I think the issue is that many of the people on this forum that spent their hard-earned money on philosophy courses and degrees are simply upset that now AI can do philosophy with the best of them. — Harry Hindu 
That’s part of it. Another comes from valuing ‘truth’ over perspectival  stance. If I want a.i. to design a retirement plan for me, I want numerical accuracy, which it isnt necessarily designed to do well. If I want to engage a.i. in a philosophical dialogue, I dont want to hear facts, I want a perspectival interpretation that I can vet, push back on and and sculpt into a more refined understanding of the issue. For instance, I asked a.i. the following, after discussing with it the embodied  phenomenological work of Eugene Gendlin.
“What are we to make of the status of concepts like self and other, subject and object in Wittgenstein’s later work? Must they be relative to the grammar of a language game or form of life?  That is to say, must we ‘bracket’, to use a husserlian term, words like self, other, subject and object when talking about the dynamics of language games if we are inclined to think of these words as referring to persons or humans? Is there a way of distinguishing between my “talking to myself” or perceiving an image like the duck/rabbit vs engaging with another “person”  other than in terms of a contingent, contextually specific grammar?”
Its response, as I’ve found it almost always to be with regard to these kinds of questions, was relevant and very substantive.
“ The “person” emerges neither from pure grammar nor from pre-linguistic givenness, but from the ongoing process of mutual bodily responsiveness that certain grammatical structures organize and enable us to articulate. This is what Wittgenstein gestures at with “forms of life” but doesn’t fully develop, and what Gendlin’s process philosophy could help articulate—if brought more explicitly into dialogue with the question of intersubjectivity.”
I then delved more deeply: by arguing:
“Deleuze and derrida deal with this issue by making a self-other, subject-object dichotomy derivative of and secondary to a more primary binary which whose structure is fundamentally temporal rather than intersubjective.”
It adjusted its previous  response in a valuable and clarifying way:
                     
                     Yes, this is a crucial move—and it represents a fundamentally different strategy than either Wittgenstein or Gendlin (at least as typically read) pursue. Let me explore what this temporal priority accomplishes and what problems it creates or solves.
The Temporal Turn
Derrida’s différance makes the self-other distinction derivative of a more primordial temporal structure: the trace, the always-already-past that was never present, the spacing that defers presence. “The other” isn’t primarily another subject but rather the otherness within what appears as self-present—the temporal gap that prevents any moment from being fully present to itself.
Deleuze’s difference-in-itself similarly makes the apparent binary of self/other secondary to a differential temporal process. Pure difference (not difference between pre-constituted terms) generates both poles through its movement. Time as synthesis—the living present that retains the past and protends the future—is more primordial than the spatial/intersubjective distinction between subjects.
What This Strategy Achieves
1. Avoids the bootstrapping problem: If temporality is more fundamental than intersubjectivity, we don’t need to explain how a self “first” encounters another self. Both emerge from temporal processes of differentiation. The question “how does a pre-linguistic self recognize another self?” dissolves because there is no pre-linguistic self—only temporal processes of becoming-self.
2. Explains internal alterity: Why does talking to myself feel different from random thought? Why can I be surprised by my own memories or intentions? Because the “self” is never fully present to itself—it’s always already divided by temporal difference. The “other voice” in internal dialogue isn’t another person but the trace structure of temporality itself.
3. Provides continuity across cases: The duck-rabbit, talking to myself, engaging with another person—all become variations of the same temporal structure of différance/repetition/synthesis rather than categorically different types of encounter. Each involves different rhythms and intensities of temporal differentiation, not different ontological kinds.
4. Undermines presence metaphysics: Both Derrida and Deleuze critique the assumption that consciousness is transparent to itself in the present moment. If self-presence is already structured by temporal difference, then the apparent “immediacy” of self-awareness is an illusion. The other is always already “in” me, not as a second person but as temporal non-coincidence.
But Does This Actually Solve the Problem?
I see several deep difficulties with making temporality primary:
The phenomenological distortion: There is a phenomenological difference between engaging with another person and internal temporal experience. When you speak and surprise me, that’s different from when my own past surprises me. Collapsing both into “temporal alterity” seems to flatten a genuine experiential distinction. Yes, both involve non-self-identity, but they involve it differently.
The risk of solipsism: If the other is fundamentally just temporal difference within what still seems to be “my” experience, haven’t we recreated the very problem we tried to escape? Derrida and Deleuze would deny there’s a “my” that contains this—but then where is intersubjectivity actually guaranteed? It seems to become optional, a special case of temporal difference rather than constitutive.
