Religious Perspectives and Sexuality: What are the Controversial Areas For Philosophical Debate? Premise 1:
I think religious persons seek control more than other persons do. After a slight loss of control they fear great instability. So it may be an overreaction. Now, for them, the control may be provided by a higher creature and not necessarily by the persons themselves. Nevertheless, that higher creature is, in my opinion, an invention of such persons, hence in the end this control is provided by that persons themselves indeed -- mentally.
Premise 2:
Sexuality is something that is typically out of control.
Conclusion:
Persons that seek control try to avoid sexuality.
Recently I listened to an interview with a Buddhist Shaolin Kung Fu master. He hurts himself all day, every day, with all kinds of tools. He also avoids sexual activities. Why? He said, he wants to completely control his mind and body which includes the controlled suppression of pain by repeating the painful routines on a daily basis. I guess, this growing experience of resistance makes him more happy than the satisfaction experienced during a 10 second orgasm which is, of course, provoked by a strange force outside the own will. -- I think, at the end of the day, even this procedure is just another variation of joy. Life isn't about avoiding joy. It's about having the goal to achieve joy. That's the motor. Life is activity.