choose to define a life/person as a thing — A disturbed person
why not? sounding peculiar doesn't mean refutable. In fact, it's even more consistent to treat every "what" as from the same unique ingredient which you can name it whatsoever a thing, a thought or even an ahah. So life as an abstract thing is perceivable.
Does this mean that all of this is me? — A disturbed person
you have gone too far by this assumption if you are not accepting there are others than yourself. At least your clothes are not yourself by any sane means even when you are "in" them someway.
there is no limit — A disturbed person
Nope, there is one way to know the relativeness, not rigorous but easy to exercise: without you if it is still what it is, then it is not you. Now this in turn is much more delicate and profound than it appears. For example, your hair when cut off, or your tooth...are they you? we can have longer debates over that and it will lead to interesting scenarios.
If I took enough painkillers and looked the other way and someone cut my finger, it would make no difference to the mind weather of not my finger is cut. — A disturbed person
yeah, this is one of the interesting scenarios.
Similar to the Heap Paradox: how many straws to make a heap? it's completely subjective. Similarly what are all the things that make you who you are (or what you are)? Also somehow subjective because it's overly complicated.
There may also be some plausibility in the reason that most of the thoughts throughout a section of a life can choose to access the same piece of information from the memory part of the brain. I don't think this is important either as the same could be said for all thoughts that are on the internet, but you don't see helping some of these thoughts as self interest if you are currently on the internet. — A disturbed person
I don't follow
is sufficient enough to say that they really are me — A disturbed person
in usual sense but not sufficient. How is sufficient is again subjective.
So why would the fact that I feel like I am my life, despite only experiencing my thoughts at this moment, be a valid reason to suggest that I am my life, but the fact this this brain feels like it is all conscious minds that were ever in Serbia, not be a valid reason to say that it really is all the thoughts that ever existed in Serbia? — A disturbed person
it's the fact to you only, not to your doctor or any alien and they would classify you as a psychological patient. We should not be overly confident in science so I can only say it's up to you to believe in yourself or another doctor or alien.
can't pick a time where a thought becomes another thought — A disturbed person
if you can't then you can only say you can't. Possibly others can, who knows. But it's true that you can not always control your thoughts so if you think it's not you, then again subjectively it's factual.
long term happiness usually requires short term sacrifice to achieve — A disturbed person
there's no good statistics, it's once again your and others subjective perception. There's no proved rule it must happen that way. Causality can only be comprehended within a very limited spacetime or context.
It's equivalently possible that sacrifices are finally worthless or happiness just comes without your own efforts (whose then we may never know).
It's much harder for me to do things I don't like if I accept A because I feel the thoughts from my later life that experience the benefits of this are not me. — A disturbed person
now this is the most important part. Your behaviors will finally define "what" you are and more. Even when you say you did bad things because some alien spirit controlled your brain. It's always only you who are responsible for that you become, nothing else is.
Are you saying you don't want to fulfill your duties because you are not sure what "your" future prize is?
Then you must have believed in things like do good get bad or vice versa. Again it's subjectivity and only you can decide.
most of nature is in an unhappy/uncomfortable state — A disturbed person
again your subjective perception, others can say the opposite. Nature is in any possible state. A hungry rabbit hunts for food doesn't tell you anything about him being happy or unhappy, just because it happens naturally. But if you find that living creatures are suffering, you are making the first step to a religious door.
if by getting a place at a university it means somebody also does not get that place — A disturbed person
you are assuming too much authority. Do you think you being on the earth at all is depriving somebody else's place? Throw that thought away immediately. You are responsible for your self only, all others are just secondary.
vast majority of people have not thought about this in a logical and unbiased way — A disturbed person
again you are claiming too much without second thoughts.
People are more likely to believe something if they want it to be true, and the more they want it to be true, the more biased they are when coming up with reasons for it. — A disturbed person
no, because it's easier to apprehend to them. Perceptions compare what's being received with what's already been in - innate or established. So again, your thoughts and behaviors are crucial because they gradually build up a strong foundation for or against what's next to receive. That's called being biased.
I think this is the main reason that people are religious — A disturbed person
people are religious because nothing else makes sense to them.
I think this is also the reason that most people who have thought about self identity don't come to the conclusion of option A or B — A disturbed person
2nd time I can't follow you
so long it's just that I think about this theory — A disturbed person
not long enough to make it a theory. What's your ultimate goal through all this elaboration then? get rid of what are in your head? not that simple.