary expression of their wider distress .
    — Dr. David Bell
    here

    There are other reasons people detransition. In general, anyone with mental health issues should spend a lot of time in therapy before transitioning. For some, transitioning is basically running away from their problems.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    Unfortunately for trans people, it is just as much constructed by themselves as it is by society at large, and those views seem to constantly conflict each other.Tzeentch

    And that's another reason transitioning should only be for mature adults. A fair number of detransitioned youths say they thought they could actually change to the opposite sex. They learned through experience post-transition, that you can't actually do that.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender

    There's a popular subreddit called r/transpassing. People put their pictures up and ask for advice about how well they're passing, and what they mean by this is that they want strangers to think they're biological women (or biological men.) The notion that gender is a construct is true. That fact doesn't have much to do with what's actually going on.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    This is one of the reasons liberals have been having a tough time in elections and it's just wrong. Trans men aren't women. They're men pretending to be women.RogueAI

    The UK Supreme Court overturned that Scottish law. Only biological women can fill the 50% quota for seats on the public boards.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    I buy that gender and sex refer to two different thingstim wood

    I do too. It's when the trans activist says biology should be ignored that the community balks.

    The Scots would have apparently been willing to vote a dude into a woman's seat, but would they allow a woman into a man's?tim wood

    A transgender man could have taken a man's seat. Post UK Supreme Court ruling, those seats have to be divided by biology.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    Yes. I think most Westerners would agree that women are defined biologically and men identifying as women are still men. It's a fiction that is tolerated because some people really believe they are in the wrong body and identifying as another gender helps alleviate their gender dysphoria, and there's no harm in going along with it, except in cases like women's prisons, sports, and things like this law you referenced about women getting 50% of the seats on boards.RogueAI

    I agree. I think the trans activists were thinking of a quasi-philosophical view of gender that didn't make it out to the population at large.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    By community, do you mean online? Or the circles I move in? Or the people in my neighborhood? Or as an American?RogueAI

    In the West, would you say most people are thinking of biology when they say "woman?"
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender

    I am, I just don't have the hyper-literal thing. You seem to.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    So only biological women can satisfy the 50% rule, right?
    — frank

    Yes.
    Michael

    Autism spectrum?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    hose seats on the boards were reserved for women and men who identify as women are not women.RogueAI

    Do you see this as the most common view in your community?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender

    So only biological women can satisfy the 50% rule, right?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    No. It includes those with a GRC and is why the issue was raised. Scottish Women Ltd argued that that inclusion is contrary to the EA 2010 and that the Scottish parliament does not have the authority to contradict UK law.Michael

    So the outcome is that transgender women can't take the place of biological women for the purposes of the 50% women rule. Right?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    It would be very fitting if instead of reducing the issue to bathrooms, we talked about whether the women were right. Was the UK Supreme Court right? Were women's rights endangered by substituting transgender women for biological women?
    — frank

    The women were right.
    RogueAI

    Could you explain why you think so?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    1. Women ought make up at least 50% of the board
    2. The term "woman" in (1) includes anyone with a female GRC
    Michael

    Did you mean "excludes" there?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    I see where you're coming from. So, it became a rights issue because a group of women objected and yes, the public should pay attention. But I don't think there is an absolute answer as to whether they were right or wrong. The situation is contingent on the objection which is contingent on the cultural context, which is contingent on local cultural values. If this group hadn't objected, and perhaps in another country there might not have been an objection, this issue wouldn't have arisen and wouldn't have needed to. It's culturally conditioned and would seem, in this case, to be very difficult to universalize. That's just my take. I'm not deep into this and I have no objection to attempts to argue for either side. It could be interesting.Baden

    Well on behalf of the Scottish women, thanks for at least acknowledging the nature of their complaint. Other participants have made it clear they couldn't care less.

    The world in general is following the UK lead on transgender issues. The US is in the process of following the British pullback on transitioning youths. My guess is that something like the Scottish issue will come up in the US eventually. For now, we're as woke as you Irish.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    Part of what constitutes values are balances of rights and these are intertwined with socially determined definitions. I know cis-women, for example, who would virulently object to excluding trans women from womanhood and consider it a (trans)woman's right to use the woman's bathroom as much as a woman's. And even if we accept your premise and speak of biological women's rights in opposition to trans-women's rights, we still identify a conflict of rights in the overall sphere of human rights between some* biological women who object to certain things---e.g. trans women using their bathrooms---and trans women. So, I think we are indirectly speaking about rights just by discussing who is affected in what way and so on.Baden

    The recent UK ruling didn't start with concern over bathrooms. That's just the issue that took over this thread. It was about public boards, which administer government services. Those boards were supposed to guarantee seats for women at 50%. A group of Scottish women objected to transwomen taking seats reserved for women.

    I imagine the seats were supposed to be reserved for women so that a female voice would influence the government's decisions. The Scottish women publicly stated that they believed that filling seats reserved for women with transgender women was a threat to women's rights.

    Whether one agrees with these women, or not, when a bunch of women complain that women's rights are endangered, the public ought to pay attention. The UK government did pay close attention and ruled in their favor: that when the seats were guaranteed to women, the point was that they should be reserved for biological women.

    It would be very fitting if instead of reducing the issue to bathrooms, we talked about whether the women were right. Was the UK Supreme Court right? Were women's rights endangered by substituting transgender women for biological women?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    do you think they felt that way?
    — frank

    I don't know, I'm not a mind reader.
    Michael

    That's a despicable thing to say.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    But when it comes to something like bathrooms, it’s hard to see how person A using a bathroom affects person B’s rights. One person using a private cubicle to take a piss has no impact on anyone else.Michael

    The ruling was about seats on public boards. Should seats that were guaranteed to women be given to trans women? The women in Scotland said no. Why do you think they felt that way?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    I think it's just old fashioned misogyny.Malcolm Parry

    I honestly don't get it.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    (I only interjected really to make the point that the important difference seems to be one of cultural values not what social reality as defined by social institutions is currently telling us.)Baden

    What about women's rights? Nobody even wants to mention the issue that brought on the recent UK ruling. Aren't women's rights enough of a concern to even talk about it?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    I didn’t say that.