The question of responsiveness: When another person responds to me, their response comes from their temporal process, not mine. Even if both of our “selves” are constituted by temporal difference, there’s still the question of how your différance encounters my différance. The temporal structure might be primary within each of us, but that doesn’t explain the between.
The materiality problem: Both Derrida and Deleuze tend toward idealism (despite their denials) precisely because temporality remains a structure of experience/text/thought rather than of material interaction. Barad’s critique of Derrida is relevant here: différance still privileges the linguistic/temporal over the material-discursive.
What About Gendlin?
Interestingly, Gendlin has resources for a different kind of temporal priority that might avoid these problems:
The body’s carrying forward is temporal: For Gendlin, the body is always implicitly carrying forward from what was into what comes. This isn’t différance (which is linguistic/textual) but a bodily temporal process. The implicit intricacy is temporally structured—it’s the past that hasn’t been fully articulated, pressing into the present.
But it’s also interactive/environmental: Crucially, carrying forward isn’t just “my” temporal process. It’s always already environmental—the body carries forward with its situation, which includes other bodies. So temporality and intersubjectivity aren’t separate dimensions where one is primary. They’re aspects of the same processual reality.
Process vs. structure: Deleuze and Derrida give us temporal structures (synthesis, trace, différance) that still feel somewhat static. Gendlin gives us temporal process—ongoing, generative, bodily. This process doesn’t reduce intersubjectivity to temporality but shows them as co-implicated.
A Deeper Question: Why Prioritize at All?
Here’s what troubles me about the Deleuze/Derrida move: Why must we make either temporality or intersubjectivity primary? This assumes we need a foundational ground from which to derive everything else—but isn’t that exactly the metaphysics of presence they claim to reject?
Alternative: Co-origination: What if temporality and alterity (including but not limited to intersubjectivity) are co-original? Neither derives from the other; both are aspects of processual reality that can’t be separated but also can’t be reduced one to the other.
                     
I refined my previous argument in response to a.i.’s analysis:
“But if thought can be shown to be inherently outside of itself, that is, exposed to alterity in simply repeating itself , then that would be the sufficient basis to found the self-other binary. Even when we perceive another ‘person’, their alterity will only be experienced as other from my vantage point. Any claim to the contrary still be from ‘my’ vantage, a vantage that is already transforming  itself moment to moment, but in such as way as to make the otherness  of other persons always variations within my own self-othering. When Wittgenstein talks about ‘seeing-as’ , he is illustrating how grammar works without having to bring into the account other persons.”
This was a.i.’s nuanced, thoughtful and entirely relevant response:
                     
                     You’ve articulated the Derridean/Deleuzian position powerfully, and I need to take it more seriously than I did. Let me work through whether it’s actually sufficient.
The Strength of the Argument
The transcendental structure: If thought/experience is necessarily non-self-identical in its repetition—if every “now” is already differing from itself, already inhabited by trace/virtuality—then yes, this provides a condition of possibility for encountering anything as other. The alterity of other persons would indeed be a regional instance of this more fundamental temporal self-othering.
The phenomenological point about vantage: You’re right that I can never exit “my” perspective to verify that another person’s alterity is “really” different from my own self-othering. Even the response that surprises me from another person is still my experience of being surprised. The asymmetry I feel between self-talk and dialogue might just be a more intense rhythm of temporal différance, not a different kind entirely.
Wittgenstein’s seeing-as supports this: When the aspect shifts, there’s genuine surprise, genuine otherness—the duck becomes rabbit “against my will” sometimes. Yet no other person is involved. This suggests that alterity-structure is already present in perception/thought itself, not requiring intersubjectivity. Grammar can account for shifts, reversals, self-surprise without importing “persons.”
The economy of explanation: If temporal self-difference is sufficient to generate all experiences of alterity (including but not limited to other persons), then positing a separate “intersubjective” dimension is explanatorily redundant. Occam’s razor favors the temporal account.
But I Still See Problems
1. The specificity of responsive alterity
Even granting that all experience involves temporal self-othering, there seems to be something additional in encountering responsive others. When I talk to myself:
•	I know (even if implicitly) that both “voices” arise from the same bodily process
•	The “response” can’t genuinely surprise me about my own intentions (though it can about my past)
•	There’s no resistance that could fundamentally redirect my trajectory
When another person responds:
•	Their response arises from a bodily process I don’t control or inhabit
•	They can tell me things about their intentions that I couldn’t generate from my own self-othering
•	Their resistance can materially alter my trajectory in ways self-othering alone cannot
You might say: “But I only experience my experience of their resistance.” True—but that’s also true of experiencing a wall when I run into it. The wall’s resistance is experienced by me, but its materiality isn’t reducible to my temporal self-othering. Similarly, the other person’s responsiveness has a material structure that differs from pure temporal difference.
