Searching for meaning in suffering All right bear with me here: I did not set out to strictly have an argument, firstly. I make no comment on suffering being necessary for a full life. I don't know what a 'full' life might entail and certainly wouldn't wish to comment on it. Nor do I know what a 'good' life would entail. Life is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be experienced as Kierkegaard says. I'm working with broad brushes here, that's part of it.
My point, as initially stated, is to talk about our natural inclination for finding meaning in this reality of suffering. In order to understand my point, you have to accept a few axioms. Which is why I have to take the time to explain them.
My terms would be:
Suffering: entails strain, pain, work, sacrifice,
Value: entails reward, enlightenment, good fortune, opportunity
Now keeping in mind my terms, my axioms would be:
1. All of reality is hostile to human life
2. To survive the suffering of reality, we assign value to suffering to make sense of suffering
3. In assigning value to suffering, we begin to make the correlation that suffering has inherent value
If you accept those axioms, then we get to the discussion I was hoping to have, which is that our relationship with value and suffering is dangerously flawed and can be taken advantage of, particularly when we begin to make the false assumption that suffering always entails value and fail to recognize that sometimes suffering is just suffering, full stop. This may seem obvious, but I would argue that it isn't and that we are extremely prone to falling for this false correlation.
The example I use is the swindling of the German people by the Nazis into accepting authoritarianism and then war and then genocide. Hitler used promises of good fortune, enlightenment, rewards and opportunities to make sense of the sacrifices and sufferings of plunging Germany into war. It is common to justify war as a sacrifice for the future good. I see this common theme repeated in many avenues of life and in history.
The most blatant historic example is when we literally sacrificed human beings in the mystical belief that we could sort of 'buy' good fortune from the gods. If you accept that we assign value to suffering, then it would seem to make sense to a more primitive mind that by increasing the sacrifice and suffering to the maximum, we would stand to gain the most amount of value. I hope you can see what I mean. This is a very extreme example of fundamentally failing to understand how reality works, but all of human history has been walking back this misunderstanding, from literal human sacrifice to the sacrifice of animals, to the much more palatable symbolic sacrifice of the perfect man Christ.
In this way, we misunderstand this reality we live in! Especially because Christian teachings tell us that suffering is a good thing, that bearing your cross and emulating the suffering of Christ is a good thing, we are prone to making fatal mistakes about life. One of these mistakes is assuming that just because we work really hard, sacrifice and suffer we can increase our value in society by making ourselves rich, or by making ourselves enlightened. It's true that we can work hard to get a better job, but it's also true that many people work hard at their jobs and don't make any money at them, even if their intention is to get a better job.
My point is not to suggest that nothing has value or that suffering can't have value - that would be absurd. It's to talk about the times when we get swindled by the promise of value, it is to talk about our instincts and our historical relationship to suffering and what has become an expectation of value. That is what I'm interested in. I fully recognize the pedestrian fact that suffering can lead to value.