    I said that I don’t know of any UK law that dictates which bathrooms people can use.

    The recent UK Supreme Court ruling is only that the words “sex”, “man”, and “woman” as used in section 11 of the Equality Act 2010 are referring to biological sex, biological men, and biological women. The implications of that ruling are not entirely clear, and the interim guidance issued by the EHRC that you referenced is just that - interim guidance - and not statute.
    Michael

    Right. I get the feeling you don't really want to face the consequences of this ruling.
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    I guess I don't understand how transgender people could be restricted wrt restaurants, shops, hospitals, or shelters, but that this wouldn't apply to bathrooms. If you go to a gym, aren't the toilets in the changing rooms?

    On 25 April, the EHRC released updated guidance in line with the ruling, declaring trans women to be "biological men" and trans men to be "biological women". The guidance applied to any school, workplace, sporting body, publicly accessible service (such as restaurants, shops, hospitals, or shelters), and any association of 25 people or more. The guidance stated that while trans women and trans men should be barred from facilities matching their gender, they can also be restricted from facilities matching their sex, and that only providing mixed-sex facilities could constitute discrimination against women. It did, however, say that trans people should not be left without any facilities to use. The guidance also stated that transgender men and women should be barred from gay men's spaces and lesbian spaces respectively.[81][82][83]

    In response to the ruling, the Scottish Parliament Corporate Body announced on 9 May that all toilet facilities in Holyrood designated as male or female-only would now be interpreted as meaning biological sex, and that a bank of three existing toilets in the public area of the building would be designated as a gender-neutral facility.[96]
    wikipedia

    But if you look at that article, this originally came up because women were guaranteed places on "public boards" (which sounds like what Americans call local councils?) The UK ruling says this does not apply to transgender women. So it would be unreasonable for you to say that the UK, in general, focuses on gender to the exclusion of biology. It does not.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    The ruling is just that it is not illegal for a transgender man to be excluded from a space that is marketed as being for biological men. That's not the same as saying either a) that it is illegal for a transgender man to use a space marketed as being for biological men or b) that men's bathrooms are only for biological men.Michael

    1. UK law does not guarantee access to bathrooms based on gender.

    2. Trans people can be excluded from use of bathrooms that align with their gender (in the UK)

    3. UK law is contrary to your values.

    Correct?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    No. There's a nightclub that I sometimes go to where all the toilets are unisex. There's no law that dictates who can use which bathrooms.Michael

    The BBC and the Guardian say biology dictates use of gender designated bathrooms in the UK.

    US hospitals also have unisex toilets.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    So what good reasons are there for saying that Bathroom A should only be for biological males and that Bathroom B should only be for biological females?Michael

    It's the law in the UK, isn't it?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    despite its common congruence with biological sex they are distinct things.Michael

    Sure. I don't have a problem with that. I don't see gender as being all that significant in the way I treat people though. Biology does make a big difference.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    Okay, not really sure what the purpose of this line of questioning was supposed to be?Michael

    I was just thinking about what Malcolm said. I don't treat women differently than men for the most part. The only time it really shows up is in dating and intimacy. There's a huge difference between having sex with a woman and with a trans-woman, that being that the real woman can have an orgasm. With the transwoman, it's just me?

    The point is that in the one way it really makes any difference, there's a huge difference.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    If they’re attractive and have had bottom surgery, sure.Michael

    I think you're probably rare.
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    Usually just spending time with friends and it just happens one night.Michael

    Could you see it just happening with a trans woman?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    I don’t ask anyone out on a date.Michael

    How do you get laid?
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  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    Would you ask a transwoman out on a date?
  • Disambiguating the concept of gender

    A black person isn't trying to escape either kind of recognition. A black person says:

    1. recognize the biological truth that I'm human, just like you.
    2. recognize the social construction of blackness, and notice your own latent assumptions about me because I fit that category. Now refer back to 1.

    The trans woman is saying:

    1. ignore the biological facts, that I'm a man
    2. treat me as the social construction I elected.

    There was a time when I tried to understand what the trans-woman is saying. At this point, my answer is this: I'll treat you as a human. I'll avoid using pronouns, because I've got other things on my mind than how you want to be addressed. . As for sports and restrooms, biology is important in both cases. Be prepared to engage according to your biology.
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  • Disambiguating the concept of gender
    This is the part you're not getting. Trans activists fucked up. They went too fast without research to show their approach was beneficial. They did more harm than good. Read the whole article this quote comes from. What Bell is saying is exactly the same thing a number of American clinic whistle blowers said.


    It is vital to distinguish between gender dysphoria and transgender . The former refers to childhood disturbance in relation to the sexed body, the latter is an umbrella term and is easily used to foreclose exploration

    Gender dysphoria is most commonly transient, as evidenced by the high proportion who desist, its socially contagious nature in teenage girl peer groups, and by the testimony of large numbers of detransitioners. Its common comorbidities suggest that it is probably one contemporary means of expressing adolescent distress, alongside depression, anxiety, self-harm and eating disorders, among young people with histories of childhood trauma and those on the autistic spectrum. For these children, a therapeutic approach which is neutral and exploratory is essential, locating their gender dysphoria in the context of their personal histories, and recognising that it may be a temporary expression of their wider distress .
    David Bell