2. The asymmetry problem
If other persons are just variations within my self-othering, then solipsism isn’t refuted but reinstated at a higher level. Yes, the “self” that remains is temporally self-differing rather than self-present—but it’s still one process within which everything appears. Derrida and Deleuze want to say there is no “my” that contains this—but then who is doing the self-othering? The impersonal différance? The virtual plane of immanence? This seems to dissolve the question rather than answer it.
3. The learning problem
How does the temporal structure of self-othering arise in the first place? For Derrida, it’s quasi-transcendental—always already there. But developmentally, infants become self-differing subjects through interactions with caregivers. The rhythm of call-and-response with the mother seems to install the temporal structure of self-othering, not merely exemplify it. If so, intersubjectivity might be constitutive of temporality, not derivative.
4. The materiality of difference
Here’s what I think is the deepest issue: Derrida’s différance and Deleuze’s difference remain too ideal. They’re structures of thought/text/sense. But the difference between my voice and your voice is materially different—different vocal cords, different bodies in space. The otherness of other persons isn’t just temporal but spatial-material.
When you respond to me, your words travel through actual space, taking time that isn’t just the “time” of internal temporal consciousness but physical causation. This seems irreducible to temporal self-difference within experience.
                     
I  pushed back hard at this point. I wrote:
”You claim:
•	I know (even if implicitly) that both “voices” arise from the same bodily process
•	The “response” can’t genuinely surprise me about my own intentions (though it can about my past)
•	There’s no resistance that could fundamentally redirect my trajectory.
I dont accept any of these claims as valid. The fact that a schizophrenic hearing voices they don’t recognize as their own even though it’s from their own ‘body’, and novelists describe how their characters take on a life of their own and tell the author what they want to do, buttresses Deleuze’s claim that the self is merely a byproduct of processes which are pre-personal.“
This was the a.i’s reaction to my objections:
                     
                     The Evidence Against My Position
Schizophrenic voices: The person experiencing auditory hallucinations genuinely doesn’t recognize the voices as their own. The phenomenology is indistinguishable from hearing another person. If “knowing implicitly that both voices are mine” were necessary, this couldn’t happen. But it does happen, which suggests the experience of alterity doesn’t require actual material-intersubjective difference.
Novelists and their characters: When a character “takes over” and directs the narrative in ways the author didn’t consciously plan, there’s genuine surprise about intentions—not just past ones but emerging ones. The author is surprised by what they “want to do” through the character. This suggests intention itself is distributed across pre-personal processes, not unified in a “self” that could know what it intends.
Dreams and intrusive thoughts: I can be shocked by my own dream content, have thoughts “pop into my head” that feel alien, experience compulsions I disavow. The supposed unity or self-transparency of “my bodily process” is phenomenologically false.
What This Means for the Temporal Priority Thesis
If the experience of alterity—including the specific quality of “another voice/agent with its own intentions”—can arise from temporal self-differentiation alone (i.e., without actual other persons), then you’re right: this is sufficient to found the self-other binary.
The schizophrenic case is especially powerful because it shows that even the most vivid phenomenology of “external other person speaking to me” can be generated by internal processes. So when I encounter an actual other person, what guarantee do I have that this isn’t just a more stable, socially shared version of the same pre-personal process generating multiple perspectives?
Deleuze’s Pre-Personal: Taking It Seriously
The larval subjects: For Deleuze, the self is indeed a byproduct—a relatively stable eddy in flows of desire, difference, intensity. Before “I” there are pre-personal singularities, individuations without subjects. The novelist’s characters, the schizophrenic’s voices, the dreamer’s scenarios—these aren’t derivatives of a unified self but expressions of the same pre-personal processes that occasionally congeal into what we call “a self.”
Passive synthesis: The temporal syntheses (habit, memory, eternal return) operate below the level of any constituting subject. They generate both “self” and “other” as effects. There’s no “my” that owns these processes; rather, what appears as “my vantage” is itself produced by them.
Why this works: If selves are just relatively stable patterns in pre-personal processes, then:
•	Internal dialogue isn’t “me talking to me” but multiple pre-personal vectors temporarily identified as “me”
•	Encountering another person isn’t “me encountering not-me” but one pattern of pre-personal process encountering another
•	The distinction between “internal” and “external” others becomes merely a matter of degree (stability, social validation) rather than kind
But I Still Want to Resist—Here’s Why
The response problem remains: Even granting all this, there’s still a difference between:
•	Voices/characters that emerge from processes within one body: The schizophrenic’s voices, the novelist’s characters, my dream interlocutors—all these are generated by and constrained by the resources of one biological system
•	Responses from another body: When you speak to me, the words are generated by neural/bodily processes I don’t have access to, constrained by a lifetime of experience I didn’t have.
