Donald Trump (All General Trump Conversations Here) I often see Trump supporters call his detractors "Trump haters" as if our judgment is clouded by some irrational emotion, as if our mere dislike of him is itself evidence that we aren't capable of any sort of objectivity or reason. Well, I'd like to address that in this post. I didn't always hate Trump. I was disappointed he won in 2016 but I wished him the best. I thought he was sort of a demagogue, a buffoon and a non-serious person... But I also hoped that as a political outsider he might do some interesting and different things.
I didn't hate Trump right away, but then I began to realize he was a habitual sore loser. I hate sore losers. I hate them when they are the neighbor kids, I hate them when they are me, and I hate them when they are the POTUS. That is the core reason I hate Donald Trump. He's a malevolent sore loser who puts his own ego before the country's interests. He's like a spoiled kid who was never taught by his parents the very important maxim: "Don't be a sore loser." This isn't just a hollow platitude, it is one of the principles that allows us to function as a stable society. It is especially important in a form of government like a democratic republic because we are constantly having elections with winners and losers. We are constantly engaged in the peaceful transition of power in order to respect the will of the people who do the voting. Without people who accept losing graciously, the fabric of this system becomes frayed, and eventually will rip apart. Donald Trump isn't doing this accidentally, or unintentionally, either -- we can see he has history of using the recurring claim that the only way he (or his side) can lose an election is if it is fraudulent. Saying the election was stolen cannot be a belief based on evidence when he starts claiming this prior to the election taking place. And he does it over and over. He did this in 2020 with Joe Biden. He did it in 2016 with Hilary Clinton. He did it in the 2016 Iowa primary with Ted Cruz. He even did it by proxy for Mitt Romney in 2012 when he tweeted "This election is a total sham and a travesty" and "We can't let this happen. We should march on Washington and stop this travesty." It has enough frequency that we can call it Trump's modus operandi.
The difference between a child who is a sore loser and an adult like Donald Trump or Kari Lake being a sore loser is that children can learn to stop doing it and overcome their emotional immaturity. The adults know better -- or at least have no excuse not to, at this point -- but choose to be sore losers as a form of strategy. Trump's refusal to graciously accept defeat (and attempt to disrupt the peaceful transition of power) is the cause of so many problems we as a country are experiencing, and may even result in our country being ripped apart in a civil war.