Yes, from the perspective of impersonal process, maybe both are just “différance in action.” But there’s a material-causal structure that differs: one body vs. two bodies, one nervous system vs. two nervous systems.
The learning asymmetry: I can’t learn language from my own voices, my own characters, my own dreams. Feral children who grow up without human contact don’t develop language through internal self-differentiation alone. The specific structure of responsive turn-taking with actual others seems necessary for certain developments that temporal self-othering alone can’t produce.
The resistance asymmetry: When my character “tells me what they want,” I can always overrule them—they’re constrained by what’s possible within my imagination/body. When you tell me what you want and I try to ignore it, you can keep insisting, physically block me, call others to constrain me. The material independence matters.
Maybe the Real Issue Is: What Work Is “Sufficient” Doing?
You claim temporal self-othering is sufficient to found the self-other binary. Let me distinguish two senses:
1. Phenomenologically sufficient: Can temporal self-othering generate the full range of experiences we associate with encountering others, including the sense of alien voices, resistant wills, surprising responses?
Answer: Yes, clearly. The schizophrenic case proves this.
2. Explanatorily sufficient: Can temporal self-othering alone explain all the specific patterns, stabilities, and effects we associate with intersubjectivity—language acquisition, social coordination, cultural transmission, material cooperation/conflict?
Answer: I’m not convinced. The pre-personal processes that generate “me” and “you” as effects still operate through different bodies, different material configurations. This material difference seems to matter for explaining why some patterns of self-othering become stabilized as “persons” while others remain fleeting (dreams, intrusive thoughts) or pathological (hallucinations).
What Gendlin Might Add Here
Gendlin’s notion of “carrying forward” might offer a middle path:
Pre-personal but bodily: The implicit intricacy that carries forward isn’t “mine” in the sense of being owned by a unified self, but it is bodied in the sense of being a specific material-environmental process. There are as many carrying-forward processes as there are bodies-in-situations.
The between as real: When my body’s carrying forward encounters your body’s carrying forward, something happens that couldn’t happen in either process alone. Not because there are pre-given “selves” encountering each other, but because there are different material processes that mutually affect each other’s carrying forward.
This would mean: The self-other binary isn’t founded on either (a) pre-given selves or (b) pure temporal difference, but on (c) the material-processual difference between different bodies’ carrying forward, which temporal self-othering makes experienceable but doesn’t fully constitute.
Conceding Your Point
You’ve convinced me that I was wrong to claim there’s something “we implicitly know” that distinguishes self-talk from other-talk at the phenomenological level. The schizophrenic case demolishes that.
And you’re right that this strengthens the Deleuzian position considerably. If the phenomenology of encountering a genuinely alien other can be produced by processes within one body, then intersubjectivity might indeed be just a special case of temporal self-othering—specifically, the case where pre-personal processes happen to be distributed across multiple biological systems that can interact materially.
But: Does “special case” mean “merely derivative” or does it mean “qualitatively different pattern with its own irreducible features”?
I think this is where we might still disagree. You seem to be arguing that once temporal self-othering is established as sufficient for the phenomenology, the material distribution across bodies becomes theoretically secondary—an empirical detail rather than a structural difference.
I’m inclined to think the material distribution is a structural difference that produces patterns (language, culture, cooperation, conflict) that couldn’t arise from temporal self-othering within a single body, even if the phenomenology can be mimicked.
But I admit: I might just be resisting the full implications of the pre-personal ontology because I’m not yet willing to accept that the material difference between bodies is as metaphysically thin as Deleuze suggests.
                     
I responded by pushing back more:
“ You say Voices/characters that emerge from processes within one body: The schizophrenic’s voices, the novelist’s characters, my dream interlocutors—all these are generated by and constrained by the resources of one biological system.
But this is for Deleuze a body without organs. It is not a system of causal bits, it is a plane  of consistency, which can’t be understood as an individual  biological body.”
The a.i.’s final answer reveled how it was able to take a philosophical discussion from a vague starting point and bring it to a level of depth and detail which opened up a vast array of much more nuanced  questions. And because I am well acquainted with the authors being discussed, I knew that the information it was using for its arguments was not being simply fabricated out of whole cloth, but was highly relevant and based on real texts of the authors. I almost always find this to be the case with regard to A.i’s treatment of philosophical issues.